Marriage & Divorce - 19 December 2007

can you give me some advice about dreams and life? i am 29years old

2007-12-19 16:13:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been married for 4 in ahalf years and i have been trying to get my husband to open up and show me more of how he feels... and his thoughts on things but he just wont, why is this? does he possibly think i will think less of him or do men think it'll make them enferior?

2007-12-19 16:09:46 · 27 answers · asked by Sixxie 1

Do you think this woman (the third party) loves you if?

Assumption:
She is a third person.
She decide it is too messy for a love triangle & decide to end the affair (non-sexual) and suggest you not to contact her a what way and ask you to resolve your marriage problem first.
She said she feel my pain but she feel guilty as her existence is hurting my wife.

2007-12-19 16:05:50 · 12 answers · asked by TT 2

I have a 9 year old daugher that I just took her mom to court and got the parenting time guidelines. I visited her at her moms before this court thing untill she was 5 always asking for more. then she came to my house and never got over night. her mom has refused to refer to me as dad and calls her new husband dad and so my kid wont call me dad now either. she seems to be ok here it is hard to get her to come sometimes. there was a time she loved spending time with me then with her mom alienating me she now really dosent want to come. it is hard on me and hard on her. is there a time that it is to damaging for everyone to force the visits. what do I do. be consistant with visits. or leave the door open and try to communicate but let her mom ruin her more. I just am fed up I love my kid but this hurts so bad. is is mentally damaging to her for me to make her come. even though she is usually fine once here. encouragement and advice please

2007-12-19 16:05:01 · 10 answers · asked by Iamdaddy 1

What do men expect from their wifes today?

2007-12-19 15:59:09 · 25 answers · asked by smiles 2

2007-12-19 15:58:49 · 27 answers · asked by me 4

I'm 18, first year of college, still living at home. My parents have a rule that I need to wake up at 10 every morning, which I haven't been doing. They are extremely affected by this, and my dad says I'm putting unnecessary strain on the family, and that it's affecting my parents' marriage.

I know it's their house, their rules, and I should follow them. I'm working on that. But is this "strain in the marriage" really my fault? Lots of my friends' parents are getting divorced, so I'm wondering.

2007-12-19 15:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by avacado pie 4

Ok so I have been together with my boyfriend for 1 year. He has been married before and he got his heart broken so he is a little scared to get married again. Do you think he will ever come around and trust that I wont break his heart?

2007-12-19 15:54:36 · 41 answers · asked by adriannk4 2

2007-12-19 15:54:18 · 21 answers · asked by jessy f 1

So there is this couple that I interact with weekly. At first, I only knew the husband. Later on, the wife started attending the meetings too. I use to always sit next to the husband, but if I come to the meetings late, I usually sit else where. (not on purpose, I just usally sit at the spot that is the closest and the most convenient. Anyhow he has made little snide comments about how I don't sit next to him (which really just annoyed me, and made me really go out of my way to avoid him- who does he think he is talking to me like that?), and now the wife is always giving me the eye or looking me over when I talk to her husband. The whole reason that I stay away from married men in the first place is b/c I don't want drama, or their wives to be jealous. So, what is their deal. I left the guy alone and now he is like acting all childlike, and she is always watching me when I talk to him. did I do anything wrong? Why does he care where I sit anyway?

2007-12-19 15:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by breezy 3

2007-12-19 15:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice and please be gentle because i am really not a bad person.I am 26 yr old mother of 2 a daughter age 6 and a baby son who is just about 6.5 months old.My daughters father and i were college sweethearts.We got married right out of college and had a wonderful life together for almost 5 yrs till he passed away.He was hit by a drunk driver went into a comma and passed 3 months later.Shortly afterward my ex.bf from highschool who had been my first everything contacted me as usual because we had kept in contact once or twice a year as old aquantances over the years(nothing more).He wanted to advertise to me about his new business an auto body shop.I told him what was going on in my life and he really listened to me unlike other family/friends who seemed disintrested.We became friends again remebering the good times all the fun we had and the very bad/sad times dumb fights,when i got pregnant had miscarriage,and we broke up 3 times.He told me his marital problems ..

2007-12-19 15:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is at his bottom but, wants to hold on to some ties that will send him back to a dishonest way of life.I need this Miracle tonight.Pray and I am praying too.His name is Nathan.

2007-12-19 15:19:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

what's the limit for you?

25 years too much?
(Catherine-Zeta Jonas and her husband are 25 years apart in age difference)
Some people think its disgusting....some don't

Is it alright if its TRUE love?

2007-12-19 15:19:42 · 35 answers · asked by Kristina 2

have your husband told you that you needed to lose some extra weight? like more than 10 pounds? what do you think of a husband that does this? want your honest opinion, men and women. thanks.

2007-12-19 15:08:46 · 42 answers · asked by k.c. 3

I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and am very happy although still want to wait a bit before we get married. I want to share my life with my family but they would basically condemn me to hell. How can I approach them with this? Does any one else have family like this???

2007-12-19 15:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 2

Hi. One of my group's longtime friends got married last month. His new wife was someone from outside our group. They were together for about 1 year before marriage and she never hung out with us, nor wanted him too. We have invited her to join our gatherings, but she generally keeps to herself and keeps him at home too. Is there any hope for the both of them coming around to his old buddies? We're not a raucus crowd, just a couple of adults who've known eachother for many years (mostly men, some women) through high school and college, etc. Is this just a part of growing up? Have we lost him for good? Any advice on getting them both to come out and see us again?

2007-12-19 15:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by GSConsulting 2

Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have one friend and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. My whipped friend recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. But my other friend just said it aint his problem and pretty much told my whipped friend to f**** off.

2007-12-19 15:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by One Day 1

my bf broken up with his ex and his brother didnt know that so his brother bought aticket for that ex to come to spend this xmas with my bf's family. my bf showed me her meassage begging him to let her come for the last time and the fact that she is already here with his family. his parents like that girl better than me. my bf asked me if i could be patient for the last time because she is already here and he doesnt want to break the harmony in his family during this xmas. he told me that everything will be the end after these two weeks.he loves his parents and dont want to make them sadduring this holiday. should i give him another try? should i wait for him 2 weeks and see what happens next? should i be patient for the last time? please help me, i am very confused and have no idea what i should do. half of me tells me that i should give him 2 weeks but the other half cant put up with the idea that his soon-to-be ex is spending time with him and his family.

2007-12-19 14:56:13 · 4 answers · asked by hong h 2

my parents have been divorced for about 15 years and it has not affected me until now, i lived with my mom until i was about 15 and she kicked me out. i have not spoken to her since, i am not 17 and realize how much i need and miss her. My Dad does what he can to help me but there is only so much he can do and he cannot fill the void of a mother. i just really need my mom and miss her so much, have any advice?

2007-12-19 14:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Issy 2

My husband and i aren't getting along at all and he is now living with his mother we have many problems. My mother in law is having her traditional christmas gathering this year and im thinking of not going this year because he will be their and im very unhappy with the things he has been doing to me (nothing physical) should i not go so i can make a point that im very unhappy or should i go and endure the gathering although inside im dying because of his ways. we do have children together also.

2007-12-19 14:48:13 · 14 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3

I have been talking to lots of women here. Happily married, Unhappily married, separated, divorced, widowed, single moms, independents women, single women and new weds. I personaly think that it is greener on the other side for some lucky people out there. The greener on the other side does not apply to everyone-everybody only certain people out there. I guess, its just the pure luck for some people. Some people have all the luck in the world and some don't have any luck at all in the marriage department. I guess this is just the way life is for certain people. So my question is "Is it greener for some people only!" -(Not eveyone!) Thanks guys.

2007-12-19 14:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

2007-12-19 14:31:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with my partner for nearly five years. he previously worked nights while i worked days so we didn't get to spend a whole lot of time together. he has never had a solid job and he is now struggling to get enough work, but he dosn't go out looking for it either. i think i got really used to having a lot more time to myself and now he's home all the time it's driving me mad. i've been thinking about ending our relationship, but i really dont want to hurt him and i am scared that i would be making a mistake. i know he loves me and i do care for him deeply - but the spark is gone. any advise would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-19 14:28:34 · 6 answers · asked by ktren 2

he starts a new relationship? I'm divorced and single started seeing my best friend. He had been living apart from his wife for seven months because of their problems. He told me that they were getting divorced he has his own place and they took eachother off the joint bank account. I went into the relationship with the understanding they were done and he says he loves us both and doesn't know what to do. He lead me to believe that he already had the "Divorce Talk" now the people that know us and that we were a couple are calling me a homewrecker. They have no kids together and now I'm left hurt and confused. I do believe he loves us both. His wife is 15 yrs older than him, and his mother was murdered when he was 17. They do not have any kids or sexual relationship at all, but he recognizes the part that is hard to divorce is that it is like loosing a mom again. We are the same age and I have two sons that adore him and he wants a family of his own now. Something she does not want.

2007-12-19 14:12:37 · 23 answers · asked by Destiny 5

Its important i find a answer

2007-12-19 14:08:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK.. so in Australia we have a welfare system.. where abandoned muthas and their children get cash from the gov't for rent assistance and ~ abandoned muttha's pensions and stuff.. and low life scum bag husbands dissapear without a trace, changing their names and holding unlisted phone numbers to avoid child support payments.

Anyway.. it's my wedding anniversary today... 21 years I am reminded.... and Donna's friend Collette is here and she tells me it is some kind of record because if I move into the spare bedroom and if Donna advises the Govt that we have separated (even disclosing that I still reside with her) her she will get some cash for that.

What do you think about that system?

2007-12-19 13:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by Icy Gazpacho 6

Have you ever felt something for a coworker? Something that fasinates you...but you don't want to mess up any friendship? I feel traped. My mind is telling me go..but im married! When we drink i try to get close...but I also look at my ring..and back off?? what to do?? please help.

2007-12-19 13:43:46 · 6 answers · asked by biglilone 2

want to try mixing wines and I need the names of some good cheap wines. any drinkers out there?????

2007-12-19 13:38:23 · 23 answers · asked by riggie 3

My stepfather is abusive to my mother. Recently he threatened to kill my mother and even put a loaded shotgun to her head. In all the years that they have been together (23 years) he has been threatening to kill her over the past two.
I've tried everything in my power to help my mom, I've offered to have her stay with me, I've called the police, and I've paid for her to go to counseling, to no avail. I seriously don't know what I can possibly do to help her. I'm so afraid that my stepfather will kill her, but I'm afraid of calling the police on him again because he's extremely manipulative and will convince the police that there's no problem (he's done this in the past and they live in a small town where everyone knows everyone) and I'm afraid he'll beat my mother even worse for telling me about the abuse and "causing trouble." Or he may even come after me and my husband.
I'm at my wits end and don't think that there is anything I can do to help her...any advice would be welcomed.

2007-12-19 13:38:17 · 14 answers · asked by JenJen 6