my bf is at the end of a long and hard 2 year divorce process. although he has moved on and dated other people between now and then, we've been together for 4 months. it is all coming to an end in about 3 weeks and is getting hard because he just found out his ex quit her job and refuses to work until it's over bc she thinks coming to court with $0 income will get her more money, even though he adopted her daughter that she had previous to them. anyway, too much info. i know he's stressed but doesn't really talk about it. i just let him tell me when he wants to. i asked him if he wanted to go away for the weekend after it's final and he expressed he most likely would want to be by himself. i just want him to know i'm here and that i care without being pushy or asking a bunch of questions. do guys like getting flowers? and guys...would it mean something to you or would you think it was wierd? any other ideas or things you would want?
2007-09-26 15:03:17 · 9 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can send him flowers...that is a way cool thing...seriously..I'd love it!
2007-09-26 15:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
no flowers. maybe... if he is a "gamer", buy him a hot new game and give him McD's gift card :) leave him alone for awhile. really. men don't like to "talk about it" like we (women) do. chill out, use that time to catch up with the girls... let him work through it. 4 months is way too soon to get in the emotional things he is dealing with right now...
2007-09-26 15:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I despatched my husband a plant (no longer flora) yet i could admit I despatched them to aim to furnish him the hint that i wanted him to deliver me flora. did no longer artwork even with the undeniable fact that, he nevertheless in 22 years has by no skill despatched me flora to my workplace. I watch the different women get them for the anniversaries, Valentines day, etc. and that i secretly desire through fact the transport guy is strolling down the hall that they are going to turn to my cubicle yet they by no skill do. So i could say in case your spouse is sending you flora that's through fact she is attempting to furnish you a splash that she could such as you to try this for her. through fact heavily is you may ask somebody to deliver them it takes out each and every of the excitement of having them.
2016-10-09 21:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex. sent me flowers one year for valentines day, and yeah it did feel a little weird to me receiving flowers. Don't get me wrong--I appreciated them and gave her a big kiss for them. If you want to send him something, maybe try a VT teddy bear. They have many for different occasions.... www.vtbear.com
2007-09-26 15:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Diggs 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sending flowers would be being pushy......leave him alone like he asked you too........that is what he wants.......
2007-09-26 15:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers? What would he do with them?
I've always told my girlfriends, never buy me flowers, buy me a bottle of wine, a bottle of scotch, a lotto ticket, whatever.......but never flowers.
Too poofy..............
2007-09-26 15:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
SURE! Thatz nice of you. flowers have a "power"calm people down adn unstress them.
2007-09-26 15:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥ I WANT YOU ♥~ 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i think u should send him flowers
2007-09-26 15:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
if you think this guy has something to give you emotionally, think again.
2007-09-26 15:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋