We want to try a threesome but where we live there is noone even remotely interested. Should I search proffessionally or try the internet? It is a fantasy of ours but how to go about finding the right person for a one time thing
2007-09-26 16:24:28 · 29 answers · asked by mollyc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not going to judge you one way or the other. Your fantasy is your fantasy.
You can go about it three ways:
1. Rent a mailbox and post an ad in the newspaper to attract someone assuring discretion. The mailbox is generally anonymous and sometimes newspapers have mailboxes where people send the reply and then they send it to you or you pick it up.
You will be surprised how many people are willing to do threesomes if it is under the guise of anonymous.
You decide if you want a male, a female, or another couple to go at it.
2. You might want to hire an escort who will do it. Unfortunately, it can be expensive ($500-$5,000) depending on the length of time and what you want to do.
3. There are numerous websites you can go to - sign up and list what you want. This might take a while to get someone either in your area or someone travelling to your area. Places like "adult finders" lets you view pictures so you can get a sneak peek at the person. However, sometimes people don't post the real picture of what they look like now (they tend to post what they looked like 10-20 years ago).
Just beware.
Yes, threesomes can work and sometimes they don't. It all depends on where your head is at. People get lust confused with love and think the other person wants to be with them when all they want is sex.
Have fun and enjoy.
Good luck!!
2007-09-26 16:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
YOU have no idea what you will be getting into. You might think that it is something that you want to try but think of it this way, how are you going to feel if you see your spouse getting off with that other person, or that other person getting your spouse off? Its gonna haunt you!
If you still are just dead set on it , look up swinger clubs in your area and go from there.
2007-09-26 16:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Hard Core Dance Poles 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Totally agree with the divorce responses. Unless you are in a casual relationship, 3somes never work. One of you will get jealous, and you can never take it back. You will always remember them with another person. I don't think human beings are cut out to deal with such a traumatic viewing because it always seems to have negative consequences. I say don't do it, for your sake.
2007-09-26 17:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kimpossible 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Molly make sure your 1st 3some is a mfm that way your husband is fully prepared for the emotions your going to feel after you have your fmf 3some.
Google swinging sites and clubs and rules and suggestion on line in your closest areas .
Oh the world your entering is going to shock the life out of you.
2007-09-26 16:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't personally but I saw this show once on HBO.
The couple did not want to hit a club or personals as 1st timers . They went to professional-I think the show was Cat House? and the business was Bunny Ranch (outside Vegas in Nevada) I guess that itt is why the mottois "WHat happens in Vegas satys in Vegas"
Head to Vegas!
2007-09-26 16:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you guys are clowns.why you trying to scare them. its fun and thats how you have to look at it.
2016-07-04 21:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by billysoreson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the adventure that your relationship is robust it is not a prolem. My spouse suprised me one nighttime and extra her perfect chum into the mattress room with us, it grew to become into relaxing watching them and then later starting to be a member of them. It did now not reason any issues of my spouse and that i because of the fact she is the sole one i prefer to be with, specific it grew to become into exciting together with her chum yet this is all it grew to become into. in case you boost your intercourse lifestyles this is all it may be spice and not the entire meal. i would not concepts repaying her the prefer and letting her have the exciting with me and yet another guy yet she is hesitant approximately that for some reason. in the adventure that your husband is in settlement, then bypass and characteristic exciting. good good fortune.
2017-01-02 18:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Craigslist
Adultfreindfinders.com
swinglifestyles.com
you have no problem since you are bringing something to the party
though it does help if both of you are young and attractive
and if you are you can pretty much pick and choose
2007-09-26 17:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
One time thing huh? If you think a threesome is such a great idea..why just limit it to a "one time thing"? You are sadly mistaken if you think this can't hurt your marriage...How do I know? I am living proof...inviting others into your marital bed is inviting trouble into your marriage....it led to the demise of my first marriage.
2007-09-26 16:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Nice decision. This will definitely spice up your sex life. I would say try swinger sites, one site I know is adultfriendfinder.com. I would also say search professionally. Dont go with the first person you come across, venture out and seek all options . Have fun,and Good luck!
2007-09-26 16:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Tru_New Orleanian 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋