Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

I have a program on my computer for my kids to track what they go to well it tracks mine and my husbands too. I found out that he is emailing his ex and now he sometimes tries to meet with her when he dont have the kids and I have to work....should I quit my job? Question him? He talked to her before and a bunch of bad stuff happened how do I go about telling him that I found out? He doesnt know I have the program mainly of trust issues.

2007-09-26 15:10:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What will you do to find out that your husband, who doesn't want you to know, he is a gay? He only marry you just to show the world the he is not a gay but he is.

2007-09-26 15:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by r002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 15:05:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf is at the end of a long and hard 2 year divorce process. although he has moved on and dated other people between now and then, we've been together for 4 months. it is all coming to an end in about 3 weeks and is getting hard because he just found out his ex quit her job and refuses to work until it's over bc she thinks coming to court with $0 income will get her more money, even though he adopted her daughter that she had previous to them. anyway, too much info. i know he's stressed but doesn't really talk about it. i just let him tell me when he wants to. i asked him if he wanted to go away for the weekend after it's final and he expressed he most likely would want to be by himself. i just want him to know i'm here and that i care without being pushy or asking a bunch of questions. do guys like getting flowers? and guys...would it mean something to you or would you think it was wierd? any other ideas or things you would want?

2007-09-26 15:03:17 · 9 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when my husband tells me to leave i ask if he wants to be with me if you dont the i'll go he says he loves me but cant stand to be with me right now. we have been married for 4 and a half years and have a 4 year old daughter and hearing that just because i made him mad he cant stand to be with me it hurts so bad. i have gotten so tired of it the last time he said it i started packing me and my daughters thing and when he calmed down he came and talk to me and said sorry will u forgive me and i said i forgave u every other time i just cant this time it hurts to much. am i wrong not to forgive him i feel i am but i cant change the way it makes me feel

2007-09-26 15:02:55 · 20 answers · asked by alishia g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my uncle and aunt have been married for 10yrs and are seperated now because my aunt was just going crazy about everthing is their life. They have 2 kids that are 5 and 6 and after my aunt had the kids she changed so much and all she does is beat them and doesn't take care of them. She doesn't let my uncle touch anything in the house and is always yelling at everyone. So finally my uncle moved out with the two kids but now my aunt is getting help from a Womens Place to get custody of the kids but when you ask the kids who they want to stay with they say with their dad. Is there anything my uncle can do to get help also like she can....he is very very tight on money as well and he doesn't care to get back with my aunt he just cares about keeping the kids. He worries all the time and no matter how much we tell him not to worry he always does and me being his neice I don't know what to do or say anymore. Also my aunt was cheating on him with some guy and that guy gets his cell phone

2007-09-26 14:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Keep this question based on your personal opinion.

2007-09-26 14:57:45 · 24 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

hey who wants to be a celebrity like an actress singer or ya

2007-09-26 14:55:56 · 5 answers · asked by shyorsly4 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 14:55:54 · 5 answers · asked by blaqking45 3 in Family

I'm 13 and he's 15 and this evening we had a fight because I thought he was being too protective and everything.

Normally, we have a really great relationship. We hang out and I know I can talk to him about anything and he's always there for me. He sticks up for me and protects me and he's such a great brother.

Anyway, during the fight, I was getting really mad so I yelled at my brother, "I HATE YOU!" Then I ran upstairs. I feel horrible because I didn't mean it and I really love him and I want him to know that. What should I do?

2007-09-26 14:51:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, I know this probably isnt a bad thing at all, but lately, ive been like SUPER attached and obsessive about my boyfriend. like, 5 minutes after he leaves, im like, OMG I MISS HIM ): whats been going on with me? i dont get it, this is like, totally out of no where. AHH! help :\ i really love this kid, and i dont wanna freak him out.

2007-09-26 14:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by mell. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 14:49:01 · 13 answers · asked by lachi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He didnt want the relationship with her and she moved on(it was really hard she was in love with him) he wants her now. they havent spoken in months. why does that happen??

2007-09-26 14:45:32 · 5 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known a guy for about 5 years now, we'd talk on and off, and we had became pretty good friends despite not having classes together. Recently he kissed me and we messed around a bit, but now he can't make eye contact, doesn't talk to me in the halls, and all around avoids me. Maybe I'm just overreacting or becoming to sensitive to something like this, but it's just a nagging kind of thing.

2007-09-26 14:44:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years of age. I'm going to quit shaving. I hate shaving and there's not enough time in the morning to do it.

And with a beard, I think I will look more mature, handsome, etc

2007-09-26 14:44:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im dating a guy,weve been dating for about two weeks.weve dated before for about three months and broke up but we ended up back together.we were walking around and saw my ex,who is good friends with my boyfriend.my boyfriends name is Dylan and my ex is Mitch.So we walk over to Mitch and sit down.And i start talking to him,and Dylan stands up and just stares into space as i talk to Mitch,and then i playfully slap Mitch lightly and i was like i could totally take you in a fight,and hes like i don't think so in a joking way.So me and him start to like wrestle.and he kept pushing me down he was just foolin around.So then we were waiting for my friend Crystal to get off the bus.So when it got there.Dylan was just standing there,and Crystal and me and Mitch were talking and i kept attempting to talk to dylan but he walked away.I havent talked to him since.And i dont think i like him anymore,should i brake up with him,since i think i like mitch again,but im not sure if he likes me back.Help!

2007-09-26 14:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's such a a pain to half start over it's so hard

2007-09-26 14:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I went out with this guy on Friday night for the first time. He sent me a facebook message the next morning saying he had a good time. I called him Tues to see if he had plans for Wed cuz mine had changed and I was free. He called back Wednesday and I said I was busy that night. My question is how should I treat a guy who doesn't call till Wed after a Friday date?

2007-09-26 14:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm having some issues with my MIL (she's controlling and acts like she has more rights to my one year old than I do, lets her son get away with hitting my baby, and most recently ruined my sons bday party by pretty much refusing to let anyone hold him, kept sneaking off with him alone, and even said that SHE was going to help him open his presents!) OKay, so my husband agrees that this is all crazy, but won't talk to her. I can't seem to get him to understand where his responsibilities lie.. not with her, but with US. It's like he's afraid to confront her. I've already confronted her once (the last time her seven year old hurt my son) and haven't been back over to let her see her grandson, so now I feel it's his turn. He needs to stand up and be a man and back me up, am I wrong?

2007-09-26 14:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, hugging, holding hands, or just holding each other?

2007-09-26 14:28:01 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been 3 years since they offically broke up but in the past, while we were together, she would attempt to break us apart and make our lives miserable. I would find old pictures of her here and there which my husband would delete but it still upsets me. She finally got engaged and married but I still hate her with a passion. It's so bad that I have nightmares about her trying to interfere with our relationship. I've never spoke to her before but she still makes me angry. Why can't I get over it?

2007-09-26 14:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by Sweetybab3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 13 years old and i really want 2 be a disney star or movie star like miley cyrus except i cant sing and im not good at singing.... what is a way I can prepare for acting auditions for the future like when im 16 or 19?

2007-09-26 14:13:59 · 2 answers · asked by Gloria. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is asking me, and i have no idea..... soo yah help soon would be nice! l8tr......

2007-09-26 14:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Got The Perfect Life If There Is Such A Thing. Wife,2 Kids. House Mini-Van. You Get It The Works, But I Am Bored! Wife Talks About Same Old Stuff Life IS In A Rut.My Kids I Love To Death. But I Feel My Unhappyness Is Starting To Show Thru. I Have No Other Women In My Life. But Missing The Single Life But Know Even With Divorce. Single Life Wouldn't Be The Same As It Once Was. Is This Mid-Life Problem At 34. Or Is This Something Else.

2007-09-26 14:07:44 · 18 answers · asked by TomKat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i thin you know what benifits i mean

2007-09-26 14:03:04 · 6 answers · asked by rage6996 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 14:00:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 13:59:11 · 16 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5 in Weddings

if your husband talked dirty to other women and refused to stop.

2007-09-26 13:56:07 · 16 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex best freind from 3years ago i cant get over her its gettign worse i cry so much cause i miss her but she used me and was the worst part of my life but what do i do ive tried everything to get over her but its just getting worse we were best freinds and she used me... but WHY CANT I GET OVER OUR FREINDSHIP ITS JUSTT GETTING WORSE!?

2007-09-26 13:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a 16yr old caucasian girl from a small town in canada, i quit school at 14yrs because the mentle abusation from the students, AND teachers was driving me insane.. litteraly
I have NO respect 4 anyone that has no respect 4 me, aka adults. People seem to think that since I'm 16 "I must be stupid" well, it may be that most people my age arent so bright yet, but I am.
I was raised under violent and unloving conditions with a devil for a father, no one wanted to be my friend because "Oh her daddy might kill my daddy if i dont't like her.." >.<
Trust me when I say I've lived through ALOT in my life time,, I've seen terrable things like, a cop kill someone for no reason.
and I've done things aswell, not that bad but I've cut a few people. and been in alot of fights ect. I hate myself cuz I'm not as skinny as ppl expect, and other things i wont mention. but i have my own art buisness goin [Mushroom Warrior] so my question is again, WHY can't people let the past go? ima good person now

2007-09-26 13:51:04 · 2 answers · asked by amy a 1 in Singles & Dating