ok i started going out with this guy thinking this time things would go alot better... wel not exactly going too well... he is rushing things I think!!! he says he loves me and we have only been going out for like 5 days.. i dont want to say it back cuz i mean that is a strong word to use....and ever since i have been going out with him i am VERY depressed and dont ever want to do anything...what should i do??? i dont want to break his heart!!!!
2007-09-26 17:51:15 · 18 answers · asked by {K-La} 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hon, he is goping way too fast especially since your profile says you're 13 years old. Trust me, you will fall in and out of love many times in the next few years so don't let anyone rush you. Yopu don't have to break his heart if you explain to him you want to take things slower and see what happens. good Luck!
2007-09-26 17:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by the_chief 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously this guy need to slow down a bit. Relationship is not about rushing into everything. You must take your time to get to know someone and 5 days is obviously insufficient. You have to explain this to him eventually. It is true that maybe this will break his heart but at the end of the day, it is your own hapiness that really matters.
2007-09-27 00:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by spygirl_1781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like this guy is smothering you and you don't like to be smothered. As a guy, it does damage to your ego when you get dumped. If you guys have only been dating like five days, tell him that it's not what you're looking for. Make sure to highlight all the good things about him and it'll soften the blow. Then go out and have a good time. You shouldn't settle for anything five days into it. Find out what YOU want and find it in someone. The longer you wait, the harder it will be
2007-09-27 00:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make things more complicated than they already are. Break it off, the sooner the better. You aren't responsible for his feelings. He should be mature enough to accept your decision. Sounds as tho you, yourself, may need to stop dating for awhile, until you can heal up. And make good, and sound judgments in regard to your own life. If you've been hanging out at the wrong places, and with the wrong people, then stop doing that.
2007-09-27 01:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Stop trying to be easy on people because people don't go easy on you when it come down to break up and all of this serious stuff, so just tell him, if your interested in him tell him YOU want to take it slow and not use the L word so soon
2007-09-27 00:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
5 days, n he says he loves u?
Honey, i've been thru that same thing..went out w a guy once, met up for 5 days..he says the same thing..i dont say it..same reservations as u..in the end, he ends up w another girl..so ya..dun fall for this..it's most probably a very strong infatuation on his side..
love is when ur willing to sacrifice for each other..
2007-09-27 00:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by LadyN 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's rushing it. If he slowed it down, you "may" consider.
He'll probably give you some room.
Use that time to really think about your options and who you do or do not want to go out with.
2007-09-27 00:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just childish and thinks that when you have a girlfriend you have to automatically tell them you love them or something...lol i dont know..talk with him about it because if your feeling depressed after only 5 days then something needs to be done because it will only get worser in the future.
2007-09-27 00:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by So Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 days????
girl dump him he sounds like a fruit.
i had one of those kinds of bfs and it totally was annoying.
he was a clingy emo guy and said i love with in the first week. i dumped him about 2 months later.
they only get worse.
and if you dotn want to dump him then tell him how you feel and it all depends how he takes it.
2007-09-27 01:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All in the name of love they pretend and they actuallly want to get physical and satisfy their curiosity and get physical and then they will dump you, they dont bother about your heart why are you worried about his heart. He has a heart of stone unlike yours. Just dump him and get back to your happy life.
2007-09-27 00:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋