Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

my girlfriend and i decided that this yr we would choose eachothers costumes for halloween. i chose to make her dress like a slutty nurse and she just sed that shed dress me like a girl.. what do u think she is thinking exactly?

2007-09-26 17:57:22 · 5 answers · asked by sypher5590 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 17:56:04 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 years old and in the 8th grade.....it seems that everyone around me has more "experience" than i do. ive never been kissed at all, ive never held hands, ive never done ANYTHING. i feel frustrated because everyone around me has....do you people think there may be something wrong with me?

2007-09-26 17:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i have known my ex 4 about 1 year and about 4 mos. 1st every thing was aright...then after 4 mos in the bf & gf thing i cheat on him (cause he was moving & i didnt get to talk to him & i was missing him) so yeah 1 st time then after 3 mos i found out that he had a another gf. so i talked 2 her and asked her whats her deal trying to take my man? she said idk but mike loves me. i said no but we just started 2 get in a fight. then i asked my bf( @ the time) & he said no so i said ur a lier & i no the ''A'' 2 what i asked u... he tryed to tell me that she was lieing but i didnt belive it. so we broke up & he start to date her.. o i moved on (this time it was easyer) i was dating my ex but @ the same time we both was cheating on them.
he broke up w/ her and asked me out but i said no cause i was dating my ex...so i said yes to him after 2 mos. so we tryed agian (he would tell me what 2 do and ****) (we were off & on) he calls me but we dont talk its just bitching soooo plz help me

2007-09-26 17:54:15 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to be able to stop talking to him stop seeing him and just stop everything!! Why cant I? Is there anything I can do to help like "ween" myself off him?!

2007-09-26 17:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Hannahbanana 1 in Singles & Dating

At 10 months old, I have read and believe that my daughter should have some ability to soothe herself to sleep at night. Mom feeds her a bottle and rocks her for 30-60 min until she is sound asleep and then puts her to bed. She cries and appears defiantly not to want to go to bed. I say as long as she is good: fresh diaper, properly fed, warm, secure, soft music, nothing hurting her---she might have to lay there and cry for 10-15 minutes. Am I mean? An older friend told me she always regrets not doing that with her own daughter---teaching them to soothe themselves to sleep. my baby sleeps well at my house--sometimes cries for 3-5 minutes--- No one can seem to get through to her--Any ideas IF my ideas ar---What is right? If she awakes at 230a, Mom fixes a warm bottle and rocks her back to sleep..? How can I get through to her without pissing her off and causing problems. Why won't she bring our daughter to my Mom & Dad's? every other day at her parents Please help

2007-09-26 17:52:32 · 7 answers · asked by boyfromtoledo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i started going out with this guy thinking this time things would go alot better... wel not exactly going too well... he is rushing things I think!!! he says he loves me and we have only been going out for like 5 days.. i dont want to say it back cuz i mean that is a strong word to use....and ever since i have been going out with him i am VERY depressed and dont ever want to do anything...what should i do??? i dont want to break his heart!!!!

2007-09-26 17:51:15 · 18 answers · asked by {K-La} 4 in Singles & Dating

she has been hurt and reserved. her heart is shut down for love. she likes me but won't kiss me even during heated settings....you know. she is in an adult so am I.

2007-09-26 17:49:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm only 14 and my boyfriend is 17.
We had sex about two months ago and he used protection...
But I was supposed to have my period about two weeks after it happened and it never came.
It still hasn't come...
I want to tell my boyfriend, but I'm scared he'll leave me or deny it or something.
How can I tell him?
Or should I, yet? I haven't taken a test yet, and I don't want to freak him out over nothing.

2007-09-26 17:49:03 · 5 answers · asked by SoCal11 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have a girlfriend why do you feel the need to sleep with other girls do you get sick of your bf and want something diff or what?My fiances firend does this to his gf and i dont know why?it makes me think do all guys do this?why does he hes always talkin about how he loves her but yet when she goes to bed he goes and trys to sleep with other girls?why do you guys feel the need to do that?

2007-09-26 17:43:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm definely attracted to her, but the age difference concerns me. She has made the first advance, by asking to have dinner sometime. Should I make her aware of my age before we set up a dinner date? Also if I do, and things work out, what would parents think? Once a parent always a parent!! Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?

2007-09-26 17:42:46 · 10 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 17:40:45 · 29 answers · asked by jcf_92 1 in Singles & Dating

has anyone ever moved because they just hated their old life and their old friends and just wanted to start a new life???

im 16

was it a good decision??
are you glad you did it?
is your new life better than your old one??

2007-09-26 17:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by abercrombie<3 1 in Family

Everytime my friend hears that someone likes her she gets all ooh lala on herself and flirts with him. At first i think that she likes him too but it turns out she really doesn't and just wants him to like her so she can feel loved. I think that's stupid because that's like giving him the wrong idea, am i wrong?

But that's not all, when the guy finally stops liking her she follows him around and flirts and tries to win his love back.

Now im a girl too and i know it feels good to have someone be crushing on you and that's ok, right? I just have a problem when she acts like she wants all the boys in the whol school to like her. I think she needs to relax and pick one for crying out loud LOL! I mean she should stop teasing them right.

Some of you may say that im just jealouse but i dont know. I do kind of get mad and jealous( I admit) when she tries to make all these guys like her. I mean she can't have all of them right, I'd like to date a few because im still looking 4 Mr Rit

2007-09-26 17:30:33 · 3 answers · asked by DeziFERshezi 2 in Friends

2007-09-26 17:28:58 · 32 answers · asked by huntress 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im almost 21 years old, married and have a 6 month old baby boy. i just got layed off from my job today and next week is my last week at work-i have no idea what im going to do for a job if i should even get another one right away. my husband is in the military but his orders end of friday and starting on monday he will be starting a construction job. of course money is a really important and quite stressful thing in anyones life and this is one that that affects us most. we are a low income family as it is and if i dont work (and when i did i wasnt make that much money anyways) i dont know if it would affect our current money situation. i have pros and cons of being a stay at home mother. my pros are that i dont have to wake my baby up so early to take him to my moms house so she can watch him, i can get more stuff done around our house, spend more time with him-etc-but the cons are not making money for income to help out and i would just be sitting home all day. any suggestions!

2007-09-26 17:26:49 · 15 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

Ummm......"blushing" you know what should I do and not do? Thanks!

2007-09-26 17:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by silenceofnike 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter was raised with affection and material things in early life. Always getting a 4pt gpa, she cut classes & dropped out of high school with only two credits needed to grad in her jr yr (got diploma at community college). She moved away as soon as she graduated to my relief. Since then, has had more than 10 jobs. Has moved in and out of relationships, bought a home (& lost a home). Has moved 9 times in three years, always a step down. Now she needs to move again. She is asking to move back home for several reasons. She now wants to go to college. She wants to quit her part time job, buy a horse (puhleeze), is in debt more than 10k and can't pass credit check & wants to file bankruptcy. I'm divorced & reunited with her father, and their relationship is strained. Oh.. also, she has 2dogs & cat, won't part with. She doesn't share my values. I was raised that we always help family, but maybe she needs to learn the hard lesson. I have to live with myself tho, and need advice

2007-09-26 17:24:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-26 17:13:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 17:11:26 · 3 answers · asked by alex 2 in Singles & Dating

What are some flrty things to say to a guy?

2007-09-26 17:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Kay-kay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok boys if you love someone so much would you let them go just like that or would you still have feelings for her?

2007-09-26 17:06:40 · 13 answers · asked by my 3 in Singles & Dating

I'd especially love to hear from older women who are truly living it.

2007-09-26 17:06:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy apologied to us all but I have to go to meet with the grand jury oct 3rd, the only thing that is stoppin me is that he has a 5 year old daughter, and since he is on 2nd degree charges for sodomy and child molestation he could serve up tp 15-35 years in prison and I want him to be in his daughters life, but then again i don't know if he has done this to other gurls I am 17 and come to think of it, he did blame me and say I made sexual advances...So Hard question tough answers throw it all at me what you guys think

Please dont be rude this is hard for me it happend in June, 3 days later we filed to press charges it took them 5 months before transfering the case to sex crimes division now that I have met with the general I have to go to meet with the jury, so Please no rudeness I need advice or oppinions, so apologies count in this matter?? or should I go on with it, I have had 5 people tell me to go on with it because they said I would regret it in the long run. so should I?

2007-09-26 17:04:12 · 26 answers · asked by Sky * 1 in Singles & Dating

me and him are not together any more and we wont to get back together but we are foucued on get our **** together what should we do say **** it or try to work it out with each other and still be fouced! MAN WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-09-26 17:04:12 · 6 answers · asked by poohbutt25 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 16:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've have been married for 4 years he was never really a romantic person. well when we first started he used to give me a little affection even in public now we hardly kiss we don't cuddle and he doesn't hold my hand. he touches me only when he wants sex we have sex every single day (except that time of the month). when i asked he said I don't give him affection and if he doesn't get it he is not going to give. I do hug and kiss him every now and then but not the way i would like to sometimes i feel the same way if he doesn't do it why should I. i don't think he is cheating he is a good man and is always home. what do i do?

2007-09-26 16:58:34 · 5 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to keep good relations with my daughter's father. He see's her once every 6 months or less. And she's only 3. Anyways... I've tried to ask nicely..for help..any help... $20, 30, 50....every so often something.... but he never does. I have been really nice ...but how long do I let this go on. I could really use the help. But I don't want to make him mad and just not have anything to do with us, or rather her. She deserves to have a dad... and I have never kept him from her. So tell me guys... do you get mad when they ask for child support? What do you suggest?

2007-09-26 16:56:24 · 20 answers · asked by ol me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ns we both just started working and iam 19 and she is 21 any help please , We live in Md

2007-09-26 16:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-26 16:51:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating