Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

for you partner

2007-09-26 15:43:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

few days ago i asked this classmate about getting lunch sometime. he agreed. tomorrow i will see him

which question sounds better:

"hey, are you going for lunch now?"
"hey, where are you heading to now?"
"hey, are you busy right now? want to grab lunch?"

if he replied he's busy (we're in college), should i think of that as his excuse to get rid of me?

2007-09-26 15:42:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My heart is hurting as I type, My 20 year old daughter and I just got into a physical fist fight along with some really hurtful words. I feel sick to my stomach because of this. What happen was recently my mother her grandmother passed. at first I let her and my 19 year old son live in her house , the destroyed it. Didn't pay any ulities. Made a BIG MESS, so i put them out. My daughter went to a hotel. Where she has been for the past 5 months. So I asked if she now wanted to move back in. She said yes but she asked was the house pay for and if so she felt she shouldn't have to pay rent. I said she would only 525 a month for a 3 bd 11/2 bth. she got upset. stated i just wanted her money, not true only trying to teach her responsiblity.Make a long story short she got loud, crused , then swung. what ever the reason. I feel I am HER MOTHER and outside in public, cursing then to swing on me. I have tried to make this bonding work, but it never does, I am tired I feel defeated.

2007-09-26 15:42:31 · 7 answers · asked by wizzdom16 2 in Family

2007-09-26 15:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 15:39:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 15:36:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well ,i messedup big time with my last ex and we had sex.....after tha we went out one time...we go to different skools so we couldnt c each other much n he ddnt try to make time to see me and now we aint talkin anymore...i feel so used and reall low now..i dnt know wat im gonna do

2007-09-26 15:36:05 · 10 answers · asked by Live.Love.Laugh 2 in Singles & Dating

it feels like my whole world is upside down, im so upset my lil sis just told the whole family she was pregnant and everyone was happy and i hide my tears but now all i've been doing is crying and i hate to say this but i do feel some what suicidal i guess and i cant stop the feeling like i wanted to just hop on a plan and fly anywhere where i can just hide myself from the world and i might do that

2007-09-26 15:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by Fee Fee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so on friday its the homecoming dance i asked my mom but she said i need permision from my dad, last week he said no, but i really want to go do you have any suggestions?

2007-09-26 15:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I get mad at everybody, for little reasons. I holler at my kids. I get mad at my husband for no reason. I am jelous at him for nothing, when I know he's trying his best to make me happy. I get mad at my friends, till nobody wants to talk to me anymore. Seems there's no end to it. Is there any help for this???

2007-09-26 15:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by lightning struck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

tell the quick version of your story--were u adopted, conceived after years of trying, etc.

2007-09-26 15:30:37 · 2 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5 in Family

ive read articles on depression and now that i think about it ive had it for about 8 months. my friends tell me that i look sad all the time but i say im fine. i lost my interest in skateboarding and playing the guitar and now all i do is hangout with my friends. even when i do and have a good time theres always something after a funny moment where i just feel like crap. i do not want to see a phyciatrist or anything but i feel that im miserable. i live in a nice house with my family in a great neighborhood, i dont know why i feel liek this but i feel empty and i just think im dead or i have no emotions at somepoints.

2007-09-26 15:29:55 · 9 answers · asked by chris z 2 in Singles & Dating

my bro has pimples hes 14 its not that bad they are small and only red there is no white crap in there. is it unatractive to girls if he has that?????????????

2007-09-26 15:28:58 · 4 answers · asked by bri a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After conflict over claims of childhood sexual abuse by 2 sisters & me ...I was shut out by 4 siblings & my father.

I remained in relationship with my mother (with cancer) and 2 sisters (with cancer & mental illness) for 3 yrs.

However they participated in excluding me from family events & news (incl. the pregnancy of a sister) & it was too painful for to stay in communication.

That left me with one brother living OS with whom I had no contact for a few yrs. I contacted him a yr ago...perhaps seeing him as my last white hope. Was told his wife was 8 mths pregnant...another surprise. Ouch. Yet we began to re-connect with occasional confused anger from him as I revealed my story.

Then his first child was born in Jan....disabled. I found out from his blog.

I sent messages of love & support. His responses were grateful, but distant & cold. More recently, he has been aggressive again as he believes I have caused pain to our elderly parents.

Time to say last goodbye? Help

2007-09-26 15:28:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been marriage 26yrs,right out of H.School. We have children, and I haven't been happy for many many years. My kids don't know,they don't, but I am torn between being a father who doesn't want to hurt his children and me wanting to find someone else. I am asking for advise from only those who have been or are in my lonely and sad position.

2007-09-26 15:28:26 · 22 answers · asked by dadeo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf had sex for the first time i used spermicide foam he used a condom and it didn't break whats the chance i could be pregnant

2007-09-26 15:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, my friend is totally obsessed with fashion... she talks about it 24/7 and nobody in my group really likes her anymore cos she never shuts up about it. anyway, she's completely fixated on becoming a supermodel but she is REALLY UGLY and it would be impossible for her to make it to the big-time! but cos she "knows" she's going to be one, she doesn't really try hard in school and stuff. i don't want her to throw her life away before someone finally tells her that she isn't model material plus she would be devastated. should i tell her the truth or just keep quiet?? there would probably be a fight between us then but would it be better in the long term???

2007-09-26 15:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by Stacey 3 in Friends

I broke up with my fiance over a year ago. he wouldn't leave me alone for about 6-7 months after the breakup. He finally moved away and I got on with my life. Now that everything is settled and coming together, I find myself missing him. I tried calling him, but he has a new girlfriend. How can I tell him how I feel? I really want to be with him again.

2007-09-26 15:23:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 15:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty Rozay.! 2 in Friends

2007-09-26 15:19:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont understand how your mind doesnt want to let go of something the heart doesnt want? =/

2007-09-26 15:18:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad just moved to Massachusetts by himself for his job, and my mom stayed behind in Michigan while I go to school in CT, my parents are not divorced.

I spend at least half an hour on the phone with my mom everyday (because she's lonely) and then another half hour talking to my dad because he's also lonely. They both do not seem to eat 3 full meals a day because of their separation from the family, so I call them after mealtimes to make sure they've eaten.

Dad keeps talking about visiting me, and it's not like I hate his visiting, I would love for him to visit me but I also need to spend some time at school and take a break on the weekends without being busy going back and forth between MA and CT.

What should I do? I love my family but I don't know how to get some time for myself without cutting them off. I can't stop worrying about them, I don't know what else to do besides the constant phonecalls, visits, and reassurances.

2007-09-26 15:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by yupgigirl 4 in Family

2007-09-26 15:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like honestly, i think i met Mr. Right, lol... i mean seriously, the nicest man i think i have ever met, doesnt care about my past, and well, i am overlooking him because he is not my type.. i mean, he is SHORT and im not very attracted to him, BUT i think i love him? why am i so vain.. he would be the perfect undercover boyfriend, lol... i am just ashamed to be seen in public with him, because i have standards to hold, i mean, i am in all honesty, not trying to sound full of myself, but i am physically gorgeous, and well, i am known to date the most gorgeous men, i feel like i CANT be seen with him, what would people think? but more so, why do i care? why am i so vain, and is there ANYTHING that can be done about it?

2007-09-26 15:16:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to recomment to a friend. She has been dealing w/ an out of control, drug addict, alcoholic son for almost 10 years now. She has tried to get him help but nothing has worked so far. This is really affecting her everyday life and it would be great if someone that has gone through a similar situation could recommend a place where she, herself can get counseling to deal with this issue.

Thanks :)

2007-09-26 15:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by gaby c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 15:14:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy and want to flirt, but I don't know how to go about it. sounds cheezy, I know.

2007-09-26 15:13:43 · 16 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

I figure we'll probably have kids by the time hes 40. I'll be 30...give or take. Will it be too much for him to handle parenthood? I want to wait to have kids because I want to be financially and emotionally stable, mostly financially, but I dont want to hinder him...
He doesnt SEEM to care, he knows we want the best for our future children so he doesnt mind waiting, but would it be too long? Are there any older parents out there and how is it?

Nowadays everyone is like 18 when they have a kid or younger! ...I just dont want to make the mistake of waiting...until its too late.

2007-09-26 15:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by fYi 5 in Family

2007-09-26 15:12:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are like exactly the same, they look the same, have the same personality, and I would be happy with either of them. How do I pick if they are both nearly identical without breaking the others heart?

2007-09-26 15:11:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating