I'm only 14 and my boyfriend is 17.
We had sex about two months ago and he used protection...
But I was supposed to have my period about two weeks after it happened and it never came.
It still hasn't come...
I want to tell my boyfriend, but I'm scared he'll leave me or deny it or something.
How can I tell him?
Or should I, yet? I haven't taken a test yet, and I don't want to freak him out over nothing.
2007-09-26 17:49:03 · 5 answers · asked by SoCal11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you are in a mess aren't you? You need to have a little talk with your Mom. Yes, it is time to do so. You need to go to the doctor to take a pregnancy test. Hopefully, it has just been a scare, but only a test will give you this answer. Then, when you have the answer, you, your parents, and this boy need to have a talk about your two's behavior. You two have engage into adult behavior with adult consequences. Good luck and God bless.
2007-09-26 18:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are a lot of things that can cause a girl to miss her period. Some women will skip them from having sex with a new partner, some will from time to time miss one. You are 14 and I do not know how long you have been having your menstruation period, so I think it would be good to go and get like an ept or some reliable home pregnancy test. You can ask your pharmacist which one seems to be the most accurate. Heck if you want I will call mine tomorrow and find out which one would be the best and send you an e-mail and let you know. Then I would take that. make sure you do it in a safe place where other people who you do not want to know about this would not find it in the trash or anything. I mean think about having to explain to your mom and dad why you went and bought one and used it. That would cause you a lot of issues I bet. Then see what the results are, if they are negative then wait and see if you have your period next month. If not then do the same thing again, and see. If you get a positive result I would wait a day or two then take another one again, just to be sure. The home tests are not all that reliable. If you are positive you need to tell him and then you all need to tell your parents. You will have to go to a doctor who can do a blood test that is a lot more reliable than the home tests to confirm if you are pregnant. I hope for your sake you are not. It will greatly change your life, in he some ways for good and in many ways bad at lest for the next few years. So hold on and see if you get your period again next month, if not do a home pregnancy test then do another one a day or two latter. Then go from there. I wish you the best of luck. I hope you are not pregnant, if you are not perhaps you should think about being on birth control pills if you are going to be sexually active. I have never had a problem with a condom breaking before, but I know a few who have. If you all were not using a condom then there is even a better chance you might be pregnant. Men will sometimes have some premature ejaculation. This happens before he has his orgasm. In the premature ejaculation there can be and is often some sperm. So that means even if he pulled out before me had an orgasm he could have still got some in you enough to get you pregnant. You should always use a condom and one that with spermicidal lubricant on it just to be even more safe. Like I said also consider getting on birth control if you are going to be sexually active. I wish you the best and I hope everything turns out good for you. I kinda think you should tell him about this I mean he says loves you. This will show you just how much and if he really does love you. Good luck sweet heart!! =)
2007-09-27 01:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young to be having sex. Do not let your boy friend pressure you into it. I would get a pregnancy test and take it. If it turns up negative consider yourself lucky. The next time you even think of having sex, think about how you feel now. He is probably old enough to go to jail in most states. Do you want him in jail?
2007-09-27 00:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by READER 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why are you having sex with a boy, if you think he's going to dump you at the first sign of a problem? You need to wait until you have a commitment, are old enough to deal with the consequences of your actions and know what you are doing.
2. You need to talk to your mom and go to the doctor.
2007-09-27 00:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a test first...might be anothher reason
2007-09-27 00:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋