I've been married for 2 years, have a beautiful child with my stunning wife. We have very healthy sex life, and very happy marriage. Even though I'm sitting here in an office with 20 of the finest hotties, all I'm doing is fantasizing about my wife at home. is this normal?
2007-09-26 03:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Valerie X and Quasimoto 1957 (was that the year you were born??) and all the women who were offended by me calling attractive women 'hotties'... chill out. if someone called you a 'hottie', it's something you should smile about.
The word 'hottie' was actually used by my wife to describe my co-workers over the x-mas party last year. and yes, everyone, not limited to straight men would consider my co-workers 'hotties'.
2007-09-26 04:19:11 · update #1
NO its not wrong, she is a lucky woman. And it is very normal. You love, respect and lust for your wife. That is the way it should be. Now call her and tell her.
2007-09-26 04:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Even though I'm sitting here in an office with 20 of the finest hotties, all I'm doing is fantasizing about my wife at home"
I'm sure your wife would just LOVE to know you consider all the women you spend 8-10 hours a day with, five days a week, "hotties"......
2007-09-26 03:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Dude, are you serious. You are sitting around 20 women and you think about your wife, thats good, not bad. You should be proud instead of thinking that it is bad. You cant lust after your wife. She turns you on and she is supposed to.
2007-09-26 03:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is wonderful and not at all wrong by any means.
Hey, you can't help knowing that you work with hotties i mean who would'nt notice?
2007-09-26 03:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a ridiculous question. Tell me....does this 'job' you're working in require any common sense? Sure hope not with a question like this.
"Twenty of the finest hotties"? Not even 'ladies' or 'women' huh?
2007-09-26 03:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Thats not lust thats love and its normal. What would be bad is if you were fantasizing about the 20 other girls and not the woman you married.
2007-09-26 03:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not only is it okay and normal to lust after your own wife it is also highly encouraged. Keep up the good work.
2007-09-26 03:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hell yes!!!!!!!!! what is wrong with you, why do u have to ask. eventhough those other girls might be attractive to other men, you don't care about them because you love you wife. That is such a good sign. i hope my boyfriend does that about me.
2007-09-26 03:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hopethishelps! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, I hope it's not "wrong", otherwise I'm in trouble... I lust after my husband all the time...
2007-09-26 03:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's normal!! It's kind of weird to ask such a question. I mean, you married her...
2007-09-26 04:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋