Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

if you could ask a boy a question that you have been wondering about men, what would it be?

2007-09-26 11:54:11 · 12 answers · asked by collegegrl22 3 in Singles & Dating

ok this girl in my middl eschool says she was pregnant and that the dad was liek 20 or somthin lik ethat but then after about 2 week sof sayingshe was sh etold us all that she had a miscarrage on friday ( sh etol dme this on tuesday ) and that h ernad her mom both said it was ok becsue they woulnt want th ebaby growing up saying wheres my dad wheres my dad and then having to say well your a rape baby.... why would anyone lie about this? nad if you really did have a miscarrage then wouldnt yuo not want to come to school or somthing like thta.... and dotn say well maybe sh ewas pg becasu ewe know sh ewasnt becuse sh ewas alwyas doing cartwheels, and doing flipps and nto acting like a p gperson would ( i would know my sistter has been pg twice dotn worry she sin her 20's)
i think it migh thave been a call for attention.. .but y that .. why would you lie about being pregnat adn being raped ..... well i guess she could have been rapped but most likly not ..... ahh she irritates me......

2007-09-26 11:54:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am on the fence as to wether or not I should get a wedding consultant for day of wedding duties. Has anyone had experience with wedding consultants for day of wedding coordinating only? Or will I be able to successfully delegate these misc. wedding day tasks to bridesmaids, etc. ? I have never been married before, and not been in wedding parties either, so I have no clue. We are on a pretty tight budget - paying for the wedding ourselves (total budget for the wedding day is less than $10K). Thanks for your input.

2007-09-26 11:51:17 · 3 answers · asked by akylehorton 1 in Weddings

i am 15 and a sophomore and haven't had my first kiss yet. I am 5''6, skinny, not flat chested, and a lot of guys find me attractive. But I havent had a boyfriend. I almost had like 3 relationships last year but they didn't work out. my parents are strict and dont let me date. And I still haven't had my first kiss. Homecoming is in 2 days/..i really want it to happen then. Am i weird? and can you guys tlel me how old you were when you got your first kiss and how it was? When will it happen for me?? ughhhh

2007-09-26 11:50:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need serious answers please!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My husband has just recently been accepted into the RT program in the state where we live. The program is from 8-5 Monday thru Friday for two years. I support my husband in everything he does but I don't know what to do in this situation. My husband will be taking a $4.00 pay cut and also be cut from 40 hours a week to maybe 20 hours. He currently is responsible for paying the rent and his car note (both totaling almost $1300). We have two kids and I already work a full and a part time job. I take care of all the utilities, my car note, and anything that concerns the children. My question is should we consider moving in with my parents until he finishes school or should he reconsider going to school?

FYI-We will be paying my parents $300 a month to stay with them so that would eliminate the light bill, phone bill and the rent.

2007-09-26 11:39:32 · 20 answers · asked by Nubian_Princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been married for going on five years. It used to be about me and him (and the kids of course), but now it just feels like it's just me and the kids.
Don't get me wrong, he is a wonderful hubby and daddy, he doesn't go out and party with his friends....its his work. He is a firefighter/EMT. For instance, today was his day off, he still felt the need to go to the FH to catch up on work, comes home to eat...then goes back over there for a meeting. I'm so lonely. Its not fair that I am at home 24/7 with the kids. I tell him how I feel but all he says is..."its part of my job. I know that he loves us unconditionally...I just wish he showed it more.

2007-09-26 11:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by sunnysideup 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no Idea where to start. I was thinking of getting a wedding planner. Does anyone know how that works, the cost, and if you have to pay cash or can you finance it?

2007-09-26 11:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by nisseee 1 in Weddings

2007-09-26 11:25:04 · 6 answers · asked by Stomper69 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it more acceptable for a man to cheat? Are women being silly asking men to be monogamous?

2007-09-26 11:23:38 · 15 answers · asked by Carm Soprano 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a guy for a little over 3 mo. both of us have had our share of financial troubles, & both live with family. My sons & I live w/my parents & he's staying with his aunt & uncle. It appears that our relationship is really taking off, he's very active with my kids activities & I respect his time with his friends. We've discussed the future, our careers, our expectations out of life, etc.

However, one of our problems is "hooking up" as you can only imagine. We go out of town every 2-3 weeks just for a night alone. Today, he made mention that he's going to get a place of his own after the first of the year with his tax money. Then he said "unless things change before then", and when he said it, he had a little quirk to his voice & a cute grin on his face.

Am I reading too much into this, or do you think he's suggesting us getting a place together? If so, would I be out of line to suggest it or asking him to? I would have no objections to moving in together.

2007-09-26 11:22:41 · 3 answers · asked by Piper 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend loss his wife of 3 months 8 months ago. We have been together secretly for the past 3 weeks. Any advise on us making it official? We want to be open about it but there has been really alot of negetivity from her side of the family about the relationship and I really just wanted feedback. I never intended to fall in love with the guy. He's someone I knew from college but it just happened that way. We are both in our late 20's and entitled to love. I dont understand what the fuss is all about. They were only married for 2 months and they dont even have kids together.

2007-09-26 11:20:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The two people I live with who refuse to clean up after themselves are my mom and my sister. My sister is like my mom, a filthy environment doesn't bother her too much. I'm like my dad, I can't stand clutter. Anyways, my mom and sister never clean up behind themselves. If you ask them to clean up something that you share with them (such as the bathroom or pots and pans), they say no. How do I deal with this?

2007-09-26 11:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by lost.in.love 4 in Family

Okay, so I've been with my man a lil over 4 years now. I know it seems like a long time but we've gone through some bad times in our past and have made a lot of progress, i mean alot. When we 1st hooked up he moved away, not that far away maybe 30 min but i didnt have a car, so i was onlly going to see him when I got a ride. This made it hard for our relationship to be normal, not seeing or being w/ each other.To make a long story short b/c its long..He is very aware that I have alot of problems with my dad at home being overprotective, just down right evil and mean, and has caused alot of stress for me since we've been dating. My b/f likes my dad but hates the way he treats me, basically like a 12 yr old. Me and my b/f have a long way to go emotionally and even though I want to move in I dont want to jeopardize our relationship. I feel we should take it slow. The stress at home is unbearable but I bear it somehow. Should I move in or wait it out?? I mean we're both 22, no rush right?

2007-09-26 11:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this isnt really none of my business but still..i think its a little creepy that she just found out that my sister smokes cigarettes and that my brother has done weed a few times and she hasnt done anything to them...she hasnt even punished them which i dont get...wouldnt you punish or at least beat the sh!t out of your child if you thought they were doing drugs and found out it was true...what should i do??shouid i just stay out of it??

2007-09-26 11:16:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The problems I have with my mother go way back to my childhood - very critical, overbearing, bitchy to my friends (childhood) and now my husband. Everyone that knows her can hardly stand being around her for long - I've basically become ashamed of her. Most recently, she was criticizing my husband. I politely told her I didn't want to discuss it - it was my business, I wish she just be like my Aunt Mary who DOES respect her children and bites her tongue even when she feels something should be said. Well, that was the worst thing I could do because she HATES my Aunt Mary (yes, it's her own sister!) and has stopped speaking to me unless and until I apologize for that remark. I don't feel that I should have to apologize for the remark because it's HOW I FEEL! My whole life I've swallowed my feelings to keep the peace. She doesn't think twice about saying very nasty things to me, thinks it's her RIGHT as a mother/grandmother. If you don't agree with her there's something wrong w/ you

2007-09-26 11:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by Kelli A 1 in Family

My boyfriend is 18 in a few weeks... I don't have a clue what to get him....!!! His interests are rugby, astrology, music and so much more...!!! Please Help....!!!!

2007-09-26 11:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf...when we were together was supposedly depressed and wanted to kill himself, come to find out he got a one nightstand pregnant before we met. He only wanted to talk to me, said he trusted me. Well...when I helped him come to terms with it. He left me to be with the mother of his child, and I found out while I was in the hospital. He didnt even care that I was ill, he told me never to call him again. This is what I got for being there for him. Please tell me and help me understand,...so I have every right to call him and tell him what a piece of **** he is??/ Because I did ...amongst other things I said. I helped him meet his daughter and helped him with suicide and I got huge slap in the face. Mind you, him and the other one are no longer together, but I hate him sooo much for what he did to me. He messed with my mind with the suicide threats that I had to see a therapist. I feel he is an ungrateful sob, is it wrong to feel this way??

2007-09-26 11:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

him and it was attraction at first sight.From day 1 we were always together.I'm 37 and he's 27.In the beginning,he made a lot of long term plans and he treated me right.He was very happy to show me off as i look very young.But after,he started changing ,he was worried about the future but i never pressed him for closer commitment,i'm a free spirit.At the end, he left me cause he didn't see this affair ending to a marriage.15 days later,he returned and asked for a 2nd chance.We stayed 3 days together and i found out that he came back mostly for the sex part,he even repeated that 1 day he would leave for sure.The next day i sent him a sms saying:"i want to respect myself,it's over".This was the endand 3 months passed so far.I went through very hard time but lately i feel better.I have mixed emotions but it pains me cause he didn't respect me in the end,although bf he was always gentle and carrying.Was it a crime that i was older than him and i deserve this?

2007-09-26 11:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

it's for a stupid survey my friend's doing. so, yes, no, sometimes?

2007-09-26 11:00:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy, he is so hot! he seems like he has a good personalty too!

2007-09-26 10:57:07 · 1 answers · asked by kerryt<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my friend just left me an e-mail...and i don't want to ignore it, because she's sensitive, but what should i reply back, after she wrote

never forget how much you are loved and cared for.
I will always be here for you even when you think the entire world has caved in. i love you jackie :)

please help...and don't be rude...and it's an easy question so 10 points

2007-09-26 10:55:36 · 4 answers · asked by jackie s 1 in Friends

When I managed to get away from my abusive husband after 4 yrs of torture,I met a man that treated me like a princess,found myself in a world of luxury I never thought would ever experience and got carried away with it all. Slept together once and then after I called it off realised I was pregnant. If i tell anyone that child has different father I will loose all my friends as I am a christian and this was just a moment of madness after being so low. Also would hurt other child from marriage.
???

2007-09-26 10:54:32 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We live in a house that was purchased in my name during the marriage. There is no hope of saving the marriage. How do I get her out?

2007-09-26 10:53:55 · 22 answers · asked by imsurroundedbyidiots 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Young Money Dipset thats wut they said and if i aint good lookin you can bet my ***** is

and the song love live life one hit then im dead or something like that? i got three ls to the head live love life and then im dead. kinda like a dipset song lol.

2007-09-26 10:52:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who is responsible to buy the flower girl dresses?
When should I register at stores like JC Pennys and Belk? (Getting married in June)

2007-09-26 10:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by *His Wifey* 3 in Weddings

2007-09-26 10:46:35 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I enjoy Car Racing Games. I LOVE them. I work on them, know about them ((Still Learning, though)) but you certainly won't see me on top of the hood, in a bikini ((not that it is a BAD thing...of course not! but when I go to Car Shows...I am normally SHOWING OFF my Family's Rides!))
Anywho...I'd Like to know a guy's opinion about a girl that is totally into cars..HAVE ANY OF YOU SEEN THE MOVIE REDLINE??

2007-09-26 10:45:02 · 6 answers · asked by Ciao Bella 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 10:43:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He dumped me about 8 months ago, it was both our first 'serious' relationship, now recently i have spoken to him for some reason again and we end up arguing, its pathetic i know and i probably shouldnt make the effort to speak to him, he has said things to me like i am fat and im not attractive, im thick and retarded and thats apparently the reason he dumped me. why is he using these pathetic insults for me, are they really what he thinks or thought?

2007-09-26 10:42:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's not for any special ocasion. Recently, I was going through some rough times. Some of my friends were really supportive, others didn't seem to care.....
It's times like this when you realize who your real friends are.
I want to give them something special for being there when i needed them the most. I don't have a lot of money and I want it to be something more meaninful than any expensive thing.
There's 4 girls, 1 guy and my boyfriend.
What's something I could give them all that would express how thankful I am for them?

2007-09-26 10:41:13 · 2 answers · asked by Yay! 4 in Friends