I mean if your husband or spouse want to fufill their fanstasty. He wants me to hve sex with a women and I want another man. We want to do this just one time and if we like it continously.
2007-12-10 02:57:32 · 23 answers · asked by bernice b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah thats cheating try 2 make eachothers fantasy 1 or both of may start 2 do that and never stop if u cheat and become pregnant u wouldn't knows whose the father and that alone may cause a divorce if u cheat that doesn't say i love u it says i dont love u and u dont satisfy each other its not worth it 2 do it 4 a moment of pleasure
2007-12-10 03:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by katy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both agree to it and you do it with each other's knowledge and consent, then no, it's not cheating. It may not be a good idea, but if you're both agreeing to it then it's not cheating.
For the record, of the couple dozen couples I've known who have had open or swinging relationships, only one survived. Make sure you're willing to risk your marriage before you leap into this.
Some fantasies are best left in the realm of imagination.
2007-12-10 03:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it from someone that has been there....it is called swinging and it will be the beginning to the end...this kind of lifestyle was a MAJOR factor for my divorce with my first husband...One time huh?? Yeah right! That is all it may take to screw up your marriage.....It may not be considered cheating.....but it is just a lame azz excuse to f*ck other people...
2007-12-10 03:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a in basic terms sensible viewpoint, the greater sexual companions one has, the greater probably one is to capture a ailment. the different important different did no longer get to have the relaxing that went alongside with that risk, so they might view it as unfair. From an emotional viewpoint, maximum individuals are no longer polyamorous, a minimum of interior the u . s .. they might't cope with understanding their lover shared sexual family members with yet somebody else. i do no longer journey this jealousy, yet all of us else i comprehend does. This habit runs opposite the assumption of devotion, and the majority desire to think of that 2 persons provides you one yet another all that they want, and devotion is the main to happiness.
2016-11-15 03:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex with anyone other than your spouse is cheating regardless of the situation. Fantasies should be left as fantasies and not acted on. A lot of time acting them out leads to trouble.
2007-12-10 03:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You might want to rethink this. Those things sound like good fantasies but in real life they end badly. How will you feel seeing your husband/wife getting pounded by some one else?
Where there is love there is exclusivity.
2007-12-10 03:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is when you are deceitful and what you are wishing is to 'swing' a bit. Whatever works for the two of you.
2007-12-10 05:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon folks, cheating is cheating, no matter what,
when married and you have an affair especially
sex with someone else, it's just that plain and
simple. Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-10 14:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is try reading the bible. hello out there. if its a fantasy that means just that fantasy. Trust me dont go and do it sometimes it dont come out in the end the way you want it too.
2007-12-10 03:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your partner is okay with you having sex with someone else, then no..it's not cheating (why would it be?). If you have sex with someone else behind your partner's back, or against their desires, then you have cheated.
Have fun...be safe...and be careful that emotions for your playmates don't cause issues in your marriage.
2007-12-10 03:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋