2007-09-26 16:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they can be very harmful. Anything that will pull away your focus from your marriage is not good for it. It entertains the idea of an affair and people begin to wander if. Take that energy and desire for a relationship and use it on your marriage. That may be the problem.
2007-09-26 17:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by jec0620 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up John Robinson, Kansas, murders on google and answer your own question. Online affairs are probably the most dangerous kind of all because behind the keyboard a person can be anybody they want to be, and you just won't know. Identity theft can make them appear to be someone else, a webcam pointing to someone else's location, you name it, the tricks are out there. And the predators out there are very good at telling their victims exactly what they want to hear in a way that somehow mesmerizes without triggering alarms until it is too late.
That said, you can meet good people online as well. So it isn't cut and dried that online is bad, either. It just requires a lot more care when you can't actually see, hear, check out, and be safe with who you are communicating with.
2007-09-26 17:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by HeartSpeaker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, why would you want to do something like this? It is very demeaning and shows you can't be trusted. This is a form of cheating and you need to stop now if you are guilty of it.
How many marriages have broken up because of those who have had online affairs? LOTS so that alone proves it is not harmless.
2007-09-26 17:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the guy I used to date got married to someone a year ago this October, and I see that he's got an online personal ad over on Yahoo Personals. You think it's harmless? I don't know. Would you like to be the wife of a man who thinks it's okay to sneak around and betray and lie? Someone needs to warn her before she wakes up with the STD he brings home to her.
2007-09-26 17:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its actually the intent of it, and what it could do to the marriage. it also takes time away from the spouse and when your involved in any way with someone else it can make u feel different about your spouse. all affairs begin innocently, with just a conversation, than it goes a little further, than u suddenly may find yourself in a full blown affair. anything u do behind your spouses back is cheating, and will destroy how u feel about your spouse.
2007-09-27 00:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No affair is harmless. Spending time talking on-line and flirting with someone is cheating, if you could be with your spouse and are choosing not to.
Stop now before you ruin your relationship for someone who most likely is not at all who you imagine them to be.
2007-09-26 17:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lorie N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cheating! Doesn't have to be physical in order to be cheating. Yes on line affairs are harmful! Do you have the balls to ask your spouse if they think it is harmless or not?
2007-09-26 17:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably more dangerous since everything is done in secret, and people are killed all the time ( latest case of the girl from LA , California who was killed from a gut she met on Craigslist and he took of to Florida where thy later got him but have not found her body ), and the thing was no one knew about the affair
2007-09-26 17:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm are you having a affair? sounds like it.There are alot of strange ppl in this world and you never know who they really are until you meet them..I mean the women of your dreams can be your nightmare and could ruin your life forever or change your life for good..I mean have some common sense..who you are dealing with and talking to ..sex is sex and passion is attraction and love is love..but..I have a feeling..that is what you give is what you get and that is life too..Dangerous if your a petafile and I hope you are not and if you are? than I hope you burn in hell..sick person..or if there under age is dangerous and hope you get caught..ppl ask strange questions lol..
2007-09-26 17:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends... If you are not lucky enough,you will get something terrible. Nowadays this kind of site is increasing and there is competation so that this kind of site is safer. Now i quote a sentence from sugarmommymeet.com:you can find what you want here safely...
Besides,if you have already married,you'd better stop the thought.
2007-09-28 00:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋