Is it good to just walk away when you're angry? or confront it.?

Answer 1

The key is not to get angry in the first place.

I have learned how to not get angry is several ways. The first is I judge on intentions rather than actions or words. With practice you too can learn that most of what makes you angry is all in your head, thus you are the one with the problem.

The next thing to realize is much of anger stems from fears. Conquer your fears and you will no longer be a slave to them.

Then it is all about maturity. A mature, emotionally and spiritually healthy soul has no room for anger.

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Answer 2

I would say just walk away, but having said that I believe you should confront it later when your not angry, because when your angry you are not thinking and out of anger you may say or do something that makes the situation even worse you may even stray off the whole idea of why and what you were angry about in the first place. so I would walk away but come back later and talk about it.

Answer 3

It is best to walk away until things cool off a bit. There is plenty of time to confront it later. Sometimes you will even find that the opinion you had when you were mad is much different when you cool off a little. Taking some time often finds a new prospective for you to confront the issues with.

Answer 4

Unless one is extraordinarily self aware during times of huge anger.. nothing good can be said during anger and often what is said cannot be undone.

Best to wait until one can very calmly examine together with the other person the reason for the anger as though it is a bug pinned to the table to be studied. Such a conversation then needs to be ended with a good decision and perhaps hugging and maybe other "stuff" and then with laughter.

And this needs to be done before the sun goes down that day.

Answer 5

Confront it. NOTHING makes me more angry than when the other person in the disagreement just walks away. It is as if they don't care enough to see it through.

Answer 6

If it prevents you from spewing bile - yes walk away. Not FAR away - just walk around.

My personal favorite: when my hubby is real mad at me or I'm mad, or he's mad at the kids - he HUGS them and doesn't talk or listen to what they are saying. He hugs and doesn't let go until everyone calms down. It really works. Keeps people from saying awful things. He actually used it as a coping mechanism originally when the kids were little and he would get mad and want to clobber them - kept his arms busy and nobody ever hit anyone.

My hubby and I have an understanding that if we are in a fight and one of us just steams away - let them go - but nobody leaves the house.

Answer 7

It depends on why you are angry and how you argue. If either of you is prone to name calling or spouting off things you really don't mean, then it is wise to shut up and walk away, then talk about it later when you can be calm. If you can be angry, but still listen and talk rationally, then stay until it is resolved.

Answer 8

Walk away, absolutely. NOTHING is ever solved when you are angry. Walk away, do something else, get your thoughts together and when you are ready, ask the other person if they are ready to talk.

Answer 9

always walk away, cool down, count to hundred if you have too, and after you have cooled down then go back and sit down with the person you got hot with and talk with them.
never talk to someone when your mad you and them will say things that will make matters worst and you may say something that will tear their heart out or yours. so walk away, col off then come back later even if its the next day and talk like human beings to each other.

Answer 10

i walk away, calm down, and then talk about it with the person because nothing gets solved with yelling. my hubby and i dont listen when the other is yelling, but if we calm down and talk about things its okay, and we work it out