my bf broken up with his ex and his brother didnt know that so his brother bought aticket for that ex to come to spend this xmas with my bf's family. my bf showed me her meassage begging him to let her come for the last time and the fact that she is already here with his family. his parents like that girl better than me. my bf asked me if i could be patient for the last time because she is already here and he doesnt want to break the harmony in his family during this xmas. he told me that everything will be the end after these two weeks.he loves his parents and dont want to make them sadduring this holiday. should i give him another try? should i wait for him 2 weeks and see what happens next? should i be patient for the last time? please help me, i am very confused and have no idea what i should do. half of me tells me that i should give him 2 weeks but the other half cant put up with the idea that his soon-to-be ex is spending time with him and his family.
2007-12-19 14:56:13 · 4 answers · asked by hong h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds fishy to me , id tell him thats great your parents like her, but your with me , and im going with you to your family christmas, or im gone . sounds to me like hes 1, not broken up with her and playing both of you , or 2, hes considering not breaking up with her. and to top it off , hes more concerned for his ex and his family then you , thats not a good sign, imagine this guy as your future husband, would you tolerate this behavior then ?
if you want him to start and continue to walk all over you and put everyone else first before you and your relationship then heck be patient, but i sure as hell wouldnt, id be there with bells on , this girl has a game plan, show him how much he misses her, show him how much his parents like her , be scared.
2007-12-19 15:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ஐDanielleஐ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry if this hurts, but no, he is making a choice here. He could tell them the truth and let her be there, but have you there also. I would be very uncomfortable with the situation.
2007-12-19 15:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run girl, run fast and far. this guy can't let go of his ex girlfriend, has interfering family members that don't like you and he can't stand up to them and lets them decide and run his life. What part of this do you need in yours?
2007-12-19 15:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid, you shouldn't wait for ANY guy! It doesn't sound right to me, it shouldn't matter if it would make his parents upset, if he wanted to be with you he should bring you or NO ONE, NOT HIS EX! Say bye bye to this loser!
2007-12-19 15:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋