I have a few friends that have lover that are locked up right now...some of them said yes they would and others said no...i feel as if when you love the person that you should stay with them no matter what...but on the other hand it all depends on what they went to jail for...
2007-09-26 10:22:11 · 23 answers · asked by Taurus P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends on how long they go to jail! if your that in love, you should probably wait! if its for sex move on!!!!!!!!
2007-09-28 09:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by trix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some of the new problems women face is that now they are just as equal, most of the time, earning the household money. But still are expected to get dinner and take care of the kids, clean the house. Men are also I noticed are less likely to work and expect the wife to take care of them. Men are afraid to open the door for us, I guess either from fear that we will yell at them that we can do it ourselves, they don't give nice compliments due to fear that we will charge them with sexual harassment. We are lucky to find a man that cares enough to want to be at home, and is a little old fashioned about taking care of us but still allows us to be an equal. I also think that women are pressured to look a certain way, because of false advertising that Hollywood has shown us with the perfect women. When in fact this is an illusion that without 50 people working on her for 5 hours will never achieve.
2016-05-19 02:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by adrian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I my at the time B/F went to jail for 8 months for kicking this 26 yr. old guys butt because the guy was sleeping with his 13 yr. old sister. He lost his job, car and apt. I stayed with him the whole time he was locked up. Now, 4 years later we got married, he makes $32.00 an hr., we have 2 cars and a nice home. We are happier then even and I am happy I waited it out, but man that was tough.
2007-09-26 10:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As you say it would depend on the circumstances. I would definately leave him if he was a sexual predator or child abuser . Those defects in character run so deep that they are not fixable. Someone who does drugs or is a habitual drunk , probably. As these are evidence of personal weaknes and lack of respect for yourself and other people. If it was something very minor that was a one time lapse, then i would give that person another chance, But only once.
2007-09-26 10:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question. It depends what he did. If he is in prison for life....no parole or anything, then dump him and move on. You cant have a relationship if he is locked up forever. If he is just in for something stupid, you may want to stay with him.
I cant say that I would tolerate any man of mine being in jail. I figure that if they wanted to be stupid, and then got caught, they can just stay in the pokey.
2007-09-26 10:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by snowbirdbabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would totally depend on the situation.
If I knew nothing about it, and all of a sudden he was in jail, than yeah probably.
Other than that it would totally depend on the crime, and the circumstances.
2007-09-26 10:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, it would depend on what they did (or were accused of doing). Secondly, it would depend on if it was a husband or a boyfriend. I would probably stick with a husband longer than a boyfriend. But you're right...it totally depends on what the crime was.
2007-09-26 10:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not going to wait around and waste my life waiting for someone to get out of jail. It all boils down to choices and I figure the boyfriend/spouse should have thought a bit longer and harder before they made the choice that landed them in jail...because I'm going to make the choice to not stick around.
2007-09-26 10:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I lied to the police in order to protect someone that I thought I loved. I was charged for aiding a criminal. I stuck by him through his jail time and his court ordered rehab.
He turned around and stole everything I owned.
I will never do it again.
2007-09-26 10:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what they went to jail for.
2007-09-26 10:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would depend on the crime, and also how much time they got....25 to life is a really long time.. Should my life be over because his/hers is? I think I would try to be there for them emotionally, but the romantic relationship would be over.
2007-09-26 14:51:32 · answer #11 · answered by goldie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋