Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

I am a 19 year old guy and dont want to get married or have kids.
I ask questions like this and people say I am to young and will change my mind. Well I am not to young and have made my mind up on this one. I just wanna live in a apartment or condo by myself. I would rather be alone and not have to deal with anyone else. Why does everyone think all there is to life is marriage and having kids and then tell me there is something wrong with me when I dont want any of that. I stand alone and dont want or need anyone, I dont get lonely either, so no I wont be one of those grumpy old man when I get older( for most of you that answered my other question about this). Also people always say dumb stuff like "I was like you at your age and I changed my mind," well good for you, but I am not you so enough of that bull. People just cant except other ways people live

2007-09-26 16:38:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Refer to the Commandment Thou Shalt Not Murder(Kill), and Christians will refer you to many verses where God says to kill.
Refer to Loving, and Christians will refer you to verses that say Hate your enemies, etc. Refer to peace, and Christians will refer you to verses that say Make War, Refer to the new covenant and Christians will quote Jesus saying he didn't come to change anything from the old teachings (OT).
No wonder we have so many Christian denominations, since the Bible is chockful of contradictions proving it is nothing but a bunch of personal opinions of various writers having nothing whatever to do with the word of God. God would not be idiotic enough to contradict themself a thousand times over!

2007-09-26 16:37:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it because of the size of the pistol? I guess taller guys have larger pistol and better shots.

2007-09-26 16:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by Need T 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are a very happy couple. We have no trust issues, He and I have friends from the opposite sex. We love each other very much. We have a mutual friend that is Bisexual. We were talking and we both had at one point in time wondered what it would be like to have a threesome. I have never been with anyone, except for my husband. I have been very curious as to what it would be like to be with a woman. I am just wondering what others think on this subject.. The threesome would be me, my hubby, and another woman. Please let me know your imput on this. Thank you so much.

2007-09-26 16:31:47 · 39 answers · asked by Bubblebunzz 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It dosen't mean your gay. It just means your doing something different. They like it, but then they try to deny that they liked it or that it even happened. Why is this?

2007-09-26 16:29:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My long-term boyfriend cheated on me. He had about a 3-4 month affair, and told the woman that he was in love with her. What he did really hit home with me. I think that my boyfriend and I have something so special, so we're still together. I tried ending things with him, but he was very persistant with calling me afterwards and begging for me to take him back. He made it VERY clear that he'd never cheat on me again and that he was sorry. I eventually decided to give him another chance. I feel like I've done all the crying in the world and I've asked him almost every question I could think of regarding the affair, but the pain is still there. I constantly have nightmares about him cheating, and I don't trust him at all. I have all of his passwords for everything so I can keep tabs on him. It's sad that my "perfect" relationship had to come to this. We don't have money for therapy, so what's the best way that we can try and work things out ourselves?Talking doesn't seem to help anymore.

2007-09-26 16:28:09 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad and I have never gotten along. I'm 28. It seems all the father/daughter dance songs are for those who have close relationships. We do not.

2007-09-26 16:25:49 · 16 answers · asked by First Lady 7 in Weddings

We want to try a threesome but where we live there is noone even remotely interested. Should I search proffessionally or try the internet? It is a fantasy of ours but how to go about finding the right person for a one time thing

2007-09-26 16:24:28 · 29 answers · asked by mollyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 16:22:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please,just help me.This guy,is absoulutely adorable.He kinda talks to me and we give hugs and says hi.He also always looks at me,and we are just good friends.What do i do to get his attention and make him like me???Please.....dont give me answers like "you cant get him to like you" or "u cant make him" i just need help.please.GUYS AND GIRLS.HELP.=]

2007-09-26 16:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 16:21:47 · 30 answers · asked by chill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I just started having sex. We've admitted to eachother that we've had sex with other people nad so far it was fine. But, my girlfriend said she was feeling too uncomfortable with my penis within her, yet, she continued on. Soon she said it was painful and we stopped. We asked a physician of proper techniques and stuff like that and we had a full physical. In comparison with our bodies he said it was just because my penis was too big (10.5 inches). Now sadly my girlfriend has begun to stop talking to me, what should I do to raise her mood? (non-sexually)

2007-09-26 16:20:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help!!
my mom wants me to live her In England i really want to its just that its hard for me to leave my dad. my mom wants me to try it for 6 months and if i dont like it i can go back. i love england and i love california.
i love my dad but i love my mom. i want to go but i dont want my dad to be sad :(
i would go on visit him if i lived in england. i am so lost i dont know what to do. also i just started cheer and we have compitions and i cant bail till after. but i dont think i am going to stay for the whole year i think i going to move to england in march. am i being to hard on my dad? i kinda feel like i am ditching my dad to go to England. will i be doing the right thing if i do move?

2007-09-26 16:20:25 · 2 answers · asked by lexy 1 in Family

family like your parents and your sisters because he dose not get along with your family. and that he will divorce you if you do talk to them i don't know what to do please if someone can give some advice thanks.

2007-09-26 16:19:08 · 42 answers · asked by kristic07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 16:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the past 2 months an attractive 24 yr old female has received two unsolicited invitations to men's hotel rooms (one from an acquaintance and the other from a guy at work who she supposedly only knows on a hi & bye basis), a request for sex from another office mate and at least one call in the middle of the night from an intoxicated coworker who wanted to know why she wouldn't go out with him.
Is this something that is common to most women? If not, why might this be happening to this particular woman?

2007-09-26 16:14:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Be creative and unique.

2007-09-26 16:11:08 · 1 answers · asked by Serious 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i told her i would never talk to her again..my mother in law knew the pain his affair caused me but she invited the woman to dinner knowing it..

2007-09-26 16:10:43 · 33 answers · asked by glitsyjewels 3 in Family

for petes sake,its just less teeth & more gum


;)

2007-09-26 16:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my ex's name is ruben my Bf's name is Jeff. well all my friends hate jeff. they said me and ruben made a much cuter couple and they would rather me go back out with ruben.[jeff talks crap on my friends] well ruben has a gf, he broke up with her today! and i was soooo happy cuz i still like him a lot. well i was the first person ruben told that he broke up with his gf! plus this past week ruben has been talking to me a lot more, and he gave me a hug a lunch today.He also started texting me again yesterday after not texting eachother for a couple months. but for the past 2 weeks i have been catching him looking at me. yeah i know i have a bf but my bf is so weird, my friends hate him,hes controlling, he flirts with everygirl and hes a player,he says rude things to me and everything. but ruben hes like the nicest guy ever, he never did any of that. even after we broke up he is stil really nice to me. Should i break up with jeff and try to go back out with ruben, do you think he still likes me?

2007-09-26 15:55:44 · 4 answers · asked by alaina marie 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay...just by reading the question, you probably think I'm an annoying person, but trust me...I'm nice and NOT annoying.

This girl, though, I think, is jealous of me. I am a transfer student and, surprisingly, I dress like her (same fashion/style). Last year, when she was a freshman, people would always comment her outfits and how she looks cute. Now, since I'm here, people tend to comment me rather than her, and she sort of seems jealous. For instance, whenever she hears someone comment me, she just walks away swiftly. She's usually nice to me, but she's been ignoring me since two days ago.

What should I do? Act normal to her?... Or should I ignore her, as well?

2007-09-26 15:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by dancelikewhaaaat 1 in Singles & Dating

This is my fiance's second wedding and my first. His sister and I are the same age. I don't like her. His mother is apparently mad that she is not in the wedding, but has said nothing to me about it. I don't want her in the wedding. My two sisters are my bridesmaids and they are both in good shape. I picked a dress that flatters them. My fiance's sister is... well... fat and would look horrible in the dress. I know that I will have to bear the brunt for her not being in the wedding -or- have to hear about how inconsiderate I am for making her wear such an unflattering dress. HELP!!! She is such a spoiled brat and gets whatever she wants. I'm ranting; I know... I just need some backup here.

2007-09-26 15:52:45 · 13 answers · asked by tinars02 2 in Weddings

Also should I get a special insignia on my tux because I saved him from alcohol poisoning in college??

2007-09-26 15:51:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So according to many people on here this guy I work with seems to be interested in me (I hope). So I'm just wondering if this is another good sign or was he just chatting today?
We were talking and the conversation got around to me asking him if he'd ever been to Paris. He said he hadn't but was planning a trip there this summer and then asked if I was interested in planning a trip there too (or something to that effect). I then told him I'd already been and he thought that was very cool and told me he'd love to see my pics sometime.
I can't remember his exact words about me taking a trip too but I know it was something to the effect that I could have taken it as an invitation or not. It was not like he said "hey do you want to come with me" or anything but he didn't just say he was planning on going.
Does this sound like an invitation to mention this again or just something to say at the time and he's already forgotten it?

2007-09-26 15:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some things i can do 2 to turn my wife on more 2 get her more interested in me in the bedroom?

2007-09-26 15:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by J J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 15:48:58 · 13 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1 in Singles & Dating

is that too much to ask?
P.S. Are you to be loving the big jesus?
Please answer both Question?

2007-09-26 15:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by lovdoctr 1 in Singles & Dating

My new guy friend likes my bestfriend. My bestfriend doesnt like him. But HER friend likes my new guyfriend.


Should I just tell him that he has no chance with my bestfriend ? Because my BFF has made it clear with me that she will never give him a chance.

2007-09-26 15:46:31 · 15 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 15:46:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i made a really big mistake, i go to this school where the PTA gets involved in every bodys buisenes, a few months back i sent a picture of my self in a bikini to a friend on myspace wich i new from school, he wanted underwhere but knowing that was bad i sent him a bathing suit insteed thinking it wasnt that bad becase he could see me any day in a bikini like if we go to the beach or something. he told his friend and now he wants one, i said no, do u think i can get introble at school? i mean if he told everyone wouldnt it be his fault for spreading rumors? if u no some kind of law, anything please send it to me, i dont no what to do

2007-09-26 15:45:37 · 4 answers · asked by Class of '08 2 in Friends