does anyone have complete trust in their spouse/?

Question

i so why do you feel that way? if not why do you feel that way?

Answer 1

Yes. I trust my husband 100%. He has never given me any reason not to trust him.

Answer 2

Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm not sure I completely trust very many people. And I've been married over 30 years. I'm not jealous of my spouse and don't try to monitor his every move. It's not like that.

However, the term "complete trust" struck a cord in my thinking. As a child I completely trusted my parents and they never broke that trust. I realize now how blessed I was to have parents like that. But "completely trust" my spouse? In the big things I do. It probably sounds dumb, but you've given me something to consider. When it comes to little things I am now wondering. And it's hard to explain what I'm talking about.

Maybe I could put it like this. Do I trust him to always make the best decision? No! Not because he would purposely make a poor decision, but because he might not realize all of the facts that would make for a better decision. Do I trust him to take the "high road" all the time. Uh? Probably "most" of the time. But if he's tired and someone gets on his nerves, he's human and might snap at them.

But maybe that's not an issue of trust. Maybe that's realizing that my spouse is as human as I am and is subject to mistakes, misjudgements, and making stupid decisions -- just like I am. Guess he's pretty awesome after all, huh?

(I didn't help you one bit, did I?)

Answer 3

I was married for 25 years.I trusted him completely.He NEVER gave me any reason to question anything he said or did. One day out of the blue he left for another woman. Everyone says there are signs but I never saw it coming.I am not blind,I just had complete trust in him.Jump ahead a few years later,I have remarried.I trust my husband 99% of the time.I will never be so foolish it trust ANYONE 100% of the time. I am not just talking about a spouse, I don't think you should trust anyone 100%.My husband has never given me any reason not to trust him but like Mo said earlier"once bitten,twice shy".

Answer 4

I would say that I have complete trust in my partner. I trust him as a person to hold my heart high and above the rest with the greatest of care. I believe that if you truly love someone and trust them, you most definately wouldn't want to hurt them.

When you are invovled in a relationship, trust is something that needs to be established early on. Sometimes doubt might take over, or problems might arise but it's how you get over it together to earn each others trust & love.

Trust is earned and needs to be respected.

Answer 5

If you want someone you have complete trust in GET A DOG. Check all his cell phone records including the work phone, check his email addresses, all of them including work unless of course you want to keep lying to yourself. The reason you still trust him is because you haven't learned the facts of life yet but you will, either now or the hard way:

1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair

Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. I don't lie.

Answer 6

Only the one who trusts him/her self can trust any one be it a spouse or any one. Trust is never complete or in complete. It is there or not there.

Answer 7

Used to have 100% trust; now it is more like 99.5%. I doubt I will ever trust him 100% again as he had an affair. the 99.5% is fine with me as my eyes are 'wide open' now and I'm not the naive person I once was. Anyway, if he would ever cheat again, I'd be gone in a split second, so don't really worry about the .5% mistrust.

Answer 8

I trust my husband totally and completely. in everything. And he trusts me as well. it has helped when he was military, because i could go out with the girls, and he could go with the guys, because he worked so much. And besides, he has never given me a reason not to trust him. though i did give him reason not to trust me, i earned his trust back. (i once got really really drunk and kissed his best friend) but because that was all that happened, we worked through it and he trusts me, but it took him a while, and he did say if i had done more he prob wouldn't trust me anymore.

Answer 9

Complete trust? No I don't. I trust him to a point, and it's not an issue, but I also know he is not infallible, and may someday give in to temptation. Do I worry about it? No. What matters to me is the here and now. If he is ever unfaithful, I will deal with it then. I'm hopeful that he never will, but I know there are no guarantees. For either of us.

Answer 10

YES,I trust in my spouse completely.