What are some things i can do 2 to turn my wife on more 2 get her more interested in me in the bedroom?
2007-09-26 15:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by J J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Put together Jenny and Jadey's answers. Also, I sometimes don't feel in the mood because I feel taken for granted. He'll spend hours on video games, watching tv, doing his own thing every day after work. I just think every now and then you should throw all that energy into the one you love. Just me though, k?
2007-09-26 16:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you! First how about taking care of the dinner dishes, doing a load of laundry, making the bed, paying the bills, putting the kids to bed, or basically anything to help her out so she will feel like she has a little time to take a hot bath and feel somethng besides making a list of what the heck she has to do next or what the kids need in their lunches or if she sent the check for the light bill. Start paying more attention to her besides sex and understanding how she feels some and maybe she might be in the mood. You know we do have minds and we get over whelmed with kids and all we do plus alot of us work and sex is the last thing on our minds. When was the last time you worried about any of this stuff??? Been a while??? Try it! Make her feel important and she just might want to have some sex. You asked so now you know.
2007-09-26 23:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's anything like me, it is much more effective when you start planning and thinking about it all day....so when you get ready to leave for work let her know how sexy she is and attractive....flirt with her during the day etc....
Also, have a talk with her and let her know that you'd like for her to make more of an effort to spice up your sex life, because YOU LIKE IT and when you like something you want more of it (make an analogy with chocolate or something) AND then you ask her, "Do you enjoy it? Do you have a good time?" When she answers yes, then you say, "Well, then why don't YOU want more of it?"
Ask her, "What can I do to make this more exciting for you?"
Good Luck!
2007-09-27 09:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she gets the big O too. Cause if you are the only one getting it, that would be a reason she doesn't want it much, if it is always just for you.
But some women just don't have the desire, like guys do. I would suggest sex classes and marriage counciling.
2007-09-26 23:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman and as wife, I love having sex with my husband...because he makes me feel comfortable in my own skin. I think that is the most important thing for you to do... compliment your wife, tell her she's beautiful and tell her how sexy she is. When she feels good and comfortable about herself and when she knows that she is admired by you, she'll probably return you the favor.
2007-09-26 23:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love making begins early in the morning of the day you want to have sex. So start out your day with gentleness and kind words of appreciation and how beautiful she is and how she still has it and how much you still want her and lots of help to make her have lots of energy. 100 percent that she will respond.
Oh yes love making takes time so take the time.
2007-09-27 00:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fill in the blank here... :
My wife loves ________ like I love sex.
Whatever you put in the blank, make sure she gets lots of it and she might want to thank you in the bedroom.
2007-09-26 23:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay her down remove her clothing give her a sensual all over body massage then remove your clothing and rub yourself into her while your doing it then kiss and carress her neck.
Run her a bath with rose inscents and wash her all over and then climb in with her to get her errogenous zones (sp) .
Take her for a picnic somewhere private and romance her into submission physically.
Just use your imagination remember women dont like inititating it all the time and thats the main trouble with most men they wait for an open invite your married the invite stage is over .
2007-09-26 22:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clean the house. Do the laundry. Buy her roses, and take her out on a romantic date.
2007-09-26 23:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by lapatatedouce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her out around the house and with the kids (if you have any)
If my husband had done a little more of that he would have gotten ALOT more of what he was looking for because I would have actually been able to come to bed at a decent hour instead of him going to bed early and me up till all hours looking after the kiddo and doing all the housework.
2007-09-26 22:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by jenny s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋