Marriage & Divorce - 19 December 2007

2007-12-19 04:12:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is not his, he ver addopted her, she has my last name and always has, he has raised her since she was born, she is now two, but we got divorced, and he has no stable place to live, he is crazy and he is daiting a 18 year old plus her friend at the same time together. I fear for her life.

2007-12-19 04:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there anything i can do leagally? i ask my lawyer he said there is not much i can do but i find it hard to belive

2007-12-19 04:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by Robert S 1

Omg. I cleaned out my now-husband's storage to make room for soem of my belongings. He did warn me that there is some old things in there he hasn't bothered to clean-out since his divorce. Well I didn't expect me to find a sex tape of him and his ex. I didn't mind seeing their old check books, or even pictures (nothing naughty), or even some of her things. It bothered me so much because on the tape it said his & her name "Making Love". The fact that I had seen my husband's naked body with another naked body badly disturbed me, I have disgusting flashbacks. I think that tape is ruining our relationship! I am jealous because we've been together for 3 years and he hasn't tried to maneuver those things to me. It's been killing me. I did confront him but he just doesn't care. I'm old-fashioned and I can't accept the fact that I seen his body with another and I want to just leave him now. I understand that it's in the past but what I seen is now and EEW! I'm actually starting to hate him.

2007-12-19 04:07:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like seeing them get roped into being a replacement dad and supporting them?

2007-12-19 04:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband plays in this indoor soccer league, and sometimes he doesn't shower so he likes to sleep on the coach..
I do not like it when he does this..at all.

I know that once in awhile it is fine, but what do you think?

2007-12-19 04:03:50 · 8 answers · asked by Becca 2

2007-12-19 04:00:37 · 26 answers · asked by Grandma 1

2007-12-19 03:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by Serena A 1

Although I am uncomfortable to admit this but... ever since I met my husband, I have never been able to "go off" or "orgasm". I'm getting to that point where I feel like us making love is pointless because I don't get an enjoyment out of it. I think we went 2 weeks without having sex and my husband would try to influence me but before I could, I think of what will happen once we're done > nothing. During that time he brought up the idea of cheating, due to my lack of wanting some. He enjoys himself and I can't. Do I think too much or am I just plain out weird? With my ex, I used to enjoy myself. I've only had 2 men in my life, my ex and my husband. I ask because last week, for the 1st time I went off and I thought that feeling would continue so when we did it again, nothing. Is he not touching the right spots or is it my fault?

2007-12-19 03:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

In January my husband and I decided that after being pushed and pushed we would agree to buying a house with his mother. She had always been super sweet and all my hubby said when he was young they didn't get along but he thought it could of just been his immaturity, he hadn't lived with her since he was 13 and went to live with his dad. Anyway to make a long story short she has transformed into a complete witch! Always nagging and complaining about everything I mean everything! Like she'll come downstairs at 9:00 pm & demand all lights and TV off. She is a total control freak and is rude and is 98% of the time in a bad horrible mood. It has came to a point that as soon as I hear her coming i will lock myself in my room i avoid seeing her or crossing her way as much as possible to avoid any comfrontations, she is impossible to live with and I want to move, my husband says let's do it, but I know she can't afford the place by herself, should we move anyway?

2007-12-19 03:47:06 · 19 answers · asked by Curious One 2

best friend who recently got engaged to my best friend.Before he got engaged i used to send him txt messages only a couple,he did not knw it was me, i did this bcoz it was hard to cope with i needed to let someone know and i thought if i txt him maybe i'll feel better.my husband is a great guy he treats me good and he does everything for me but i feel no passion for him.
A month ago me and him got chatting on facebook and then on msn, it felt so good to talk to him without my husband or my best friend, he confessed that he had feeling's for me and that he wishes that he was married to me etc. my husband went away for haj over 2 weeks ago and me and him have met up 3 times since and we've had sex and it was great i haven't felt this happy for a long time,he tell's me that he love's me and he wishes he could spend his life with me but me and him know that it will never happen because we don't want to hurt the people close 2 us, how can i foget him and make things right with my husband

2007-12-19 03:45:09 · 24 answers · asked by secret83dec 2

I told my husband of my future plans to move another city which is 2 hours from where we live. I'm going there to attend the university. He doesn't agree and he says it wouldn't be good for his boys and our daughter. Our daughter is only 1 and she wouldn't know the difference, his sons are 8 and 13. He can take his sons with me whether they like it or not. I'm trying to make myself clear to him that an education is something that will benefit us greatly and it is our security. I want him to go to school with me, just part time at least because he says IF he does go he will need a job. Where we live, all the jobs are taken and it's not where I want to spend the rest of my life. A small, one-WalMart town. Last night I was filling out my forms for school and my husband was so upset that he wouldn't talk to me or even sleep with me on our bed. I think he needs to realize that I'm doing this for us-family, and that this will be all worth it in the long run. Any suggestions?

2007-12-19 03:43:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-19 03:36:03 · 5 answers · asked by Whisperer 2

well we been linked togather for about 9yrs and he seem to think that i'm having an affair but I work full time,go to school full time in the evenings and to top it all off I am a full time mother of 10 yes I did say 10 any ideas anyone

2007-12-19 03:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by Gods Child 1

2007-12-19 03:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by sam sutton 2

Yeah, I can't get over it. The other night he told me he appreciated the straight answer for why I was mad the other day. I still wanted to ask him why I have no straight answers about why he led me to believe he time with the guys, "guy time" when there were his buddies girlfriends and their friends there. He'd get drunk there everytime. He had let it slip one day that his buddy was living with a girl, (she manages the bar at a resturant). Then said "maybe" she lived there a year. Still no straight answers as to how long she'd lived there, how often she had her friends over. He told me she wasn't the first girlfriend to live there after his bud's divorce. I used to think we had something special. I used to think he was honest and trustworthy. He blah blah about geeky weather, and comic stuff and I find out when is having "man time" away from wife and child, he was getting drunk with single women?? And didn't bother to mention it. Do I demand a straight answer for Christmas?

2007-12-19 03:29:53 · 25 answers · asked by so tired 2

hi
if you married how many do you do sex in the weak

2007-12-19 03:28:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been a year and a half since my now ex cheated, left and we divorced. Our families were very close. I have just found out that my ex's parents have arrived for Xmas and tonight is our son's Xmas concert. I have not spoken to my ex about the concert so I do not even know if he is going. My fear is that he will go and bring his parents and his girlfriend along. I do not know how I will handle that if he does. We usually attend these events by ourselves and sit together so that our son will see that we do get along. What do I do? Do I save him a seat? Do I try and sit somewhere alone? I am hoping he will have the decency to warn me if he plans to bring his parents and/or the girlfriend alond. I would if the situation was reversed. Seeing them all together will hurt even though we are divorced. What do I do?

2007-12-19 03:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

been caught having s e x? by your parents, kids, friends, strangers?

2007-12-19 03:13:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and lived together for the last 1.5 years (we bought a house). We also have 3 dogs that we think of as our babies...lol.. We've survived hard times and have become closer from them, but we have never broken up and rarely do we fight. We are a very open couple. We talk about marriage very often, including the type of ring that I want. I told him that I want a CZ ring, but he would like to get me diamonds. He has been picking up many extra shifts lately, but I'm trying not to be presumptious. (he also has a lot of college loans that he wants to pay off) We just had our 1st vacation, 3 yr anniversary, and now xmas is coming up. He told me on our 3 year anniversaty that he won't propose on an obvious day because it wouldn't be a suprise....but do you think it will happen soon? NOTE - we have talked and I told him that if he doesn't propose by 4 years that I'm gone (not in a nasty way, but I wanted him to know what I was thinking)

2007-12-19 03:08:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-19 03:08:30 · 16 answers · asked by Glen 2

my husband of almost 3 years told me that he feels he married too young and didnt' get to discover life on his own. he had always gone from relationship to relationship, and although we have a great relationship, his feelings for me aren't what they should be, and he wants to end things before we have kids and to be on his own. As much as this hurts me, we are best friends and will stay in each other's lives, and i believe that he needs this time to grow and find out what he needs in his life. I am hoping that as we both grow and he realizes what our relationship really was, that he will reconsider.
There is no other woman, he is very very very focused on his career and being financially successful, and that is what he wants to concentrate on. Does anyone have experience with this? do you think it's possible for us to reunite once we've both grown? No negativity or hurtful answers please...

2007-12-19 03:04:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you cheated on your spouse? Would you cheat on your spouse?

2007-12-19 02:56:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls with small breast and thinbody have large sex drive or with big breast like 36 34 36 have good sex

2007-12-19 02:51:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 3 years since we separated and he isn't in a hurry for the divorce. Legally then is it entirely my responsible financially since I'm the one that wants to get it over and done with. Property isn't an issue, he can have it all. I just want legally divorced.

2007-12-19 02:49:49 · 7 answers · asked by jtaylor1993 5

Do you think the sex was better before you got married or after?

2007-12-19 02:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a situation where a friend caught her husband cheating with a girl from his work. When he got caught he decided that he wanted a divorce. They have been married for 17 years with 3 kids, 2 grown up. The woman believes that god will bring them back together, but he has made it clear that it is over and he continue to talks to this girl from work, who is now pregnant with twins and not by him. She lives with her boyfriend and has a 1 year old already. It has been months and they are still not even at a friend level for the sake of the kids. He has not filed for the divorce although he wants one and she will not file for divorce. I tell her to file for the divorce but she thinks that god will bring them back together? What do you think about that? How should I give her anymore advise when she calls asking for it?

2007-12-19 02:26:33 · 59 answers · asked by jenny c 3

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT I HATE MY IN LAWS THEY HAVE DONE EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO MAKE TROUBLE FOR US BUT I FEEL BAD THAT IF HE TALKS TO ME ABOUT ONE OF THEM I JUST GO NUMB I DO DEAL WITH HIS MOM AND DAD BUT THAT IS AS FAR AS IT GOES I HAVE A VERY BIG PROBLEM FORGIVING WELL SHOULD I SAY FORGETTING WHAT THESE PEOPLE HAVE PUT US THROUGHT EVEN OUR CHILD

2007-12-19 02:25:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby and I just did. It was my hope this was something we could do together, but he'll most likely be going at different hours. I'm not the most outgoing person, and I know if I don't have someone to go with I'll lose interest. From what I've seen of fitness centers over the years, many people just stick to themselves. How would you go about making new friends if you're pretty much a shy person until people get to know you?

2007-12-19 02:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by Lady G 6

2007-12-19 02:11:13 · 29 answers · asked by ADITIMES T 1