it feels like my whole world is upside down, im so upset my lil sis just told the whole family she was pregnant and everyone was happy and i hide my tears but now all i've been doing is crying and i hate to say this but i do feel some what suicidal i guess and i cant stop the feeling like i wanted to just hop on a plan and fly anywhere where i can just hide myself from the world and i might do that
2007-09-26 15:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by Fee Fee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't worry about it, i know it's hard, but DON'T KILL YOURSELF. you'll just end up in hell. and that will be ALOT WORSE then dealing with life here on earth. i understand your feelings, my husband and i have been trying to have another baby off and on now for 6 years with no luck. but we're not giving up. even if we have to go though a Dr. to do it. and you can do the same thing. go though a Dr. and have them help you get pregnant. but PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T HURT YOURSELF. try talking to a family member or a close friend to help you get though the feelings you're having. they will be a VERY BIG HELP TO YOU IF YOU JUST LET THEM BE. good luck.
2007-09-26 16:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Fox29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get help. NAMI - The National Alliance for Mental Illness, www.nami.org, has tons of information about crying, hating yourself, suicide, hiding, infertility...They can also find a dr. for you--THIS IS IMPORTANT--you need to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible. And you could use a therapist, too, I bet.
If it comes down to suicide versus flying/hiding, please choose the hiding until you've had a chance to talk to a dr. They can help you. Use the word "suicide" in your requests, and you'll find you get #1 priority.
If suicide seems to be the answer, call 911, call the local fire department, call a hospital, go to the ER. It's an emergency. All of these people will treat you with care and compassion and help you find your way again.
Take care, sweetie.
TX Mom
not an expert,
a patient
2007-09-26 22:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found out at 15 that I had a birth defect that left me unable to have children. I always figured some day I'd be honored to have some child pick me to be his/her mommy. I've never been sad at a "preganut" friend/family member.... I've never had kids, either. Luckily I have tons of nieces & nephews that need lots of love. I enjoyed my youth and now that I"m middle age, I'm back in school. Not having kids has given me this freedom. It just wasn't meant to be.
2007-09-26 22:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can adopt. there are plenty of kids that need a good home. Sorry I can not relate to your situation, but it is not God's design for everyone to bear children. Dont be unhappy because your sister is pregnant. You can still be a GREAT auntie.
2007-09-26 22:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by mudslide_23511 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my ex thought he couldnt have kids, but at the ripe age of 35, we started making them. if you can never have children, then its just not meant for you. you should really do some soul searching and try to figure out what your purpose is. killing yourself will not do anything but hurt the ones you really love and care for. when its your time to go, god will take you to his kingdom and tell you why you didnt have children of your own.
2007-09-26 22:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Just call me Mo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem very unfair. Please don't hurt yourself tho. Talk to someone who can help you through this then get some counseling. Adoption is great, many children need good homes and the love you have to give.
2007-09-26 23:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋