we used to hang out alot during lunch and after work, we would go out and have fun we would chill at her house and have a blast but then i noticed she wanted to control me as well as she controlled all the guy friends she would talk to...
okay i was getting annoyed by her telling me what to do and then telling not to talk to this guy i know just cuz he hurt me... which i know better but i continued to talk to him as a friend i mean we belong to the same church and i not the type to be mad ((the past is the past, right))
well i wanted to distance myself from her and then this guy came in the pic and she thought i didnt wanna hang out with her cuz i wanted to be him but its not like that... o well one night she called me and the guy answered and she got mad and told me that she knew that he was gonna do me wrong ((keep in mind we are just friends only)) and that she never wanted to talk to me again...
why did she react like this??
2007-09-26 10:20:53 · 4 answers · asked by <3 ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm... I am not sure why she reacted that way maybe you should ask her. Have you tried that? If you two are friends maybe you should give her the same chances you gave the guy. Also I think alot of things could be going on . Possibly this girl really likes you as a friend. Maybe she sees something in this guy, that you don't. Sounds like she doesn't want to see you hurt. If that is the case you understand how much she cares, and thank her for that, but let her know that the guy is just a friend and you don't plan on taking it further.
But there is also the possibility that she is a bit psycho and she is jealous of anybody else you talk to. Which I would say cut all ties with her.
However, in the end you don't know why she reacted the way she did. That is why you should talk to her!! Call her, write her.... have a heart filled conversation on why she feels the way she does and what you two are going to do about it.
2007-09-26 10:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by sc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She properly wants all the attention on her. She properly feels your leave her out and it seems like you are. If you want her as a freind hang out with her and show you can have a b/f and freinds.
2007-09-26 17:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is because you didn't fold and give in to her controlling ways. You're better off, she made it easy to get away from her!!
2007-09-26 17:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Carol C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know why.
Is he still around?
2007-09-26 17:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋