She married my friend last year. Before marriage she had told him and his family that she is longing for love and her parents are after her money. Before marriage they both had decided to go abroad away from her parents and live happily after they got married.
After marriage the tables turned, suddenly. She left my friend hardly 15 days of marriage and didnt inform about her whereabouts to her husband or his family. And her parents also deny their knowledge about her contacts.
Recently, my friend had come to know the place where she is living and she is living in a single bedroom apartment with a male colleague. And her parents also visit her quite often.
When she knew that my friend had found out her, she started to mail him and blamed him for what et al happened. And she is claiming that the colleague is brother (kindof) person to her.
My friend is confused what to do? Kindly suggest.
2007-09-26 21:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Excuse me Mr.Sampath K Kuberan:
Mind your words. Who the hell are you to talk about my friend as you've told. First you have to consult a psycatric doctor. I read your questions. You have claimed that your daughter's husband is an impotent. You seem to claim it on everyone else you see. (Your behaviour reminds me of Bernard shaw's quotes "We dont see things as it is, we see things only as we are")
What do you mean by saying that my friend is a coward, but, it was me who had asked the question through yahoo answers. In that case you are a coward too, since even you have asked a question in support of your daughter and dont have the guts to talk to your son-in-law or get rid of him. Even before you got rid of him, you have started to think of a second marriage for your daughter. What kind of a father are you?
First look at your faults before even spelling a word about others.
2007-09-27 20:05:11 · update #1
I would tell your friend that a woman like that is not deserving of him and that he should not waste his time with her. He should not feel at fault because he was not the one who walked out and went into hiding. He should just get a divorce. I feel for your friend and my heart goes out to him. No one should ever be played like that. Not all women are like that. He will find someone it will just take time.
2007-09-26 21:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a horror story well first things first your friend needs to get a divorce so he can move on with his life, maybe hire a private detective or go to http://www.cheaters.com/ for more help. In some states you have to do jail time or pay a fine for adultery. Then he is going to need your love and support to get him through the tough times of building back his trust in women.
2007-09-27 04:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's doubtful that she's not having an affair with the person she's living with. Does she want to try to work it out with your friend? Has your friend asked her to go to marriage counseling with him? If she refuses, then there is nothing to do except to file for divorce and move on. You'll have to step in and be a good friend during this entire process.
2007-09-27 04:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do wat gives u happiness but always think about the consequences before doing anything.
i dont believe in running after the person who doesnt even love u. we need love and thats the only reason why we give love.
but i believe your friend needs answers to questions within him. so let him find it from that girl. but if he is not worried bout answers then just forget bout the girl. there are many fishs in the sea. and nexttime see carefully what fish u catch.
enjoy your life......many people and events come into your life that tries to take your mind off things that really matter........and what really matters is how u live your life without any regrets.
take care.
2007-09-27 04:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by crul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to investigate the grounds for an annulment
2007-09-27 04:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
If I was your friend, I would file for divorce, and get on with my life..It's obvious this woman does not want him..
But if I were you, I wouldn't get so involved with their business..
Besides, you really don't know everything that's going on..Your friend is just telling you, his side of the story..
Just let them work this mess out on their own..
Take Care Hon!
2007-09-27 04:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
two sides to all stories your friend might not be telling you all either, and it is not for you to butt in and give your friend advice till you know her side of the story, something awful must have happened if a marriage only lasted 15 days
2007-09-27 04:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by rocky 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She definitely can,t be trusted,your friend should file for desertion.and make her pay for being unfaithful.He deserves someone who can return his love she is not worth keeping
2007-09-27 04:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by dicovi 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Too bad, ask your friend to forget her and start a new life.
2007-09-27 05:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
duh leave the skank on move on...why would you want to work things out with someone so shady...he shouldn't even be thinking about working it out...he should just leave...look she left not him so im pretty sure he wouldn't have to pay her anything...drop the hoe...n do it quick...
2007-09-27 04:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by da bays finest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋