Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

liks you and gives all the signs, why when someone asks him if he likes me , he said no ?

2007-09-26 10:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend in the whole world is a guy. I am starting to like him as more though. We kissed last year, but them we never said anything else. I want to ask him out but aren't guys supposed to ask girl's out? Maybe I should just go in for a kiss and see what he says?! I am desperate and need help!

2007-09-26 10:38:14 · 9 answers · asked by purplechic494 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a good Christian, church going gal. I am so happily married, and love my husband so much... But I have always thought women were so much more beautiful than men, and when my hubby is going down on my I have found I have the best orgasms by thinking about it beind a girl, or thinking about fondling a pair or breasts.
Lately, my husband and I talked about a 3 some. It was just bed, middle of sex talk to get more arroused, but now I can't quit thinking about it. I am sure it would be too hard on a marriage, plus I wouldn't want him to touch another woman. I don't know, I am so confused and feel like I'm gonna go to hell for even thinking about it. Is it wrong to have thse thoughts? Would it ruin our marriage if we acted on it? Thanks for the help.

2007-09-26 10:38:12 · 2 answers · asked by myalteriormotive 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It is only $1100 so far, and he set up pmts of $100 a month to stay out of collections. But at the time of injury he was unemployed. I was not working for a couple years cuz I went back to school, and he didnt pay my bills. I was lucky to get gas and grocery money. I had to live on my student loan checks. We lived with my mom at the time cuz he lost his house. He has had at least 10 jobs in the 6 yrs we've been together, and now that I finally got a decent job, I do not want to spend all my money on his bills. That is my grocery money I'm spending. I also want to buy stuff that I need sometimes too. I don't buy high-end things, but feel I deserve to spend my check on some new shoes if I need them rather than pay all his crap. I am already paying his cell phone bill and a legal bill.
This was not even medically necessary. Paying it will put a burden on me and my kids. If I had the extra to spare, I would do it. Hes a good guy, just unstable, so plz dont say divorce him!

2007-09-26 10:37:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys always say no fighting below the belt when their play fighting with me? whats that mean and why do they say it?

2007-09-26 10:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the deal. I'm almost 36, been divorced over ten years. I can't imagine ever wanting to be married again. I have spoken with several close friends and they all say that I am crazy for even considering it, since I might "meet someone", blah blah blah. I always have safe sex, but an unplanned pregnancy is not something I want to deal with.

2007-09-26 10:34:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel so sexy and it make troble for me.I dont want to be like this.I have problem to control it.

2007-09-26 10:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by niloofar s 1 in Singles & Dating

i do have low self confidence, but im trying to improve. im not necissarily afriad to talk, im just shy. i dont have many friends, well i have friends, but not close ones, and i've never had a bf. i really want people to stop saying this, so i want to prove them wrong, how do i do this?

2007-09-26 10:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My dad loves the Gators and I don't really fancy them too much (most of the fans are cocky). He always tries to get me to go to their games, but I really have zero interest in them. Besides, I go to USF (Go Bulls!). Both my brother and sister have attened or are still attending UF, so Im a bit of the black sheep I suppose. Anyways, lately he seems like he has an attitude towards me or something, which kind of worries me a bit. We never had a really open relationship with each other. He was always so hard to talk to when I was young and still is hard to talk to.

Can anyone give me some kind of insight? Anything at all, seriously!

2007-09-26 10:30:29 · 4 answers · asked by The Red One 1 in Family

I am 13 and i am pretty sure this girl likes me the way she acts.
She always says how she loves my eyes and all that but how do i ask her out!? and what should i say?!?!?

2007-09-26 10:29:27 · 14 answers · asked by i <3 EmiLY 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so I met this guy at the pub last Saturday, we danced for hours and ended up back at his motel room (he is on a working holiday in Aus). We didnt have sex just did everything but. We spoke for hours and fell asleep in each others arms. This weekend will be my last chance to see him, as he is continuing his travels. We have been sending msgs to each other a bit over the last couple of days (that are getting pretty hot!). Is it a slutty thing to do to have one last night of fun before he goes?

Also all the guys where I live are just a waist of space! This is only the second time I have picked up since I moved here 10 months ago! He is just so perfect, I know I can not have him forever because he has to go back to Wales, is there anything wrong with making the most of his company while he is here?

2007-09-26 10:29:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a few friends that have lover that are locked up right now...some of them said yes they would and others said no...i feel as if when you love the person that you should stay with them no matter what...but on the other hand it all depends on what they went to jail for...

2007-09-26 10:22:11 · 23 answers · asked by Taurus P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but i am madly in love with him!! should i tell him, or should i live with the pain and agony that i'll never have him for myself??
he once even told me that before he asked my best friend out he kinda like me? wat up with telling em he liked me and then finding a new GF???????

2007-09-26 10:21:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we used to hang out alot during lunch and after work, we would go out and have fun we would chill at her house and have a blast but then i noticed she wanted to control me as well as she controlled all the guy friends she would talk to...

okay i was getting annoyed by her telling me what to do and then telling not to talk to this guy i know just cuz he hurt me... which i know better but i continued to talk to him as a friend i mean we belong to the same church and i not the type to be mad ((the past is the past, right))

well i wanted to distance myself from her and then this guy came in the pic and she thought i didnt wanna hang out with her cuz i wanted to be him but its not like that... o well one night she called me and the guy answered and she got mad and told me that she knew that he was gonna do me wrong ((keep in mind we are just friends only)) and that she never wanted to talk to me again...

why did she react like this??

2007-09-26 10:20:53 · 4 answers · asked by <3 ME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its bothering me soooo much! i hate it when my mommy is dissapointed in me!! please help!

2007-09-26 10:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Got a question. What does someone do to get a new friend circle going? I live in Northern Utah. I no longer work due to my disability. I enjoy gardening, birding, cooking, knitting, playing chess and other game boards. So how does some one go about? Any ideas especially for the winter time. As i am too hurten to go anywhere in the cold. Thanks.

2007-09-26 10:20:03 · 3 answers · asked by angelikabertrand64 5 in Friends

WE often are at odds w/ith small conflicts.. he is almost narsistic.. He makes all decisions without asking me.defensive and quick to anger... what is he hiding?
Should I be suspicious?
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2007-09-26 10:17:45 · 7 answers · asked by kittycat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone been married in Las Vegas and where did you have your ceremoney and reception at ? Im having a hard time finding places that arent that expensive for about 100 peaple and our budget is $5,000- Thanks !!!

2007-09-26 10:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

..me, is in an emotionally abusive relationship, said that she wanted to be friends then get serious, then said she would marry me after she found out what was wrong with her health(it is ulcers), said that she would phone me on my cell phone, not to phone her because he threated to disconnect the phone (he suspects its me and has temporarily disconnected), and now i dont know if she is in this town or has left for the city...i cant show up at her doorstep...I want her and am very lonely for her..How can i contact her now..she has my cell number but may not know the area code in the city i will move to?

2007-09-26 10:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by extrapacker 1 in Friends

IHave been with my BF for 21/2 years and living together for 1 year . I just found out 2 weeks ago he cheated on me, I looked trough his phone and I found a text were he was telling the girl the sex was great when can we do it again? I confronted him about it he said he was sorry and cried and said he loved me and didn't want to loose me. He asked if I could forgive him I said yes but I’m not sure I can now. I think I’m starting to fall out of love with him. And I feel sad about that. I need good advice

2007-09-26 10:12:40 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that always makes a point to make sure that I know that he is not seeing anyone. We have dated before. So why does he keep telling me this? I don't discuss my dating life with him.

2007-09-26 10:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 10:11:37 · 4 answers · asked by leola g 1 in Family

OK, long story short- I had to get a new wedding gown. This is the gown-
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=962&prodgroup=127

This gown unlike my other first gown is covered in pearls.
My tiara which is non-refundable has NO pearls in it- all crystals- clear crystal beads and rhinestones. My veil also has NO pearls on it- just clear crystals. The dress does have clear sequins all over it so the dress does sparkle/shimmer.
The only piece of Jewelry I was going to wear are these drop earrings that my fiancé bought me and they are white gold with little diamonds and a big 1/4" canary diamond hangs off the stem. He paid over $3,000 for these earrings so I HAVE to wear them. Don’t get me wrong- I LOVE them but I might have gotten diamonds and pearls looking at this dress.

My question is do all my accessories sound OK with the new dress?
And are just earrings OK? I would rather not have a necklace.
Do only brides notice these small details?

2007-09-26 10:11:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

her name is Donna and we have been friends and lovers for a year, isnt the internet amazing!
Our love just keeps growing,
please send us your congratulations, thanking you in advance.

2007-09-26 10:10:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend says hes in love with me but how do i know if he really means it?

2007-09-26 10:06:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How did it work out? Did the other person just walk away or did you get a chance to discuss it? Did you ever walk away rather than give the other person the chance to explain? Was it resolved with no bad feelings as if nothing ever happened or did you remain cautious and guarded with one another not fully believing the other? How did you feel during the process? Any regrets? How long does a door remain closed before it passes the time you know you cannot knock again?

2007-09-26 10:05:08 · 4 answers · asked by irisheyes 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner is recently divorced but the assets are still being divided. they have a house which has been on the market for ages which she still lives in mortgage free. he has 10,000 more than her in savings which he has to pay her half of and she is demanding this half now. we have a disabled 6 month old daughter and a huge mortgage along with 2 teenagers from my marriage years ago. if he pays her this money we have no safety net if he becomes sick etc and can't work and would risk losing our house. the court order states that these assets have to be divided but she has already spent money in her sole name but her solicitor is threatening us with court action if we touch his savings. as most of the capital is tied up in the house we want to hold off on dividing these assets until it is sold. she has no children and a good job and i have had to give up work to care for our daughter. we have had to let our solicitor go as we can no longer afford him and we're confused!! what can we do?

2007-09-26 10:02:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 09:59:17 · 91 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am getting married next year and my parents have offered us some money to help pay for the wedding. I told my dad that we don't need their money and that my fiance and I want to pay for everything. After talking with my mum she told me dad had saved especially for it and that he really wants to help out. I feel really guilty not taking them up on their offer but I know deep in my heart that they can not afford to give it to us and the money would be better spent on themselves. Is what I have done right? and is there any other way I can make them feel like they are contributing?

2007-09-26 09:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend is so shy

please say talk to him i no i should but he has never had a girlfriend before


i think

2007-09-26 09:54:44 · 11 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Singles & Dating