i want to but not sure if i should?????is this a bad idea????he must love me to want a child with me....
2007-09-26 06:39:00 · 30 answers · asked by badkittykitty2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if his marriage was happy he wouldnt be coming to me!!!!
2007-09-26 06:48:53 · update #1
some times you cant help who you love!!!!
2007-09-26 07:10:54 · update #2
You should not be dating a married man. Close your legs and start wearing pants.
2007-09-26 06:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
u should only be having children with someone your married to, don't u want a normal family with your very own husband who belongs to u and only u, one u won't have to share? he doesn't love u or his wife, but what he is doing is putting u in a very bad predicament, no promise of marriage, whose going to raise the child? do u really want this man in your life for the 18 years? this is a terrible idea, where someone is going to get hurt, could be u could be his wife. if he will cheat on someone he made a commitment to and once loved, what do u think your chances are. have a little self worth and think better of yourself than to go with someone who is offering u nothing but sex. go find someone who is free to give u the kind of life u deserve, this man is hurting u and his wife.
2007-09-26 08:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL..um no. It could just get him out of his marriage. Then leave you both. If a married man wants to be with someone else..hes a cheater which also means hes a LIAR...So guess what..you dont know if hes telling you the truth about anything and could be getting you hopes up. And hes coming to you cause its easy..sorry to say. In a real marriage you have problems and the stress of it causes him to go whats easiest...I say leave him and find a single guy and build a real relationship before you bring an innocent child into that chaos
PS. that would consider you a homewrecker..might wanna change your screenname if you decide to go forth with it
2007-09-26 06:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by grayjj04 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It was a bad idea from the point that you decided to be the g/f of a married man. And He can take custody of the baby by saying you agreed to surrogate the child for him. Then she gets to raise it with him. You get shut out. Still sound good. Don't say it can't. I did it.
2007-09-26 07:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have a baby with this man. Why are you dating a married man. Some day you might be married. Do you want your husband sleeping around? Some men are always cheaters. Wanting to have a baby does not mean that he loves you. If he loved you he would not go home and sleep with his wife. Are you his only girlfriend?
2007-09-26 06:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who've cheated in the previous oftentimes tend to cheat returned. Did his spouse bypass away him using this reason? You adult men have a stunning 10 3 hundred and sixty 5 days friendship and additionally you have in basic terms been relationship for a couple of minutes, in case you at the instant are not too in touch yet, it is ordinary to flip your relationship returned to friendship and dodge dissimilar those uncomfortable concerns and suspicions. for sure he's now not somebody you could completely have faith in case you have those fears, it is likewise distinctly early on your relationship with him too and that's in no way an outstanding sign in case you're feeling insecure already.
2017-01-02 17:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even believe that you would consider this. Do you think he really loves you? Do you think he will really take care of the child happily? Why would you put an innocent child thru this? Get a life grow up and go find your own husband instead of hurting people. Selfish.
2007-09-26 07:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all really bad idea. I hope you wouldn't bring a child into that situation.Second of all everyone keeps jumping at her when the real *** is the man. He's the one married and god knows what he tell her about his wife.
2007-09-26 07:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by rock of ages 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your boyfriend. He's committing adultery with you. Leave him alone and find someone who is not married. It's quite unreal that you consider having a child with him. He didn't pick you- he picked his wife- you're his piece on the side. There was no mention that he's going to leave his wife. Now, try to get some self-worth by leaving him.
2007-09-26 07:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by RSJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell kinda ? is that? You a few screws lose and your best ? should of been why am I with this married man who want's me to have his baby? His wife is smart not to want his child!! You need to rid yourself of this loser man an realize that one day you might be married to him is he asking another girl to do the same thing's he did you? He's a loser an you are just as much at fault as he is because you know this loser is married!!OLD SAYING What goes around come's around!!! He only come's to you cause you are easy an he know's you will!!!
2007-09-26 06:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by ajjsdj4ever 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Boy, did someone hand you a bad map to real life. And you want to bring another human being, an innocent child, into this messed up arraingement? Find a good mentor, your parents did a lousy job on you and you just want to pass it down to another generation through an egotistical, selfish creep. And the tax payers pick up the burden of your decision which you made through your hormones. Get as far away from this filthy arrangement as you can!
2007-09-26 06:51:18 · answer #11 · answered by lds123 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋