Guys, what would you do in this situation?

Question

Guys, what would you do in this situation?

this girl you've been chasing for months (about four) finally gave in (sexually) but you didn't have a chance to really explore her the way you wanted. When you ask her to do it again, she said no and that was the end of it. No matter how hard you try to persuade her (manipulate). You were not able to get much more than words that showed that she cared about you but she wouldnt give in sexually because she stated that she felt that after that experience she felt that it would be best if she stayed in a non-sexual relationship. What would you do in this situation?

she was a virgin

Answer 1

If I were in that situation, I would ask myself why I was such a shallow person that I was willing to manipulate a woman into having sex with me. I would wonder why I could not accept her for the person that she is. I would worry about the fact that I am apparently so sexually needy that all I care about is the sex and not the person. I would also feel very, very guilty for badgering a woman for four months until she gave up her prized virginity, apparently against her better judgment. In short, what I would do would be to feel awful about myself and then use these negative feelings as motivation to try to make myself into a better man, a good man, an emotionally mature man.

Answer 2

Don't mean to be rude.
But I don't think that you met her expectations.
Did you hurry,or did you make sure you did alot of 4-play and also did you make sure she was satisfied or did you only worry about your own satisfaction.
If you only pleasured your self and did not worry about her pleasure then that's probably why she don't want to have sex with you again.>
PS >.Are you that immature. That you had to beg her for it.Could you not understand the first time she said NO .That just was down right ignorant of you. You need to get some kind of therapy so this don't happen again in the future

Answer 3

Heh, heh.....you blew it sport. Coulda had it made but you failed to perform properly and she's shut down on you.

I'd let it go. You're only gripe is you know you failed miserably and you want another shot at her. She ain't a pinball game where you can hope for a better score. Keep pushing and she'll shut you out completely or call a cop because you're bothering her.

Let it go and try not to blow it next time huh?

Answer 4

You sound very selfish. I don't believe that "didn't have a chance to relly explore her the way you wanted." routine one bit! You mean you rushed her, rushed into it, popped your wad and in hind sight realize maybe you should have taken time to try to please her! Just leave her alone, she's trying to be nice about saying, "You sucked."

Answer 5

Well. NO IDEA. Manipulative, self-centered sex partners who dont "get the chance" to...HMMM. I think you should leave the poor girl alone before she wakes up and kicks you in the crotch REPEATEDLY.

Answer 6

I'd wonder how you live with yourself for taking her virginity thru pressure and intimidation instead of real feelings. Get lost creep.

Answer 7

I'd think that you f*cked up pretty well with your performance, and if you're willing to pressure her and manipulate her to get what you want, she's better off without you.

Answer 8

Let her go. She feels foolish enough without having you bring it up over and over. It is your own fault for rushing her.

Answer 9

first consider your self. then consider your lack of consideration for life the pure part

Answer 10

Sounds like you suck in bed, and that's why she won't give you more.