I've known a guy for about 5 years now, we'd talk on and off, and we had became pretty good friends despite not having classes together. Recently he kissed me and we messed around a bit, but now he can't make eye contact, doesn't talk to me in the halls, and all around avoids me. Maybe I'm just overreacting or becoming to sensitive to something like this, but it's just a nagging kind of thing.
2007-09-26 14:44:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him this question yourself,he might think he did a mistake!
idk...
2007-09-26 14:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Canada and my name is Alana! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's either realised he's made a mistake and doesn't know how to confront it (e.g feeling guilty for being intimate with his friend) or he feels uncomfortable or insecure with how the situation went if he had feelings for you at the time.
and it could be all of those.
on another angle, he could have mixed feelings between fancying you and being a mate - so maybe you should be the first one to confront him if this behaviour of his continues.
And ask him what's up if he can't at least look at you!
You are not overreacting at all, trust me. I'd feel a little insulted and insecure if someone I had shared something with, ignored me randomly for a long period of time.
just say how you feel, and how he is making you feel when he has acted like this and see where it goes from there.
good luck :)
2007-09-26 22:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by BryW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get a chance alone with him, ask him what's up. Tell him you've noticed his distance, and was wondering why. His reaction should speak volumes.
If he just shrugs it off, then f*ck him. Trust me honey, guys like him aren't worth it. I don't want you to feel demeaned, but it could be that you were just a "fun time" with him (I've been there myself, and it sucks). Sometimes, you just have to accept things for what they are, and move on.
On the other hand, he could have a very good explanation, so hear him out. But, BY NO MEANS, lick his boots! Be your own best friend, and recognize when you're not being appreciated.
Good luck!
2007-09-26 21:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, maybe he's just not in to you any more. It;s time to move on, get over him. Life will go on without him. He is being an @$$ like all men thats why so many women stray away from men at one point or another. If U must really try sitting down and talking to him but the tippical man won't listen. Best of luck darling.
2007-09-26 21:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by nooooooooooo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
either he realized he made a mistake or he doesnt know how to act around you because you guys were really good friends. just talk to him make him talk to you.
2007-09-26 21:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by iloveit 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is avoiding u because he think he made a mistake ..
2007-09-26 21:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by jo n jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋