my parents have been divorced for about 15 years and it has not affected me until now, i lived with my mom until i was about 15 and she kicked me out. i have not spoken to her since, i am not 17 and realize how much i need and miss her. My Dad does what he can to help me but there is only so much he can do and he cannot fill the void of a mother. i just really need my mom and miss her so much, have any advice?
2007-12-19 14:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Issy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have already tried to contact her.....and she only got more mad at me. she is very confused as well, its a much longer story than what i wrote. my step father is involved and i cant come in contact with him so she is stuck right in the middle and i feel bad for her i just wish there was a way me and her could talk and see each other without things being so complicated.
2007-12-19 15:16:49 · update #1
why dont you write her a letter??
it will be easier for her to deal with as she wont feel put on the spot like dealing with you over the phone etc.
that way she can have time to read how you feel etc and have time to think about what she feels and instead of being taken by the moment, she can have time to adjust and think before she speaks etc.
let her know how you feel and that you miss her etc and want her to be a part of you life and tell her that you understand that its hard du eto the step dad thing but she could always meet up with you somewhere else etc.
hope it all works out!!!!
all the best!!
2007-12-19 17:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom is in the middle between you and your step father? I can't imagine allowing a man to come between myself and my children. Call her when he isn't around and ask her to meet you on her own somewhere....
If he abused you in any way, or her, then I would call the police!!! If it was because of your behavior at the time, it is important for her and your step dad to remember there is a big difference between 15 and 17.
I hope this works out for you both!
2007-12-19 15:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your mom kick you out in the first place?
If it was something you did, I would suggest writing to her or calling her to apologize for your mistakes and to let her know how much you miss her. If she just kicked out just because, you can take a chance at trying to get in contact with her, after all it has been two years so she probably misses you too.
Sit your dad down and tell him how you're feeling so maybe he can help you get in conctact with her too.
2007-12-19 15:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her. Sometimes that's all it takes. Make the first move. Try to reconcile and tell her exactly what you just told us. You are young with many trials to go through yet. You will need all the guidance you can get. Good luck sweetheart! godsped!
2007-12-19 15:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call her.. start with some small talk then tell her how sorry you are that things got the way they did and as your getting older your understanding much more.. and that you miss her and would love to be back in her life... then take it from there.. good luck
2007-12-19 15:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make ammends with your Mom .. you will never regret it.
Write your mom a special letter.
Tell her how much you miss her, need her, and love her.
Ask her to be a part of your life again - because you love her.
All you can do, is try. She is your mom .. and maybe she is waiting on you.
2007-12-19 15:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact her. Be thankful you have the chance to do so. My Mom passed away 32 years ago, and I miss her everyday.......
2007-12-19 15:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋