I'm 13 and he's 15 and this evening we had a fight because I thought he was being too protective and everything.
Normally, we have a really great relationship. We hang out and I know I can talk to him about anything and he's always there for me. He sticks up for me and protects me and he's such a great brother.
Anyway, during the fight, I was getting really mad so I yelled at my brother, "I HATE YOU!" Then I ran upstairs. I feel horrible because I didn't mean it and I really love him and I want him to know that. What should I do?
2007-09-26 14:51:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I've never said anything like that to my brother before and I know that he was just being protective because he cares about me.
2007-09-26 15:07:00 · update #1
Go tell him, "I feel horrible because I didn't mean what I said, I really love you. I want you to know that."
2007-09-26 14:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are going thru. My brother and I are 3 years apart and I love him dearly. He is very protective of his 2 baby sisters. I can't begin to tell you how many fights he started with my x's and anyone the had male genitalias that got within a foot of me. I once slapped him across the cheek and as soon as I did it I was sorry. I told him over and over how sorry I was and I also told him why I was so mad at him. he understood and layed off for about...2 days. All was forgiven and he went back to his ways. I often think to myself how lucky I am to have someone look out for me and stand up for me. Feel very lucky that you have him and he should feel the same way.
2007-09-26 23:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha... Do you know how many times I told my brother those same words? Trust me he is not mad. However, what you need to do is go and apologize, let him know that you love him and that you said what you said out of frustration. Also this is the time that you need to express his over protection. Let him know that you appreciate him, however you would like him to back off just a little. Let him know that you learned from the best(him) and you doubt that you do anything stupid. Also make sure that when you say that, you really mean it. Make sure you treat yourself with the up most respect. Make sure everybody that encounters you does also. Cheer up, your brother loves you!!!!
2007-09-26 22:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by sc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go upstairs and say to him that your really sorry but that who you really hate is yourself for saying such a big huge lie.
Tell him you know how much i love you.
don't let it go if God was to take him tonight you would wish you had made things right
2007-09-26 23:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you love him! I'm sure he still knows you do, but you'll feel better. Tell him that you don't hate him, just what ever he did that really made you mad. That's the truth, RIGHT!
2007-09-26 22:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a twin so believe me, i know these fights.
let both of you calm down then tell him how you feel.
or if thats too hard just tell him you didnt mean it and then strike up a conversation topic you know you both agree on and go on from there.
trust me-15 year old boys...they can be a handful.
2007-09-26 21:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by mandathedweeb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go apologize and tell him you didn't mean what you said. Tell him you said it because you were mad.
2007-09-26 22:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. Tell him that of course you didn't mean it. Ask him to forgive you.
2007-09-26 21:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you didn't mean it and that you love him.
2007-09-26 22:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋