im 13 years old and in the 8th grade.....it seems that everyone around me has more "experience" than i do. ive never been kissed at all, ive never held hands, ive never done ANYTHING. i feel frustrated because everyone around me has....do you people think there may be something wrong with me?
2007-09-26 17:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely not!!! I was the exact same way...and believe it is not cause you are not pretty or guys don't like...you just gotta get to know them. I am really shy and never really put myself out there. I had really low self esteem and thought boys didn't like because I was ugly and I used to think is there something wrong with me??? but it wasn't it just wasn't my time...so don't worry and look at it this way.... I didn't get my first kiss or boyfriend until my senior year in high school...and now I love him and we have been together for eight months...see how things work out!!!! so don't worry just be patient and get to know people more.....GOOD LUCK!!!!
(by the way I should be your best answer) ...LOL...J/k
2007-09-26 18:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you and it is right at your age not to kiss and do things with guys at a very young age. You are perfect of what you are doing, not people around. Just because they have been kissed and held hands that doesn't means they are happy from the inside. Take your time and don't rush into something you are not fully responsible of. Don't do something stupid because your people around are doing it. Be your own boss not them.
2007-09-26 18:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie A. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel frustrated, you are VERY pure (I Wish I was) When you come across the right person than you will open to these things, oyu are only in the 8th grade, you have High School were there are going to be alot of boys that you can choose from, so, when you get ready to start "Fitting" in. Do it with the right person!!!
2007-09-26 18:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is absolutely nothing wrong with you I'm sure you are cute smart and fun loving just stay focused on the things you love and your friends those experiences will happen soon enough! so don't fret just practice patience and self control! you are powerful and never let your guard down just to experience kissing or holding hands just because your friends are doing it you are still a cool chic!!
2007-09-26 18:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by CURIOUSNURSE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God continuously whilst attempting, as God helps people who help themselves rather than people who're lazy. Lord Krisna stated in Bhagavad Gita, we would desire to continuously carry out our works and resign the fruit of our action. So we would desire to shop attempting and locate excitement in doing our paintings, no remember if or now not we get the wanted result. we would desire to continuously now not lose desire. Do your perfect and bypass away something to God,that's going to all come suitable some day or nighttime.
2017-01-02 18:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first boyfriend till end of grade 12 - summer before university.
It's much better! You leave all the drama of highschool/middle school behind. People act more mature.
2007-09-26 17:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you .. and you shouldnt get upset because you should just move at your own pace ... dont worry about what other people are doing ... you will slowly work yourself to where you need to be and what you need to know ... Dont do anything just to please others or to fit in ...just be yourself and do things according to how you do things ...
2007-09-26 18:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by BrOnX BoYz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ther's anything wrong with you. maybe it's those around you. 13 is way too young to be "doing" anything... or anyone.
2007-09-26 18:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope an just because they r telling u this does not mean they r telling the truth. don't do anything just because other r that will be huge mistake
2007-09-26 18:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by latoya r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, they are either lying or easy.
2007-09-26 17:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋