Why is it when a girl finally REALLY gets over a guy he wants her??

Question

He didnt want the relationship with her and she moved on(it was really hard she was in love with him) he wants her now. they havent spoken in months. why does that happen??

he didnt see what was infront of him. he just wanted to fool around and have fun but she wouldnt do it

Answer 1

I don't know the reason why, I wish I new???? It's almost as though a girl just gets tired of trying, and finally when she says forget it the guy just comes around. It kinda pisses me off because you really want the individual.

Answer 2

I know, right? I can't tell you how many breakups I've been sad and hurt over, and cried myself to sleep, and the second I felt like the weight was off my shoulders, my heart had stitched itself back together and I could get on with my life, who comes slithering back in? Well, I'll tell you one thing: Thank God for Caller ID. Just don't even pick up the phone and open that can of worms. (The "delete" button in your e-mail box works wonders too.)
I think I have done a good job of warning all boyfriends that, once you go out that door, you can't come back in, and I have stayed true to that. Who needs a messy ex making life more complicated than it already is.

Answer 3

He probably thinks that she missed him and will take him back and be more dependent upon him but like water passing in a stream, what has passed is gone for good and it can bring her ony hurt if she tries to chase something that is gone.

Answer 4

why they do it is an open minded answer but, seems like they realized what they could've had and begin to want that "spark" back.

stay strong and stick to your guns. You don't need them messing up your lives (AGAIN)

Answer 5

Idk why it happens but it does...and it sux big time. I think guys have a built in alarm clock that tells em when they can ruin their exs life.