Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have one friend and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. My whipped friend recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. But my other friend just said it aint his problem and pretty much told my whipped friend to f**** off.
2007-12-19 15:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So ya I think I am gonna do the same thing as my friend and just tell him to **** off until he gets his **** straight. I aint going to be hanging out with no *****, so when he calls should I just tell him off??? I mean it aint my problem he aint got balls
2007-12-19 15:02:54 · update #1
Its called "respect" for each other,
2007-12-19 15:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This story reminds me of a young man.
There was once a young man who was very close to his mother. People even called him a "momma's boy". As this young man grew into man-hood -- some of the man friends kept on calling him this name.
Not once, during all these years - did this guy let this bother him.
This young man, who turned into a grown man ... was known as a "man's man". He was athletic, played all sports, power-lifted, rode bulls in rodeos, water sports, boxed , etc ... he was ALL man.
This man was also charming, respectful, mannerly ... but would step-up if challenged in a fight .. and would stand-up to defend what was right.
This man .. was a man. This man .. did not let the name calling of "mama's boy" interefere with his manhood .. in fact, he was more man - than most men.
His manhood was not bothered with the "mama's boy" name .. because he really did love his mother.
He married .. he loved his wife ... and he did everything to make her happy. He stood beside her .. upheld her in all things.
And to this day - he is still the man.
A man can respect his wife .. love his wife .. take-up for his wife .. share his life with his wife .. and not be whipped.
A man can be strong within himself .. and still be the man ... he does not have to step up and say he'll go whatever he wants ... it shows on all men, and all people who they are.
2007-12-19 15:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a jerk and you have absolutely no respect for women. You don't even like them either. Are you either gay or an eununch? "never let a woman control anything about me". Well, if you're an a**hole, I WILL control it by telling you to straighten up or get out! If you're fat, I'll control what you eat and how you exercise! Whenever we control you in whatever aspect, it's because of LOVE. We wouldn't sit here and do nothing while your life, job, and health goes down to hell. Obviously, HE'S picked the wrong girl IF... she controls that and beyond - both.
2007-12-19 15:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should stand up for himself.
However, maybe he knows he has something good and doesn't want to lose it?
Nobody should be controlled (which is what it sounds like) but cut the guy a little slack, at least he knows whats best for him....
2007-12-19 15:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude why dont ya grow up your friend is a heck of alot more mature than you give him credit for. one he is in a relationship and if you palyed your cards right maybe his gf could hook you up with one of her friends two you sound like your jealous of him and can only see that he hangs out with his lady more than he does with you three if you were a true friend you would not start on his case and stick with him no matter what your imature other friends do
2007-12-19 15:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jaxs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a wonderful thing. As long as he is happy, and his girlfreind is not taking advanage of him and she is happy to, then it's fine. One day, when you find the right person to love, you will find love in your heart. You won't want to be this big "tough" guy. You will be softer and have more sympathy and in general, be a much better person than you presently portray yourself to be.
2007-12-19 15:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jag J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this upset you so much? You probably won't ever let this happen to you..that's fine, and your friend will probably regret letting someone take him so deeply away from his center, but for many people, this is a learning experience, so let him do what he has to to learn.
2007-12-19 15:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by southand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has huge balls; it is you who is lacking in them. Grow up and be happy for your friend
2007-12-20 01:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit obsessing about your friend's life and get one of your own.
2007-12-19 15:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋