Relationships?

Question

In a relationship, do you tend to move wayy to fast, too slow, or just right for your significant other?

Answer 1

It just depends on how the significant other is. Going with the flow can make you end up moving way to fast, too slow, or just right. The best thing to do is to try not to control too much and see how it goes. It'll fall in place if it's meant to be, but if it is not, you'll see for yourself.

Answer 2

It seems in all relationships you try to move too fast at first. But with the relationship that I am in now, I feel like that we are moving at just the right pace for one another. He's divorced and has a child and I've never been married and have no children. He's trying to adjust to my lifestyle and me to his. We're doing a good job at it too. I think it all depends on the needs and wants of your significant other. As long as you work together, you can make it work!

Answer 3

I think it all depends on the chemistry and connection. I've had relationships that moved fast. I've had some that moved slow. The slower ones were the better relationships. Sometimes you move too fast, relationships seem to crash and burn faster.

Answer 4

I hope it has always been just right, but I tend to lean toward taking it slow and easy...until I really get to know them and make sure the feelings are mutual! Nothing worse than having a one sided relationship...ya know?!! =D

Answer 5

I guess i move to slow.. I tend to be more laid back. I hesitate to much. But any way I am married now.

Answer 6

Depends on alot of factors with significant other the place, time, age, mutual feelings, fondness, passion, with each other I can't say without signifcant others feelings and emotions coming into the scenario and what would please the significant other

Answer 7

It depends how the other person is if they tend to push me away and its someone with whom IVe tried with to be cool and get close too then I tend to move away distance myself from them now if its someone who wants to get close I will get close to them but I usually get bothered with too much smothering I tend to want to get away but then later realize a nd I start to get close to them HOpe that makes sence to you

Answer 8

i WANT to move fast

but move slow, because i like long relationships

hmm..is that a bad thing? :P

Answer 9

Yeah, never move too fast.

Answer 10

slowwwww and steady...haste ends in failure...i have not seen a single relationship where they jumped into bed the 2nd week and lived happily everafter....guys dont dig that!!