....what should i do?..He said" every Thursday when he is off from work,"and her husband is @ work,working 2 jobs from 6am til 7pm..They live in the same apartment complex,and their apartments are next door....What should I do?,because I also know the Husband and Wife
2007-09-26 05:07:37 · 30 answers · asked by KingHenry ll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok,OK..So it's me...geez
2007-09-26 06:26:16 · update #1
I think it's you. stop knockin on the lady's door every thursday
hahah tryin to find advice on what to do..
think you slick'
2007-09-26 05:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Breaking News 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He obviously doesn't feel bad about it, so there is not going to be any changing his mind.
I would say something. I probably wouldn't say 'hey did you know that your neighbor is screwing your wife', but I would maybe ask if he's noticed anything weird. Like one other person said, telling him he might want to stop by the house that night could be a good idea.
An idea... If you know where they work. You might call them at work and say that they need to hurry home. Don't tell them anything else, just say it is really important that they get home now. Let them see it themselves.
I am amazed at the number of people that would just have you sit by and do nothing. I know for me. That if my husband was cheating and I found out after the fact that someone else knew, but chose not to tell me, I would be totally pissed. I would respect someone more for coming to me and trying to help me in a crappy situation.
2007-09-26 12:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to your friend about it. Tell him how wrong what he is doing is. Remind him that this poor guy is working 11 hrs. a day to provide for his family and meanwhile he is over destroying his neighbors life. It may not be your place to go knock on these people's door and inform the husband about what is going on, but you can let your friend know that you think it's wrong and don't approve. Maybe the guilt will wake him up.
2007-09-26 12:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would approach the neighbors wife's husband if he was hot and help him even the score , but that's just me. Tell your best friend to cut you in on some of the action maybe fulfill some of the neighbor's wife's fantasies.
2007-09-26 12:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay out of it. You will only wind up being in the middle of a big mes when sh..hits the fan. Try to stay away from the wife and husband.
2007-09-26 12:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by didi g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are people's morals anymore? Stay out of it? As a friend of the husband you are OBLIGATED to tell him.
What if he catches something from her?
The sooner he knows the sooner he can file for divorce, gather evidence of the affair etc... so he can be protected when the inevitable happens.
Do the right thing, not the easy way (ignoring it) like everyone suggests.
2007-09-26 12:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Seperated Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, I would just stay out of it...if the husband is a good friend of yours, maybe you could mention (on the quiet) to his wife, that you know what's going on.
Be careful though, she might think she can keep you quiet, by offering up some of that pu$$y, she's giving the other guy.
Just my thoughts on the matter.
2007-09-26 12:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. If it bothers you find new friends. For all you know the Husand and Wife have an open marriage and are cool with getting some on the side. You never know what goes on in people's bedroom.
2007-09-26 12:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gary H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I think is bad enough thinking about your own problems and trying to get an answer to them to get involved in others dirty stuff, I'd stay away and just ignore it. Only if you're not hot for the wifey, also, and a bit jealous... Other than that, if you'd seen them probably somebody else will, too and it will end somehow...
2007-09-26 14:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm not sure its your place BUT even if its not i would want to know.I would tell the guy so he can come home early one day and catch her in the act.This is not right hes working his butt off and shes out getting some from some dude.
2007-09-26 12:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your other friend he may want to stop by his apartment on Thurs. when the other friend is usually there. Don't tell him anything else just tell him you really suggest it. He won't believe you unless he sees for himself, so let him see. Wouldn't you want to know? If you are a true friend, I'd tell him. Also, I would keep that friend away from my woman.
2007-09-26 12:12:28 · answer #11 · answered by Ginger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋