Family & Relationships - 26 September 2007

Guys, what would you do in this situation?

this girl you've been chasing for months (about four) finally gave in (sexually) but you didn't have a chance to really explore her the way you wanted. When you ask her to do it again, she said no and that was the end of it. No matter how hard you try to persuade her (manipulate). You were not able to get much more than words that showed that she cared about you but she wouldnt give in sexually because she stated that she felt that after that experience she felt that it would be best if she stayed in a non-sexual relationship. What would you do in this situation?

she was a virgin

2007-09-26 06:59:59 · 14 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do I mail is as Mrs. or Ms. or Miss?

ANyone know? :) thanks in advance

by the way the woman is my grandmother

2007-09-26 06:55:49 · 18 answers · asked by cherriwaves 3 in Weddings

many times we recieve and send inspirational messages to our frienmd and family and we dont know the impact it have on the other party or they dont what effect it had ou our life.if an email have had an effect in your life before you can star me

2007-09-26 06:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by rev richard 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im not saying they're bad.. but i was just thinking about it for some reason.. its weird.. i mean its not like they're pretty..

2007-09-26 06:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi there this might sound mean to some people but I have my reaons. Does anyone know any good excuses for getting out of a friends party. Heres my reasons, the girl whose party I am supposed to be attending is really mean and she always picks on me when she is with others. i don't want to go because her mean ways but I need an excuse for not being able to go. I may sound mean but she is horrible to me and it really upsets me.

2007-09-26 06:54:17 · 12 answers · asked by lozzy 2 in Friends

Why/when would a state get involved in collecting child support when the child support order is in another state (CP is in the state where the order was issued and the NCP lives in another state.)

The specified amount of child support is being withheld from a paycheck. The employer is sending it (or supposed to be sending it to the CP state collection agency). What happens if the employer isn't sending it? What responsibility does the NCP have if it is being withheld and not paid? The NCP has called to verify payments and the employer is saynig that the support is being paid in the correct amount to the correct person.

Thanks for the answers!

2007-09-26 06:54:08 · 13 answers · asked by justcatch13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for example.. girl friend say I'm pregnant. he says why..

2007-09-26 06:52:27 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding is 2 months away and I invited a neigbor to my wedding.Well since then she has talked about me and then i confronted her and she said I am not talking about your wedding because no one would be interested in it! So how do I say NO your not invited throw you invitation out!!

2007-09-26 06:48:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do you think your children know when their parents are mad at each other ..i mean the little ones , i have two boys 5, and 2. lately we have arguing and have plenty of issues , the other day i was making dinner and my husband was still at work so i asked my 5 year old if he would like to eat....his response was "NO i want to wait for my daddy and we are ALL going to eat TOGETHER like a FAMILY " and then he continues " ..and after were done eating we are going to take a WALK together like families do " does this mean my boy is feeling a little sad and is aware of what is happening with his parents?? i'm so sad i don't want to continue to hurt my boys..any advise please.
there has been divorce talk on my husband part i still love him and more than anything i would like to work things out ..but my boys are the most important thing in this crazy world and i don't want to see them hurt anymore! but is it a loose loose situation ..either we divorce and my boys have a broken family ....

2007-09-26 06:43:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband/father of 2 children and i moved back in together a year ago. During our 3 year break-up he has made new female friends (2 in particular). He still continues to have conversations with them as they call him and he returns the calls. I told him in the begining that the friendships needed to be incorporated and still a year later and I do not personally know the 2 women and it makes me feel angry that he continues having conversations with them and has actually been out with them without telling me cause he knew i would get upset. I dont understand why i cant be included in these friendships. Basically i am looking for advise as to if my feelings of resentlment / jealously are valid. And also....
Is it fair to ask him to cut the cord?.....Should I call these specific 2 women and have a heart to heart talk with them stating that it is causing problems and out of respect would appreciate that they not continue having conversations w him unless they come to our house

2007-09-26 06:42:04 · 24 answers · asked by Flaca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is this a big rumour that will get me into lots of trouble!?!

2007-09-26 06:40:35 · 36 answers · asked by ♫♪Bag♫♪ 7 in Weddings

he is abusing me but i want my mom to be happy and she has never been so happy that she is married to some one that she loves so much

2007-09-26 06:39:38 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to but not sure if i should?????is this a bad idea????he must love me to want a child with me....

2007-09-26 06:39:00 · 30 answers · asked by badkittykitty2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read question after question, regarding women who don't have self confidence, why are we so insecure and why don't we stand up to whats right?? Lets get it together foreal, We have to represent, so that our daughters can grow up and be strong and teach there daughters, not allowing them to see men to take advantage of us. Whats up ladies? Do we agree?

2007-09-26 06:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by passionate 3 in Marriage & Divorce

His first will was done by his sister, it was never signed or witnessed. There were 2 copies. After he passed, her copy was signed with a rubberstamp signature which is illegal. She worded the Will to benefit her. Calif is a state that doesn't recognize common law. Now we found another Will in some papers, what should I do? Basically lawyers I spoke to are saying he passed intestate. So next of kin will get everything, I helped build with him? I can file criminal charges on her too, I don't know what to do or where to turn, lawyers are no help because we weren't married. If I knew a piece of paper would be the solve all to any problems, I would have gotten married. We built a life together, she can just take it away?

2007-09-26 06:37:20 · 4 answers · asked by nascar lady 3 and 8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know someone who just had a baby, weeks old. He is taking care of things financially, and he's there for the mother, but he does not want to be with her. They realized this during the pregnancy. Now he really wants to bond with his daughter, but because he does not want to be with the mother, the family is making that very difficult, and the mother isn't really doing anything about it, except trying to get back with him. He is very frustrated because he actually WANTS to be there, unlike other fathers the world complains about. His friends are saying don't worry, when the daughter gets older she'll decide for herself, but he doesn't want to give up all this time. He actually wants be there, and help take care of her. Has he really given up the right to be there with his baby just because he doesn't want to be with the mother? Shouldn't the baby take precedence over what's going with them? They are very civil with each other by the way. She just wants to be back with him, & he doesnt.

2007-09-26 06:33:40 · 19 answers · asked by Camille J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing someone for about a year and a half but we broke up at the beginning of this year but still not much has changed. Sometimes he tells me he still loves me but we both have too much going on to get back together. He has an ex girlfriend that is still around helps his family out and is around for every family function but he says that there is nothing between them but I have a problem with it and he makes it clear how much he doesn't care how I feel about her being around. Also, he goes out with friends at times, which I don't mind but if I question him about anything that seems suspicious he yells at me, curses and says very hurtful things. He questions me about every last detail of my life but if I do it he tells me to mind my business and reminds me that I'm not his girlfriend anymore but he gets all the benefits. I really do love him dearly but it's emotional torture. What should I do? We are both in our 20s

2007-09-26 06:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-26 06:33:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

your spouse and what is your spouses ethnicity?

2007-09-26 06:32:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 06:31:42 · 17 answers · asked by sofia 5 in Weddings

My husband and I are expecting our first child and since I have been pregnant he won't have sex with me, I feel that he does not notice me anymore, and I feel that he may be cheating, and do not know how to talk to him about the situation? Please help!!!!

2007-09-26 06:30:13 · 42 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi guys. I guess I'm posting this here because the "Weddings Section" is where I hang out the most here on Yahoo Answers.

Last night, I found out my Mom was diagnosed with Thyroid cancer. We are not yet sure what stage or what type of cancer it is...but the Dr.s say it is very treatable with a good cure rate.

I'm doing my best to be supportive, willing to help my Mom with her appointments, or help her with anything I can do. I know she needs surgery, then needs treatments.

Mom has great chances to be cured. This is one of the easiest cancers to treat in early stages. I'm just stuck in such a depression right now...I'm scared. I watched my grandma die from breast cancer...and I don't want to lose my mother...although I know there is nothing I can do to "fix" this.

I should be getting my Save the Date magnet envelopes ready, but I can't even think about my wedding. How can I be positive and shake off this depression? I can't find a "hopeful" spirit....I'm so scared...

2007-09-26 06:29:42 · 19 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Weddings

what is the biggest turn ons for guys, how do you keep you husband satisfied and interested..

2007-09-26 06:29:12 · 21 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey!
This questions is for anyone, male, female, any sexuality etc who is STILL in a grade A relationship.
How did you do it? What makesthe two of you 'happy together'?
What are your words of wisdom for all the hopeful romantics out there?
OR have you been in an amazing relationship that sadly went wrong? Why and how did it take that route after initial success?
Congratulations and I wish you continuing happiness.
Oh PS: a few months into your relationship doesn't count lol, you're still high in the honeymoon period!

2007-09-26 06:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 06:27:45 · 22 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-26 06:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

theres about five of us girls at work over here.
were just wondering why is it that men are so fascinated with ejaculating in our mouths, on our faces, on our chests, you know... everywhere.

2007-09-26 06:24:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica M 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, which hotels cater the best to honeymooners with upscale suites? Did you have a great time? Was it romantic?What all did you do on your honeymoon (besides the fun *indoor* excitement)?

2007-09-26 06:17:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-26 06:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When all I can think about is this guy who doesn't make an effort to call me or text me? Everyone says to get over him!!
But then why am I holding on so hard then?

2007-09-26 06:13:08 · 9 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Singles & Dating