was in the same room together on vacation together we had sex when my wife was in the other bed
2007-09-26 04:16:33 · 30 answers · asked by hotchocolate2472003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
FOR GODS SAKE KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!!
2007-09-26 04:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I could go on and on and on some more about how common sense, loyalties, and any heart at all has somehow escaped you but, seems like the general rule here has pretty well done that for me. (Obviously, after reading all the answers you know that you are seriously screwed in the head) So, just gonna let you know...if you seriously think her "best friend" is not going to tell you are a fool! She's most likely gonna grow a concious and tell. I'm horribly surprised that your wife didn't wake up...guess there's something to be said for the "no noise" factor...you might want to look into that a bit further (If you don't understand: the woman must not have made much noise...why didn't she?) Either way, this IS going to come to light, face it. You already have a guilty mind and well, you can't control the bf's actions. It's time you faced up to what you did. Tell your wife and DO HER A FAVOR sit there and answer any questions she has, take the time to let her vent her (rightfully so!) anger upon you, let her cry, let her scream...let her get YOU out of her system. The bf will get hers too...trust me, us women know how to get revenge on the fem's who screw up in life. But, I have to say...you had enough balls (and boy did you have brass ones that she will most likely remove!) to do what you did then you should have enough balls to take and fess up and face the consenquence. Those who don't face it...well, who cares, you are already lower than most at this point.
2007-09-26 14:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by lovewalkingintherain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR WIFE! I don't care who you are or what you have done, honesty is always the best issue. That woman is not your wife's best friend and neither are you. You are suppose to be her best friend. It is going to be a hard blow, but she deserves to know that she can't trust either of you. That was about as low down as you can get. How can you sleep at night, I hope to god that you have not slept with her since this incident. That was horrible. Your poor wife is going to be crushed. KARMA! It is saving something special for people like you. You are yucky and dirty and I hope that after doing something so horrible that you at least have the balls to do what you need to do. Maybe she will forgive you and maybe she won't but that is her decision, not yours and surely not her "best friend"'s either. Both of you should not be chicken sh**ts and fess up.
2007-09-26 11:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off your a liar,that girl might be a lot of things in this world,most I can't put on here,BUT she is not your wifes best friend,and you are a PIG,and don't deserve to have a wife !!!
2007-09-26 14:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're low and so is your wife's so called ho-bag of a friend. Give me your wife's contact info, I'll tell her what you did! How would you feel if your wife slept with your best friend? You make me sick. You and the ho-bag are sorry sacks of sh*t! I hope she gave you something incurable! God only knows how many people she's been with!
2007-09-26 13:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by grace95838 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If up until this point you and your wife have had a good relationship then I would keep it to myself...divulging this info could ruin your marriage...I would just make sure the other woman doesnt go and tell your wife...I truely believe that honesty is not necessarily the best policy.
2007-09-26 11:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by pennylanegal 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow your wife must have been knocked out when she was sleeping! TELL her she has a right to know. She deserves better and you need to be with someone who is not serious and a trick. Goodluck!
2007-09-26 11:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by CORAZON QUE NO SiiENTE 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I kind of doubt it but either or. Obviously you dont respect or love your wife so tell her you dont want to be together anymore and that you cheated on her. Your the reason why women dont trust the couple good guys out there.... **** you.
2007-09-26 12:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lale 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i will ask u, what if your wife at that time shes in the other room, coz shes having sex too with other man?
2007-09-26 11:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by MIla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you whaaaaat? were you drunk cause that took alot of balls, LOL. Seriously I wouldn't say anything & hope like hell her friend dont grow a conscience & tell, if she does tell you'd best lie like hell. Now that you did it once how do you know her friend wont want a repeat performance? next time either leave her friend behind, bring along another guy for her, or get seperate sleeping rooms( without a connecting door!)or tell her no! I'm glad she aint my friend& I'm glad you aint my husband! you tag teamed her in deceit.
2007-09-26 11:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by pennylane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your wife will eventually find out - you are probably going to lose her whether you tell her or not. Shame on you and the "best" (not) friend.
2007-09-26 11:19:49 · answer #11 · answered by NAN G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋