OK so I met this guy at the pub last Saturday, we danced for hours and ended up back at his motel room (he is on a working holiday in Aus). We didnt have sex just did everything but. We spoke for hours and fell asleep in each others arms. This weekend will be my last chance to see him, as he is continuing his travels. We have been sending msgs to each other a bit over the last couple of days (that are getting pretty hot!). Is it a slutty thing to do to have one last night of fun before he goes?
Also all the guys where I live are just a waist of space! This is only the second time I have picked up since I moved here 10 months ago! He is just so perfect, I know I can not have him forever because he has to go back to Wales, is there anything wrong with making the most of his company while he is here?
2007-09-26 10:29:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off its your life and the only opinion on moral standards you need to live with is your own. No, I dont think there is anything wrong with this. Your not married and neither is he. Too many people in this world buy into that idealism that you find one person,fall in love and then have sexual relations. Well most of those people end up falling in love for all the wrong reasons.Sex isnt love and love isnt sex even if some of the best sex is with someone you love. That you will discover when you truly have it.
there is always time to figure out the right choice for you.Girl, Be you and enjoy your life, you only get one of them and there is alot of time to fiind "the one". By taking your time to get to know yourself and those that are future prospects,the better the chance when you do,of make the right one.
Good luck!
2007-09-26 10:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do it! Just don't get emotionally attached. I think the difference between a girl with class and a sl@t is all in how she thinks of and carries herself. Also a sl@t has sex with a guy to try to get him to like her. A girl with class has sex with a guy because she wants it and so does he. What is wrong w/ getting some pleasure even if you might not see this guy again? Just use protection, I hope you are already on birth control and have a good time. I want you to do it.
2007-09-26 10:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with it... a ****? Nah... a **** sleeps around with a lot of guys not have a one night stand... now you have a one night stand every day of the week... well that would be another story... and you are actually talking to this guy everyday... so do whatever you feel is natural... don't push it and you will be fine, k? It's hard to find guys that you have actual chemistry with so go with the flow
2007-09-26 10:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by chica42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha. Lame. i understand the subsequent morning it rather is embarrassing and that i purely choose to run away and that i think like crap because of the fact i'm nonetheless so under the impact of alcohol. yet i might never take it that far, sorry. Rumours unfold and that i might never get laid back. Hahahaha.
2016-10-05 10:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what your gonna do regardless of what reponses you get. Enjoy yourself. Also two questions.
1. What state are you in?
2. What's the name of the pub?
It's been months and I could use a easy lay!
2007-09-26 10:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope! If you feel like this is something you want to do. Then do it. If men can do it all the time and never think twice about it. We should too. Just much sure you heart is not going to have strings attached. Have fun!
2007-09-26 10:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lace 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you sound as if you're aware of the limitations and you're both 2 healhy unattached adults. Just don't put yourself in a position to get hurt when he has to leave.
2007-09-26 10:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not slutty. But I'd find out if he's interested in seeing you again... hell, why cant you go to Wales too?
2007-09-26 10:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing at all, enjoy yourself and remember t is so much better to regret what you have done than what you have missed out on! Go for it and have fun:) x
2007-09-26 10:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it at all. Enjoy yourself these are the memories that are great to have (just make sure to use protection)
2007-09-26 10:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by nomo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋