Okay, I know this probably isnt a bad thing at all, but lately, ive been like SUPER attached and obsessive about my boyfriend. like, 5 minutes after he leaves, im like, OMG I MISS HIM ): whats been going on with me? i dont get it, this is like, totally out of no where. AHH! help :\ i really love this kid, and i dont wanna freak him out.
2007-09-26 14:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by mell. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are at least realizing what you are doing. That is a good sign. A lot of girls don't realize they are becoming this way and it does freak their boyfriends out a lot.
I know exactly how you feel... but it will pass. Maybe not soon, depending on situations, etc, but I have felt exaclty the same way.
You just need to take a chill pill (I had to) and step back and let him have his space. It is hard, most definitely, but he will appreciate it. Also, let him know what is going on and apologize in advance if you get too obsessive. Also, tell him to let you know when he feels trapped or obsessed over... stuff like that. It will pass and will all work out, so don't worry. :) It is just a good sign that you really adore him. :P
2007-09-26 14:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Reea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you feeling a little insecure about the relationship? It's alright to miss someone, but just don't start obsessing about it, or you will chase him away. Sometimes we hold to tight, and we have to let go. Since you see this, You will be able to handle it ok.
2007-09-26 14:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him! : )
love is a wonderful thing lol
lots of guys like it when a girl acts like that, but i dont think u would freak him out unless it sounds clingy, needy, or desperate for attention, etc.
edit:
i also agree with "AJ <3"
2007-09-26 14:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Kaely! ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called hormones.
and try not to act too clingy, he may not like that.
but some guys do....
and what your feeling now prob isnt as serious as you think, you will probably feel this was about loads of guys in the future..
2007-09-26 14:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Zidane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i would like it if my gf was like that =P some guys do some dont but yah make sure he does like it and dont freak him out. And dont go stalking him...lol...
2007-09-26 14:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dann (: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem but i asked if he missed me as much as i did even being away 4 a few min. well if he tells u the truth then he probly loves yoiu as much as u probly love him
2007-09-26 14:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by X_X-Bitter_Beauty-X_X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, i felt the same way the whole summer. everytime he would leave, i would miss him, and i was always thinking of him. don't worry, because it'll pass eventually. and as long as you don't tell him, he won't be freaked out.
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2007-09-26 14:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by softball-luva21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to control yourself. Give him some space. If he's suffocated, he'll withdraw. I don't think you want that to happen.
2007-09-26 14:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Steven Prasetya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like infactuation. Don't say no, its love. Unless u mean luv like like-love......idk
2007-09-26 14:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
you love him.
That shouldn't freak him out.
2007-09-26 14:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by AngelOfNight925 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋