like honestly, i think i met Mr. Right, lol... i mean seriously, the nicest man i think i have ever met, doesnt care about my past, and well, i am overlooking him because he is not my type.. i mean, he is SHORT and im not very attracted to him, BUT i think i love him? why am i so vain.. he would be the perfect undercover boyfriend, lol... i am just ashamed to be seen in public with him, because i have standards to hold, i mean, i am in all honesty, not trying to sound full of myself, but i am physically gorgeous, and well, i am known to date the most gorgeous men, i feel like i CANT be seen with him, what would people think? but more so, why do i care? why am i so vain, and is there ANYTHING that can be done about it?
2007-09-26 15:16:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you love him. People deny it but you do have to be attracted to someone to date them. Otherwise you'll find yourself looking at other people that you are attracted to. You just need to find a guy that you're attracted to on both levels, not just for their personality or physical characteristics.
2007-09-26 15:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u take your self way too seriously, think so much of yourself, your vain because your immature and don't know the meaning of life, and think life hinges on beauty outside a person. u have low self worth, u value yourself and others more for their outward appearances, and can't see their inner qualities. u value the package more than the contents. u brag about your looks, and devalue others. u care what others might think, or say. u could seek some therapy and make some changes just get over yourself the world does not revolve around u, u may be overlooking a great guy because u feel u are out of his league, that u are more attractive and people will judge u if they see u with him, why are u making these people so important? if he is the nicest man u ever met, i would not be so concerned about looks.
2007-09-26 22:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm.. If you're embarrased to be even see with this guy, maybe you shouldn't go out with him. Imagine you two holding hands in public and acting like a couple. How would it make you feel? You're not vain. I'm just like you. Met a really nice guy last weekend. Perfect for a relationship... But im just not attracted to him. So i said no to him. Maybe you love him as friend? Keep him as one. But if you don't want to do go any further with him, you should let him know. He'll respect you even more for that, that you weren't messing with his head. You just have standards for a boyfriend. And one day you'll find a guy who will fit your standards completely. Just keep looking.
2007-09-26 22:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, to be honest, I wouldn't want to date you if I was a guy. You're acting like a total baby. I'm sorry, but I'm going to be straight with you...if you don't like it, then don't read it. So what if he is short in stature?? That means nothing in the long run. You don't have to be physically attracted to someone to love them. You have standards to hold as what? A vain, nasty girl? You sound so full of yourself in this entire thing, I was gagging. Just because you think you are physically gorgeous doesnt mean that others do as well. Who cares what people think? If you're so concerned with what others think, then you don't deserve a guy this great. Unless you can realize that the world doesn't revolve around you and how beautiful you think you are, then you don't deserve him.
2007-09-26 22:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I guess you can turn him down, but as soon as you do it some one else is going to take him; if he is so nice as you said I'm sure he will find the right woman. But you can keep dating the most gorgeous men!!!
2007-09-26 23:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by new MAC-er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to think to yourself, does it really matter what other people think? I mean, if you love the guy, you would not care what other people would think about him. Thats all that matters, love means more than anything, and if you have love, hold on to it, don't be afraid to show it. Because true love dosn't come that often. Goodluck
2007-09-26 22:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mark K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can put a bag over your head when you go out with him, and no one will recognize you.
Yes you are vain.
2007-09-26 22:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agreed with Josie, hamble is a beaty too..
IF you like and enjoy her companion, let the love kills the standard and the embrass feels in you.
IF your standard, and embrass is more important than his appearance, then make things clear with him. and move on
2007-09-26 22:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give me a break........believing that you are the hottest little thing is actually a huge turn off to men. You need to learn to be humble - that's beautiful.
2007-09-26 22:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~Josie~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG same thing happened to me. I sware to god. There is this girl who like i would kill to go out with. And like last year near the end i found out she liked me. And like she is like reallllyyyy pretty. I mean pretty, and she liked me. But when i found out sheliked me i just didnt want to go out with her. She was just not my type. Really i wanted someone else and now she got another bf, one of my good freinds. My advice, take him while you can now, before its too late.
2007-09-26 22:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by ItalianoGuy92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋