Marriage & Divorce - 10 December 2007

I'm a house-husband - my wife is the main breadwinner. I work some around my kids school, doctor, sports, sickness & etc. We agreed on this arrangement - back when my kids were still in diapers. I am very handy...in all aspects of running a house. Yes I can cook too!
The problem is her anger over the subject of division of labor...she has twice now, in the last few months, hit me with her fists and a stick, in the head, as hard as she can, in front of the kids...all the while cussing up a storm! (she attends church...)
She is not petite. I am 5'11" 165 pds., she out weighs me by 30 pds and is 5'7" , she can hit like a trained boxer.
If I call the cops...she'll lose her job.
I am baffled by this extreme reaction on the subject of household division of labor. I don't want my kids to be witness to this evil crap anymore. She kicked me out of our bedroom years ago claiming I snore...so I sleep on the couch. What more?

2007-12-10 04:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by Water 2

If you found your soulmate why shouldn't you be with him? He just met his wife first. Then comes along his soulmate. He can't get a divorce becuse of money, kids etc. Why should that hold back true love

2007-12-10 04:09:07 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 04:06:24 · 19 answers · asked by elpackage 2

That's what I read in Wiki. That Holly on "The Girls Next Door" is always hinting at marriage and he acts like he could care less. And do you think he actually fools around with Bridget and Kendra, or sleeps with just Holly?

2007-12-10 04:01:20 · 17 answers · asked by Kate J 6

I have my ex. bf i'll call him Vinny who was my first bf and everything in HS.We had a very dramatic relationship becacause i was a good girl and he was a bad boy from another not as nice town.He broke up with me and broke my heart twice. The last time i was unknowingly pregnant i became depressed went from being 110 pounds(5ft 6) down to 90 pounds and lost the baby.I went on to college became even more shy than in HS and Vinny came back to hound me for a fling while he had a gf.I stupidly agreed and that went on for a little over a year.I met a really sweet guy(Danny) who brought me back to myself we started being friend then dating and i ended the fling with my ex.Well when Danny died suddenly(cancer)Vinny came by again for a fling (still with the gf) 3 months after our daughter was concieved.Well now my daughter is 4 yrs old; Vinny her dad asked me to allow him to pay CS of the books and i agreed. But he has stopped paying for the last 6 months?I believe he may have married...

2007-12-10 04:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my wife and I get into a heated argument she calls my mother and says the worst things about me. She tells my mother in front of my face that I need psychological counseling etc. She never tells how she contributes to the argument. Now, She has her own mother that she can talk to, and friends and she has absolutely no relationship with my mother. I asked her why and she says because she needed someone to talk to.

2007-12-10 03:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is one of the most important things to me and he sometimes hurts me. i have been with him for 9 months but have loved him for over a year. and there is times that we get into a fight and he says alot of stuff to hurt me and i still put up with it. is that what i should be doing?

2007-12-10 03:46:03 · 10 answers · asked by Me 1

why would a wife say she should be able to go hang with guy friends and leave her husband home? at age 29 and married under a year? like go to the mall or out to lunch or this and that? make a comment that her other boyfriends didnt mind if she did those things--when she was 20, not 29 and a wife. i would never leave my wife home to go be with another woman, friend or not. who would do that? and why would she want to spend time with some other man than her husband.

2007-12-10 03:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by amayseng 3

There's way too much to tell about the trials our relationship has experienced (as far as I know, cheating was one of the only issues we didn't face). I am younger than he is (I'm 25, he's 38) I have always been willing to look at any issues that may be mine & work to try to fix them, he on the other hand just CAN'T see his (major) flaws. When we met he was a skinny pot smoking angry overworked chef, I saw him transform into a 30 pound heavier non- pothead healthy looking semi-happier still overworked chef. We had a rocky relationship, can I blame ALL the problems on him? No Can I say that MOST were him? Yes, without a doubt. The past couple months I've felt he was smoking (pot) again, (his behavior was a little different, he began frequent gum chewing, etc) I would confront him, he used to be upfront & admit if he did. Also, I found out he purchased 2 spy camerasfor his condo, when I confronted him he said he wanted to make sure I wasn't cheating (I don't even LIVE with him!) -Contiue

2007-12-10 03:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 4

2007-12-10 03:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by MSMajor 2

2007-12-10 03:34:58 · 27 answers · asked by ify 2

im scared to tell my man, and im also scared if i do have an orgasm now he'll know, and he will realize that iv never had an orgasm before and we will fight because iv been faking it for so long, im scared if i do something diffrent he will know, and ill be the bad person, i dont have confidence in my body after i had my son, even with my sons father i never had an orgasm after 4 years, but im with my new man now and i dont want to mess things up with us, iv never really liked myself so i feel like i dont deserve to have an orgasm and to be pleased, and another thing is i always get trun on afther sex never druing, i dont know what to do, i can have an orgasm by myself and with oral, i just need some help on what to do

thank you

2007-12-10 03:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Woman in her 40's, married to a good guy but lonely, she is very attractive and active her husband is quite boring but handsome. She told me she has become attracted to a 26 year old guy. He told her he would go out with her if she wasn't married, but still notices everything about her. Innocent little immature things. But it only tells me he is watching her. She really loves the thrill and challenge of this whole thing, and as the days go on thats all she talks about. I try to discourage her because of her husband but she boldly told me that she wants to sleep with him.. Needless to say this younger guy is very cute and I can tell he is a good guy because he is trying to fight his attraction, Bottom line I believe he wants her as much as she wants him. How could she just hop into bed with him, how could that even begin to work?

2007-12-10 03:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 5

we are getting divorced now because i just couldn't take the way he treated me anymore. he was abusive and controlling and one of the last straws for me was when i caught him trying to photograph me during sex. it made me so mad! so, so , so mad.....(i'm a mother, a teacher, and a very moral person) anyone have any thoughts?

2007-12-10 03:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by philly 2

If she don't know by now shouldn't that say something about their marriage

2007-12-10 03:21:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came across a word document on my hubby's computer and it was a letter he wrote to his exwife when they were seperated. (We have been married for 5 months now.) It was a beautiful desperate letter with him voicing his undying love for her and how desperately he wanted their marriage to last. It did end in divorce after he confirmed her infidelity and he started dating me a year later. I cannot seem to get past the beautiful words in this letter and feel as though he does not have that same kind of love for me. He says that he loves me more than he has ever loved any woman and that letter was written in desperation and means nothing now. How do I get over these feelings of inadequacy and insecurity?

2007-12-10 03:18:24 · 29 answers · asked by LLC72267 1

He had the affair after we were married over 23 yrs. With my youngest sons wife.I want to do the right thing.both my sons miss trust him .Its been 2 yrs and im still having nightmares, that hes cheating on me.My son got divorced right away.the affair went on for 2 yrs.my husband always told them to work at thier marrages and to be faithful. I find it hard to trust him, the dreams keep upsetting me.hes a hard man to live with ,I love him, But hes changed alot .I know he would never have told me. My sons ex told me .The 3 of us got together, it was then my husband admitted to it.he still says he dont know why he did it.and that im choosing to have the dreams.he says hes glad she didnt get pregnant. I believe in better for worse but I may lose my sanity. ANY ADVISE HELP PLEASE.

2007-12-10 03:04:39 · 26 answers · asked by undercover angel 4

she is asking for half of the retirement money, I don't want here to have it.

2007-12-10 02:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by Russ L 1

I mean if your husband or spouse want to fufill their fanstasty. He wants me to hve sex with a women and I want another man. We want to do this just one time and if we like it continously.

2007-12-10 02:57:32 · 23 answers · asked by bernice b 1

In the beginning of a relationship most people wanna be the best partner or spouse they can, for their partner or spouse (people claim). But now a day's it seem's that when that moment in the relationship has pasted. All bet's are off now!!

Every man or women for themselves! Why is it that people bring their worst out in relationships? Lying, CHEATING whatever. People go in with good intentions and characters I guess. If they even really had any. But then turn out to be frauds!!!

What the hell is up with this? Why is it that the fraud comes out in people when in relationships?

2007-12-10 02:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has a lawyer to represent him, he works under the table, just got remarried for the second time. I work 32 hrs per week and am CP. He has not paid support in over 4 months, claims he doesnt have it ~ but he can afford a lawyer for $215/hr and to pay for part of his wedding. He did have back surgery in August and wants to use a medical excuse for not being able to work to pay support. Court is asking for 2 yrs of tax returns. I am concerned about the outcome. This support helps greatly when its received, what will I have to prove in court? Thank you for your input here!! (FYI, we never married, relationship ended in domestic abuse)

2007-12-10 02:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend to death and he is planning on proposing and i want to say yes, but i don't know if its to young.... we have been together for 3 years.

2007-12-10 02:42:57 · 24 answers · asked by Jessy 1

Some ladies are shocked that they are wild sleepers.
Other ladies are shocked by the constant sounds that emanate from behind him with that foul smell
Some ladies find out they have violent tempers that she didnt know about
Some ladies find out that they prefer the opposite sensual partner and therefore cant expand.
Some ladies find out they prefer unusual sensual acts by their wives.
What did you find out that was was not part of your white dress or gown weddding dreams about him? Share story?

2007-12-10 02:40:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question is complicated, I just want honest advice. I have written earlier about me - I dated a girl for 3 1/2 years, things were great, we were in love, even though I only wanted to be with her and nobody else, I chickened out and could never get myself to get married. She took a job on the West Coast, and while I thought we were in a "lets try to make this work long distance thing," she met some other guy and got married 5 months later. They have been married now for 1 year and she called/emailed recently and told me she is not completely happy, that she made a mistake, got desperate and just wanted to be a wife, that she never thought I would want to get married. I told her to divorce then, and she only says that she doesnt know if she can "risk it," as there is no guarantee between us. I really love her, and am so depressed that this happened, it sickens me. Well, our anniversary was Dec. 12, should I even email her and say anything or just do nothing?

2007-12-10 02:38:19 · 12 answers · asked by mano 1

Just wondering. I saw him kissing another woman at a parking lot near my house. My co-worker thought he was away on business. He never saw me. The other woman I don't know. I don't like my co-worker much and it would give me a kind of evil pleasure to tell her about her cheating husband. She has two kids under five and I don't think they are rich or even comfortable financially. I think it is really sad.
She is such a pain though that I almost can understand the husband's actions. Well, not really, but for a moment I felt almost sympathy for him. I think I should say nothing. Let them work out their own problems.

2007-12-10 02:34:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am debating whether I should take my kids fathers to court for support. I am feeling like I am doing something wrong by eventhinking about it. Well I let the two of them know what my plans were and they both are angry with me. I have been carrying pretty much all the weight for a number of years now. I am drained and I feel as though I shouldn't have to work two jobs to take care of half of their resposnibility. I just think they are upset because they will now be held accountable and have to be consistent. Buying a birthday gift or christmas gift just isn't cutting it anymore. Do they have a right to have an attitude? Is it wrong for me to hold them accountable?

2007-12-10 02:33:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should horoscopes be matched in love marriages?? what if they do not match perfectly??? Any resolution for the same?

2007-12-10 02:33:37 · 4 answers · asked by mals 1

friends with him. His wiccan nephew has done a couple spells on me and I have almost been in a car accident or I woke up one morning feeling sick to my stomach. I am familiar with wicca because I have worked with wiccans and I know what they can do. It runs rampant here in Minnesota and Wisconsin. I don't know what to do. What do I say to my husband to keep him yet lose his nephew before anything else happens to me. What will happen ?

2007-12-10 02:28:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby is not intrested any more he spends 3 hours a day in private on pc. I know some of his IDs but sure has new ones. Is there any way to find them? and were he has been going? and what has been doing? I need to know PLEASE HELP

2007-12-10 02:27:07 · 17 answers · asked by jenefer 1

I have left him alone to figure things out. now he calls me everyday and what to come over. I told him no sex until he moves back into the house. I sticking by my word. He loves sex would like it 2-3times a day. The reason why he left was we were not taking care of your marrige. we got to comfortable no passion anymore. Now i show him what he could be having, Ive read alot and changes my ways im ready to be a new lover. etc...I think he is excited by this. do you think he might be thinking about coming home and trying again at some point?

2007-12-10 02:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous