Marriage & Divorce - 19 December 2007

i met this guy about 2 months ago we only hang out on weekends but talk on the phone often he is 22 and im 26 , he also he has a 2 year old son from a previous realtionship i didnt want to caatch feeling but i did, the problem is wen i tell him i wanna be wit him he ignores me and back off tellin me he wants to take things slow, when i show i dont care he calls and text more im lookin for a serious realtionship i dont know know wat to do coz i have feelings for him ..last sat was the first time we had sex and i asked him wat he want from me, his response was ' i have potential to be wit him in the future but he wants to take things slow' wat shoud i do?? im sure he's gonna wanna see me this wekend..

2007-12-19 07:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

2007-12-19 07:43:58 · 24 answers · asked by mryungbp 1

Men do you secretly loose respect for your wife when she participates in sexual acts?

2007-12-19 07:41:25 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, please explain and/or provide examples of couples that successfully worked through their problems

2007-12-19 07:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by kidfree 4

Okay, my husband came home very angry last night b/c of things at work and when I asked him what was wrong he hit me, but when I started to cry he apologized and held me and said he would make it up to me by taking me anywhere I wanted to go. He said we could go out to eat or he could take me to a store and buy me something. I'm so excited b/c I usually don't have this kind of oppurtunity!! I don't know want to ask for too much or else he might not offer this again, you know? But I do want to do something fun or get something nice!!! What should I choose?

P.S.- My husband wasn't really at fault b/c he is taking these drugs right now that I think make him more aggressive.

2007-12-19 07:22:00 · 53 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

The following item was in a global round-up of silly things that have happened worldwide, in 2007!

A US man who ordered flowers for his mistress sued the florists after they sent a note to his home thanking him for his order -- thereby informing his wife of his infidelity.

2007-12-19 07:15:11 · 22 answers · asked by jet-set 7

2007-12-19 07:07:01 · 25 answers · asked by gapeach 1

2007-12-19 07:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this man since we were kids crushing on one another. We lost contact over the years and both married and had children. He got a hold of me about 11 months ago and things got crazy. I'm not even sure how it got to the point that it is now but here it is: We are having a full blown affair. Both of us have tried to end it but we get pulled right back in. I am leaving my husband very soon and my husband knows this. The affair guy says he wants to leave his wife but hasn't taken any steps out of fear. I want out of my marraige reagradless of what this other man does but I can't be the women on side forever. Every time I tell him this and tell him to leave me alone until he figuers out what he wants to do he calls me a day or two later crying and confessing his undying love, saying he can't live without me. And I get sucked right back in. I want to hear from men who have been this guy. Tell me what you think.

2007-12-19 07:04:56 · 37 answers · asked by I know EVERYTHING! 4

My sister has a problem with her ex hsuband stalking her and have already vandalized her car. Sometimes she can call me on her cell phone and then he would call and ask me questions like he heard our whole conversation. Is that possible, please let me know? The things that we discuss are secretive and he basicaaly was upset and repeated the whole conversation. If this is possible, what can be done about the situation. I am really afraid for her life and we do not talk anymore on the phone.

2007-12-19 07:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by Single123 3

We have been together for 6 years and been married 2. When I married him I didn't know about this. Then I slowly started finding out bits and pieces. He has a huge porn addiction. To the point that I will be in the other rrom waiting for him to come to bed and hes to busy doing other things. Other times he will wake up early to get him self off.... And he knows how much it hurts me. But he still does it all the time. He told me he would stop and promised me that he deleted all of it.... a month later there it was again. Needless to say this is the 7 or 8th time I have found him going at it. And then he will lie about it right to my face. I no longer trust him, I don't look at him in the same way and honestly I don't know why Im still in this marriage. How can I trust that tings will change. He chooses the computer over me just about everyday.

Honestly I don't want a divorce. I married him saying for better or worse, so what would you do if you were me?

2007-12-19 06:59:24 · 35 answers · asked by crazy_cat_lady 4

2007-12-19 06:56:37 · 31 answers · asked by nvsweets2006 1

I get in divorce i just want to know if i can keep my ex husband last name, because all of my documets have his last name

2007-12-19 06:53:58 · 32 answers · asked by gilda y 1

3 weeks after knowing eachother, this girl and I became boyfriend and girlfriend, she wanted to have sex already but I refused to so I won't expose myself to STDs, I wanted to do a check before anything. Now on the 5th week we're not together anymore....I haven't had sex in 4 years and I'm 20 years old, should I had done it with her? I was trying to take it slow.

2007-12-19 06:53:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have friends' parents who have been married for over 30 years. Some of them now sleep in separate bedrooms. Some of them still sleep in the same bedroom, but go to sleep at different hours. Are those things normal, or are they signs that there is no more love in the marriage?

2007-12-19 06:52:46 · 18 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3

2007-12-19 06:51:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 22 years old and im haveng my first baby i been with my wife for about 3 years . heres the thing im scard i m happy that im going to be a dad but i have no money not enouf to suport a baby . and my wife isnt working .she is goin to school for phleobotamy . and wont be done till after the baby comes. im not sure wat to do . i am glad that ill be a dad . and i love my wife but we are having some problems (on the past OUR past) so that is making me even more worried . it seems like me and her will be ok as long as we let the past go. but im just very nerves right now . . so i know i realy didnt ask a Q but does any body have any advise for me . kid and relationship wise . especialy money wise

2007-12-19 06:49:36 · 19 answers · asked by Scott R 2

Im 22 and she 23, for the last 3 days my wife has cut off complete contact from me. She has not let me see my child or even said that she is ok since Monday. She has not returned any phone calls, any text, and when i come to her house nobody answers the door. The last time i went i heard my daughter playing with toys but nobody answered. Even the local police came because somebofy reported that i might be breaking into the house.This all stem from a disagreement we had because i didnt want to pay extra child support for daycare because she lost her job and couldnt make the half payments so she wanted me to pay the whole bill and i couldnt do it. So instead i offered to watch my daughter for the days that i needed to pay extra. She refuses saying that my daughter couldnt spend the night. My daughter is18monthsand is happy to see me. that it wou But her mother says im suspicious like I abused my kid or will abduct her when i have done neithe

2007-12-19 06:47:04 · 24 answers · asked by ace82 3

Please pray that my marriage will survive the hardships we have endured... no cheating, abuse, etc... just have grown apart and things have changed between us. he wants a divorce, I would do anything to heal our marriage. Please pray for us.

2007-12-19 06:42:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband & I recently married after 1.5 yr dating & 1.5 yr living together. He's divorced but have a 4 yr old son w/ his ex-wife. His ex-wife is being vindictive, using her son to cause trouble because:
+ she's blaming me for not being able to reconciliate w/ her husband after they were separated. They were separated & he date other women before I entered the picture, but since he was dating me when she filed the divorce - I'm to blame :)
+ for taking her place
+ for being nice to her kid, whom is now my stepson too.
+ encourage my husband to be more involve in his kid's life, and make sure he knows his rights - husband can't read English well so he's intimidated by the law + court stuffs.
+ get along with his parents, etc ...

I read numerous Q&A on ex-wife issues & do understand that it's a normal psychologically for her to be jeolous, mean, ... When I was the gf, I just ignore her and let my bf deal with it but now that we're married, what should I do?

2007-12-19 06:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by kwyenie 3

My husband and I have been back together since August, we split for 2 months after he confessed to having an affair with a work collegue. He moved in briefly with her for this short time but realised his mistake and asked to come back. After some discussion i agreed. At first i was ok dealing with it but now i just can't seem to forget the hurt and anger i feel. We have since he came home discussed his affair in depths and tried to figure out what went wrong and to be honest there was nothing. He thinks that it was purely to see if he could still attract the opposite sex and that he went through some mid life crisis. He has openly and honestly answered my questions i ask and i think maybe this has an effect on how i'm feeling maybe its to much info. He admits he has done wrong and asks nearly everyday for my forgiveness which i feel in time i can give him but right i'm so confused. We have been married for 10 years with 2 children.

2007-12-19 06:32:14 · 50 answers · asked by winner2007 2

This is a question for both sexes. Ladies, did you became less horny after having kids (also, list how many) and gentlemen, did yours do the same and if so, list the reason exact why.

2007-12-19 06:21:21 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1

I got married 6 months ago in greece, but we have a greek certificate and now we dont know what to do with it! me and my husband were also thinking about getting a divorce :c( but we dont know how to go about it, scince we dont even know if we are classed as married here! help! can we just leave it and pretend it didnt happen?

2007-12-19 06:20:44 · 18 answers · asked by Gizmo 2

Have you ever noticed that the older you get, the harder it is to just be happy for no reason at all, but just happy with everything. From what I have noticed, little kids are happy the most, it doens't take much, and they can be happy for no reason at all. Don't you wish it was as easy to be happy as it was when you were a kid?

2007-12-19 06:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by stormdog3269 4

2007-12-19 06:19:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Still on speaking terms and we have a young child. I still love her, but I think it's heading to divorce.

2007-12-19 06:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by tHEwISE 4

my now ex wanted me to get pregnant and im 3 months preg. we recently had a big fight and as soon as i went to work he packed up and moved out. weve been together for a year and some months. first he says he loves me, next he says he's not dealing with me again. im confused. should i try to work it out with him or should i just let him be him?

2007-12-19 06:17:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

When it comes to marriage, why most Indian Muslims turn a deaf ear to a girl's choice? Although the Quran clearly states that a girl should be given her freedom of choice to pick her life partner, then why most Indian Muslims don't practice this teaching of Quran?

2007-12-19 06:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3

Okay so a year ago my husband joined the Navy which I am proud of but he came back a different man... He was mean and cold and lazy before he left but Now it just got Worse... I was so happy that I though this was gonna change him but now I see that I was wrong! I feel crappy about myself all the time because I get blamed for everything like I'm stupid or something but deep down I feel like I shouldn't. We have a two year old son and I don't want him to lose his dad but I don't think I can live so far away from everyone and still take all this crap... I know this is wrong but I want to go back home because I feel like there is someone else there for me ....

2007-12-19 06:10:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

cheat on business trips? how many of you dont? should i let these trips bother me or be worried about them?

2007-12-19 06:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by Heather 3