..me, is in an emotionally abusive relationship, said that she wanted to be friends then get serious, then said she would marry me after she found out what was wrong with her health(it is ulcers), said that she would phone me on my cell phone, not to phone her because he threated to disconnect the phone (he suspects its me and has temporarily disconnected), and now i dont know if she is in this town or has left for the city...i cant show up at her doorstep...I want her and am very lonely for her..How can i contact her now..she has my cell number but may not know the area code in the city i will move to?
2007-09-26 10:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by extrapacker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's in an emotionally abusive relationship.... buddy, no, trust me, unless you know a little bit more about what your purpose would be with her, other then simply loving her, pain, heartache, and confusion are going to be a close, close friend of yours. Realize that she isn't in control, oooo you might get the impression that she has a choice, but he's got something you don't on her, her hope. Yea you could show her this, that, and some good, good times, but the fact is she is doing that to herself because she doesn't think any better of herself. YOU being able to do ANYTHING right for the relationship well put her in a position she can't handle, which is accepting what she is worth. This is the single most hardest thing ANY human can do, you included, if you've done it, you know how hard it is, and you should know how hard it would be for her. But its your life, if you want this wait. You have no choice in the matter really, she'll come and when she does you better have thought long and hard about what your going to do with her, because it isn't about giving her a good home, kiddos, and a life, its about making her think she deserves it. And thats hard, don't believe me, keep this up....
2007-09-26 12:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama. Do you really want to be part of it? If she wants she will find a way to contact you.
She is there in that relationship by her choice. There are lots of options for her.
You can call police to check on her. Explain police that the husband disconnected the phone and that he is locking her in the house. And they will go check on her right away.
I hope this helps.
2007-10-04 08:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Helper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have internet access? She can find you, trust me. Anyway, are you sure you want to get in a situation like this? He could end up being much more than emotionally abusive to you and her. Be careful.
2007-10-03 22:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋