2007-09-26 06:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think sometimes he does.
There are certain things that he doesn't tell me, and I know he does that because I'm a big worrier. He tries to keep me from worrying. And he feels it IS his job to protect me and take care of certain issues.
2007-09-26 06:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I tell him I don't need protecting at this point in my life (37 Years old), but he has difficulty seeing why I have a problem with it. It makes me feel like he thinks I am a fragile, tender female that might get the vapors or faint if something were to upset me. Then again, many women tell me they wish their husbands would just deal with the bull and leave them out of it. My husband and I have compromised. As long as it is not about something major (relationship, money, house, dogs), he is welcome to do the manly thing and keep me from worrying my pretty little head. I do have a tendency to obsess on occasion, so he is probably taking the best road to see that we both remain peaceful!
2007-09-26 06:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Really now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is pretty knowledgable in these worldly things. She can handle things on her own without my having to 'protect' her. The days of suits of armor are long gone.
Besides...things that would worry or upset a wife aren't going to go away and you're only forestalling them from surfacing. Then you run the risk of her being jerked off because you didn't tell her to begin with. As you can never seem to win when it comes to this just let her know and let the chips fall where they may.
2007-09-26 06:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was likely hoping you'd think it would be something fun to try. Many girls have a similar rape fantasy. It's not really rape because rape is violent and isn't about sex. It's more of a rough, but controlled, type of sex. Some girls like rougher sex because they want to surrender themselves and become lost in it. Don't be too hard on him and don't be afraid of him either. It's just something he thought would make sex with you different, new and exciting. It backfired. It's not for everyone. Not all the suggestions we make to our partners are things they're even remotely interested in doing. His age isn't a factor in this. It was an idea that didn't work.
2016-05-19 01:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. He always tells me that it's his job to protect me from anything that can harm me. I myself so happy to hear abt it.But, then again, if things I can handle, I don't need to tell him.
Besides, I don't wanna be sound and look like a spoil lil girl in front of him.
But,there're certain things that I can't handle, I'll let him take care ( ex. a guy who works at our bar being rude to me, my hubby stood up and talked to him directly that nobody could hurt his wife. It's a big NO NO NO. Next time,if he don't behave,he'll be kicked out by our bouncers and won't see him anymore,no matter how much money he brings to the business ). Later on,this guy apologized. But,he had been warned by my husband already. :P
I'm so blessed to have a husband like him.
2007-09-26 06:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 20 years, I don't feel he "protects" me when he doesn't tell me things; just doesn't want to talk about it! And no matter how much I encourage (not nag) him to share, he still keeps most things to himself! Arghhh! A lot I usually find out anyway! And it's not like I get mad like if he buys a tool for himself that costs a few hundred; he makes the money and if he wants it, that's his business. He doesn't take away from 'us' by doing so.
2007-09-26 06:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does and anyone who loves u as much as mine does would. It was hard to get use to at first and i took alot of it for granted because I wanted to be a big girl, but now i look back a feel nothing but blessed!!! He protects me and i love it!!!
2007-10-04 04:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, but the truth always comes out. My policy is we are in this life together and we see it through together. Keeping things from me isn't really "thinking about me" because it limits my ability to control my life.
2007-09-26 06:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, although most of the time he just sticks around to help me if the news is really bad.....like when my Dad was ill and battling cancer, he was very much my ROCK.
2007-09-26 06:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! Thats my husband. I do like it. Makes me feel safe and loved.
2007-09-26 06:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by LMH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋