I don't understand why some women deny their husbands? sex is fun! even if i'm not turned i would still never say no to my husband because sex makes me feel loved and its nice to be close to him in that way. its a wife duty to satisfy her husband. when a man marries he promises to be faithful so its up to the wife to make her husband happy. i think all women should have sex with their husbands when and where he wants to.
2007-09-26 04:04:09 · 65 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I am in love with you ... or at least your attitude! Will you please marry me as soon as I can get out of this 1st marriage?
2007-09-26 04:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sex is such a beautiful thing when shared by those who love one another. But, even as much as I like it, there are just times when it isn't possible no matter how much I would like to. I don't have little kids, but I'm 58 years old and work a full time job. I'm tired at the end of my work day. I have never refused my significant other, but I know beyond any reasonable doubt that he would not insist if I were to be too tired or too sick. Things happen, Sweet Cheeks, to keep two people from sharing the love they feel for one another each and every time one or the other of them wants to make love--you'll find this to be true as you get older and have children. But, truly, if you want to keep your man happy, you better be able to say yes a heck of a lot more times than you tell him no!
2007-09-26 07:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about other women, but I deny my man sex sometimes because:
-I'm too tired. I am a SAHM, plus I help him with his job (he's self employed) . That's easily a 14-16 hour day right there. After all that, I don't have the energy for sex, and I don't want to do the deed if all I'm gonna do is lie there. We both deserve better!
-If we have had a disagreement. I know there are a lot of you out there who agree with me....after fighting with your significant other, the last thing you feel like doing is taking a roll in the hay.
The only other time I don't want sex is if I am sick.
2007-09-26 04:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got it all wrong.
Men should be sexually available to their wives 24/7.
Men should be sexually available to their wives 24/7.
Men should be sexually available to their wives 24/7.
(Third time's the charm.)
(As I understand it, not so much a problem in Scotland as in the US.)
(Men can practice and train themselves to eliminate the refractory period. It's true. I know men who have, and I'm talking *years* before anything similar to Viagra was in *pre*clinical phase. American men are usually too damned lazy and self-centered to consider it. Not all American men. Just most.)
2007-09-26 09:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion:
People should engage in any activity only when they want to. It would make me feel disgusting to embark upon my wife knowing she is just laying there while I go to town. It would feel like rape to me. And to the guys who would go for that...sick. Weirdos. These are people I hope my daughters never end up with. And this isn't even a gender/inequality issue (it is that too, but...), it's about civility and that fact that we came out of the cave. It's about lack of love. Marital institutionalism should not seal a bond of sexual enslavement. Let wives and husbands, PEOPLE, decide their moods and what they do or not do - regardless of a partner's disappointment.
2007-09-26 04:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but I also think that sometimes it is up to the husband to make it worthwhile and enjoyable as well. I mean don't underestimate the power of foreplay... for either party.
When women deny their husbands I think there are other underlying issues there that aren't being dealt with either medical, emotional or psychological. Face those and deal with them and you'd be amazed at just how much sex you'll WANT to have.
2007-09-26 04:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The problem is this: not all husbands are interested in making love. Some of them want an "express train" if you get my drift.
I agree that being intimate with someone you love is a wonderful experience. Feeling used is not. It's grand to want to make your husband happy in this regard, but what about the husband making his wife pleasured? This part of a marriage goes both ways.
2007-09-26 04:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you, and I have said so many times here. Don’t expect much support from the majority of women here, though. I’m amazed at the conniving ways women come up with to get out of pleasing their husbands. Then they are the first ones to bash men who have extra-marital affairs. You are right that when you take those vows, you not only promise to remain faithful, you promise to LOVE!!! It is a two way street. Both people have to keep up their ends of the deal in order to make it work. A woman who refuses her husband is ASKING to lose him to another woman.
2007-09-26 04:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by meagain 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost 29 years. There are many ways, in addition to sex in which we make each other feel loved. While we are still very sexually active, my wife is not my property. We are both human feelings with emotions and feelings. Neither of us should be "available" whether we are in the mood or not.
2007-09-26 04:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by toff 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can say this from living with my husband for 4 years. Sometimes it takes more than that to turn a woman on than a man. Sometimes there are things that need to be done before sex. If it was up to my husband it would be everyday. SO, I can't see giving in EVERYTIME! I think there should be more of a happy medium there...
2007-09-26 04:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by It's a girl due 5/11/09 4 · 13⤊ 1⤋
the only way that i would say no would be if he's done something that hurt me or says something that is really hurtful that's a turn off. a husband has to also make a woman feel loved and it's just not the sex that does it. if you feel loved and secure by your husband you would want to
2007-09-26 05:23:43 · answer #11 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋