My new guy friend likes my bestfriend. My bestfriend doesnt like him. But HER friend likes my new guyfriend.
Should I just tell him that he has no chance with my bestfriend ? Because my BFF has made it clear with me that she will never give him a chance.
2007-09-26 15:46:31 · 15 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends how good a friend you are (you say you are only new) but yeah I think you could say 'forget xxxx, i don't think she's interested. but what about yyyy ? i know she thinks you're hot'.
done casually, it shouldn't cause too much pain :)
2007-09-26 15:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the proper thing to do to this old guy. Why have this fella fantazising and imagining things that aren't going to happen. Tell him the truth in a non-hurtful way, he'll appreciate it in the long run.
2007-09-26 22:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should! You could loose a good friend in him if you don't. You have to watch out for his feelings too. Just tell him "Hey maybe you need to be looking at girl Number 3 not her cause I think she has the hots for someone else" do it easy but do it. YOU WOULD WANT TO KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-26 22:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. You could lose your best friend. Advice sometimes has a way of sneaking back around and biting you in a sensitive spot.
2007-09-26 22:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Wile E. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the guy move on, a lot of us males need it straight.
unfortunately 80% of us have the intelligence of a horse.
Tell him nicely, but do it so he can get a clue and start looking elsewhere.
2007-09-26 22:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy but do it tactfully. Don't tell him she thinks he is a moron or something like that. Just tell him that she is not attracted to him in that way. Good luck.
2007-09-26 22:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's on first?
2007-09-26 22:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by hellvet2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the guy know now. Don't let him get his hopes up. Tell him about the other girl though.
2007-09-26 22:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, spare the poor devil's feelings....
2007-09-26 22:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....stay out of it...YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT WILL REALLY HAPPEN. Guys need to get KICKED in the joint to learn anyway. So....let it happen.
2007-09-26 22:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋