Marriage & Divorce - 19 December 2007

2007-12-19 02:04:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a spouse is on marijuana, and the other spouse does not feel comfortable with that, should they divorce? He promised her he would stop, but went back to it years later. She is concerned that it is ruining his health and he's becoming psychologically depend on the substance. She's also concerned that one day the cops may surprise him and bust him at the house. If it was legalized she wouldn't feel so much anxiety about the whole thing. what's your thoughts?

2007-12-19 01:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by PJ 2

Some women say the library usually gets you a good husband and the husband is a better choice than a live in boyfriend because marriage means he the woman enough to commit to her for a lifetime.

2007-12-19 01:47:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-19 01:44:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

v got married before a year.n i don know what i can gift to my husband on his bday.plz help.his age is 27 year old.

2007-12-19 01:42:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found the love of my life..the most caring and all around most wonderful person i have ever met..I just want to know if you have found that special person and how does it make you feel. Thanks for taking the time to answer:)

2007-12-19 01:37:34 · 12 answers · asked by quality 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. We have a daughter together. But within the last few months, I have felt myself growing further and further away from him.
At this point, I could care less if we stayed together or not, and I'm not sure why exactly I feel this way. He does things to get on my nerves (still sucks his thumb-and he's almost 23) he is harder on my son, then our daughter (but he is older-3 and she is 1) He doesnt work, but he does stay at home with the kids, so we dont have to pay for childcare. Among other things.

I just dont feel that electrifying attraction to him that I once did, and I dont know what to do. If he leaves, the kids will be put in daycare, and he will have no place to live. Part of me feels like I keep him around for the convenience. But I also feel sorry for him, because I know that he wouldnt have a place to go, a car to get him there, and a possibility of no child support.

2007-12-19 01:35:20 · 16 answers · asked by MayMay 4

if you love your wife but after you two married she said she doesnt to have sex, she isn't a virgin but you are and you are ok with it for some time, but after a while you can help those urges and she doesnt want you to masterbate or look at porn but you love your wife very much and she wont go to therapy or marriage counseling is there a way to kill those desires (no not cutting the penis off) but like pills?

2007-12-19 01:31:15 · 18 answers · asked by Peter P 1

I kick out my cheating boyfriend in August. Now I found out that he got that 19 year old preagnant in August. This was not the first time that he had done that. We were together since we where 18 and now I'm 28. When I was 24 he had another girl preagnant too which that baby past away when he was 4months old.

I just got a lawyer to speed up my childsupport this month too.

My problem is that my friend is mad at me since he's family had invited me and our kids for X-mas and told him that he's 19 year old girlfriend can go with her family. My friend said that I'm inconsiderate on he's new girlfriends feelings, but to tell you the truth I don't care. I don't care of him, her or their baby. Since we broke up he has not being there for our children who are 6 and 7. Why should I feel anything for them? Why?

2007-12-19 01:30:40 · 10 answers · asked by mextizo22 1

2007-12-19 01:28:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hubby, has ex wife of 16 years. Hubby has current wife for 10 years. Hubby has family who only wants to be around ex wife. Hubby and ex have one child who is 20 years old. Ok, Hubby and family want ex wife to come stay with his sister for a week for christmas. (ex lives 7 hours away). Hubby's family, also wants ex wife there and for wife to stay home. (this is how they have done it on more then one occassion). They claim it is for the 20 year old child. Ex-wife IS coming, feels like she belongs with ex family in law more then wife does. Wife is having a fit over this and is telling hubby that if he goes over to his sister's with his ex wife being there, that he may as well not bother coming home. So who is in the wrong? Hubby or Wife?

2007-12-19 01:24:57 · 20 answers · asked by carmeliasue 6

2007-12-19 01:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Unique 3000 1

I try everything to boost her sex drive up. I feel that I'm the problem. I only try about 1 time a month now, I still get turn down. I"m asking for to much? Dont get me wrong I don't force myself on her. I give her respect. Been married for 18 years now. Any help

2007-12-19 01:21:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an accountant. I've been married for 4 years to a wonderful man whom I love and would hate to hurt, but I've had this client for about 3 years, he is gorgeous, elegant, smart, well spoken, single, I mean it's like he has no flaws. Every time he comes to my office I melt, I mean I keep it together so he doesn't notice but this man drives me crazy. He has always been a gentleman to me very professional but for the past year I have noticed that he has shown interest in me. He has sent me numerous gifts, which I didn't think much of at first cause I do get many gifts from many clients, he has sent me lunch or dinner to my office (he owns a few restaurants ) anyhow this morning he came to my office and when I extended my arm to shake his hand, he pulled me toward him and gave me a kiss, a very soft and short yet passionate kiss. It was so unexpected that for the first 3 seconds I gave in but than freaked out and pulled back and asked him to leave. I don't know what to do . . . .

2007-12-19 01:08:25 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says he loves me but nothing will ever happen between us because he loves his kids.

i feel low i love him so much what can i do?

2007-12-19 00:48:16 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

..that insists that you go on [Xmas] vacation (to his parents house), when he went on one [to parents] in summer. When wife said she didn't want to go but not stopping him from going, is 10k in debt, so asks parents for gas money to go (PA to FL) And asks sick (bad cold) wife to wrap presents, and still go. Along with 3 teens, all 3 pets that she was/is willing to stay home with. I'm trying to say this unbiasedly so I won't say more unlessed asked.

2007-12-19 00:46:08 · 8 answers · asked by Valeria 4

Suggestions on how to make a breakup a little less painful? I love the person I'm breaking up with very much but things just are not working. They had moved about five hours away from thier home to move in with me and have started grad school. So when I break up with them things could potentially be very messy (since they are going to have to move out but can't go bakc to thier home becuase of school, etc.) I would love some suggestions on how to ease the pain a bit. Thanks.

2007-12-19 00:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by tana 1

2007-12-19 00:41:49 · 34 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4

2007-12-19 00:40:56 · 12 answers · asked by candie 4

and what if the age difference is 13 years.... n he is her student in college

2007-12-19 00:25:45 · 25 answers · asked by Smart G 1

My wife and I have been separated for 3 months and about a couple of weeks ago we started going to marriage counseling. So far the counseling has been useful, but how much longer should we go until we decide to work things with our marriage or to go on with the divorce. We have been together for 8yrs and married for 1 year. No infidelity ,physical abuse, or drug use. Just BAD communication between us.

My wife was the one that wants the divorce because she was "fed up". Even though she thinks that divorce is the best out, she starting to see that going to MC might not be too bad. Again nothing is guaranteed, it seems like she is giving a shot to work on our marriage.

I dont want us to go to counseling for the next 3 -6 months and at the end, we still going to divorce.

2007-12-19 00:19:01 · 19 answers · asked by DMa 1