Marriage & Divorce - 10 December 2007

How long were you married? Was it mutual agreement or a shocker?

2007-12-10 09:15:45 · 16 answers · asked by doug g 7

no end ? Its kind of like karma or a genertaional curse ?

2007-12-10 09:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 09:12:01 · 15 answers · asked by rob 2

anyone that knows the truth. We are christens and want to be right b4 the Lord. Have little$ thanks for anyhelp

2007-12-10 09:10:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend met in high school. We have been going out for almost 2 years. I have been out of high school for 2 years. I love her so much and she is very beautiful and I would trade her for any amount of money or fashion model in the world. I truly love her more than words can describe. I am almost 20 and she is almost 19. She is in college right now and Im trying to figure out what to do with my life. I really would do anything for her I would even die for her. I know we are young but the love is real. So the question is when should we get married? I mean getting married is a big step. So how long should I wait until I propose? now, next year, 4 years, when?

2007-12-10 09:04:29 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have some time set aside with my spouse tonight to discuss his married friend... we have our first child due in 3 months and this guy is destroying our relationship, he's in his 30's. Everytime he calls it feels like a slap in the face, he doesn't respect our relationship:
1) Calls at least once/day at home, work to drink (he's an alcoholic)
2) Only ever invites the spouse, even if its mutual friends bday (he always leaves his wife behind)
3) Rumours: After our first date he called him up to say "I heard she was moody," and a couple months later him and his friend (who has been trying to date me forever) started a rumour that I was saying mean things about spouse behind his back (would never do).
4) Has a bedroom for spouse and expects him to stay every Sat. night to drink & watch football all day Sunday. Puts me on guilt trips for my spouse not staying with him.
5) Lies to me (i.e.: "my wife has tickets to this show, she wants you to go") just so he can be with my partner.

2007-12-10 09:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Betty 4

I have had a hard financial time lately even though I am working 2 jobs & we live a very simple life. So when my ex offered to pay for Christmas this year, I was surprised, happy and relieved. We went shopping this past weekend. When it was time for him to leave, I reminded him my child support had been due three days earlier. He got very quiet and made a comment about having to pay for all of Christmas on his own then he guessed. I was floored. He never said he would pay for Christmas in leiu of child support. I mean bills don't stop just because it is Christmas. If I could afford to not get my child support, I would have paid for Christmas myself. So he wrote me a check for $50 less and made a comment saying he felt taken advantage of. I told him that I must have misunderstood what he said and that he knows I don't have any money. He has a much better paying job than me, has a wife who makes good money and they have no children together. (cont.)

2007-12-10 08:52:42 · 25 answers · asked by wondermom 6

He left a few days ago, and moved in with his parents. He said he just couldn't take my jealousy and complaining anymore. I suggested counseling, but he is set on divorce. How do I get through to him, without being pushy, controlling, or psycho? We have a family to fight for!

2007-12-10 08:51:51 · 18 answers · asked by Michelle 2

my husband has always been a VERY popular and sought after man. And i cant explain how i got him or why me. We are still young 24 and 26. But his past pretty much kills me. We cant speak about exs without getting very jealous. When i think about his past i feel it shoulda been me or i feel like he cheated on me (though we werent together at that time). But for some reason now it has consumed me, i constantly think about it. In a way i feel like i got "leftovers". i know that sounds mean but it is the best way to explain it. It has gotten to the point where im starting not to like him because of it. I really do love him please help me.

2007-12-10 08:51:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Only because you had feelings for the previous person? Id love to hear all your stories.

2007-12-10 08:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by zora 1

Let's assume that you were given the opportunity to go away from work and everthing and everyone (include your spouse or gf/bf and children) for like two month on a dream come true vacation for you, do you think that you would be tempted to cheat. can you or will you be able to keep you pants zipped and your legs crossed through out the whole entire trip?...what if we say that this dream vacation is filled with pretty guys/girls that are just so damn hot and lots and lots of buzz and you were missing your sweetheart ..would you still be able to not cheat then? how would you prevent that from happening?

2007-12-10 08:49:42 · 62 answers · asked by mama2be 3

I am not refferring to surgery or anything like that. Just a standard check up, or MRI, or X-ray?

2007-12-10 08:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by oneakmusic 2

My wife and I have been having trouble lately,she wants freedom, independance ,has said she hates her life doesnt want to be married or be a mum kept telling me she was moving out,said I had done nothing wrong she had just grown, we are seeing a councilior she has resolved some issues but last night I told her whilst at the councilor that I was scared because I was starting to love her less and that Im afraid it could just keep going this was said at the councilor now she is being cold to me did I say the wrong thing or was being honest wright

2007-12-10 08:46:58 · 12 answers · asked by finally solo35 1

I have been married 2.5 years and together with this man for 5 years. This is a terrible relationship. He is constantly calling me names, putting me down, telling me I'm stupid. We recently had a baby 7 weeks ago, and he has no interest in the baby. In fact, it scares me to leave him alone with the baby, thats why I never do it. His newest thing is telling me that I don't take care of the baby. I know I should leave, I know I should get out--my whole family is backing me...Im in NC and they are in FL, so all I have to do is get in my car and drive to FL, and as soon as Im there I know i'll be ok, SO why am I still here?

2007-12-10 08:44:10 · 23 answers · asked by lesliebedford623 1

2007-12-10 08:40:45 · 38 answers · asked by kpoires3 1

2007-12-10 08:35:16 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

My current gf who's 29 said to me that she's been with 16 partners before me. She said some of them were one-nighters in college but the vast majority were failed relationships. I am at half that and it really bothers me. Past gfs have had 2 or 3 more than me and I never gave it a 2nd thought. But with this girl I am. I tried voicing my concerns. I am told 16 isn't too many for a 30 year old but to me it seems like a few. I don't look at her like a $lut but it bugs me. My girl friend has a friend who said that yeah, back in the day she was a little easy and that he never would consider being with that and wants a "lady". I just am concerned I will always be compared to these other guys. I know its stupid and silly but I do. I regret never capitalizing on past chances because I wouldn't feel the way I do today. What if one day she thinks back about them or makes fun of me for being with less? The girl I lost my virginity to was with one other guy before me and made fun of me. It destoryed our relationship and she went out and cheated on me. I feel like sometimes I'm missing out still and only have so many yrs left. I also kinda know sleeping with other women isn't gonna solve anything either.

2007-12-10 08:34:57 · 17 answers · asked by modusoperandi 1

If you've ever had to encounter this before (i'm sorry!) but what are some hints that led you to find out? And if you were the one doing the cheating, what were signs that the other should have seen?

2007-12-10 08:31:44 · 19 answers · asked by emreldjewel 1

I called out sick a month ago and then when I try to call out sick today, I was told I have to make up days even though I was put down that I worked on the schedule and payed for it? Should I?

2007-12-10 08:31:04 · 13 answers · asked by suninmyeyes 2

He likes blaming everything on me. I'll ask him what's wrong and he says there's nothing wrong with me what's wrong with you. And when other people are around it seems like it just gets worse he likes trying to be the bigger person or something. We've only been married 1 year and 2 months!

2007-12-10 08:29:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 08:27:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a bit to drink on Saturday night at a club in town, a friends husband was also out on his works xmas party and we ended up kissing, we are both married and we'd both had a bit to drink, I regret it so much, what happens now ?

2007-12-10 08:25:51 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years and we will probably get engaged late in 2008 (we have discussed it). I live alone and have been for the past 3 years and I love it. When he comes over, he always offers to help cook or clean up but I hate when he touches things because he either puts it back wrong, breaks something, or loses something. Whenever he comes over, he always puts on sports or some movie and I wind up reading a magazine because I don't want to watch anything he likes. I like living alone but if we get married, I know I'll have to life with him. How do I get over this?

2007-12-10 08:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by cupid2410 1

I got married to a canadian citizen after only knowing her 6 weeks. She made certain promises and representations which turned out to be lies.

She had a sugardaddy who is an american 40 years her senior who provided financial support for her before, during and after our marriage. This can be proven.

She left me for him after he provided her with $10,000. We were married only 7 months.

Question is do I have any legal claims against him or her for marriage fraud? He is very wealthy, and upon reflection it appears she married me to obtain her visa in order to be with him.

2007-12-10 08:20:55 · 11 answers · asked by Dan 1

2007-12-10 08:20:36 · 17 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4

WHICH ONE?

2007-12-10 08:17:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and we have a 1 1/2 year old and i want to get child support. but i dont want to go threw the courts i want us both to agree on whats right. but how i go on about doing that? i want it to be known that he pays me and i want to make sure that i get the money but i dont want anything to do with going to court. can some1 please help me

2007-12-10 08:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by Gina K 1

This has bothered me for quite some time. When I ask him if it's because he just doesn't like to do it, he said "pretty much." But he has also told me that in the past he has done "everything" with a girl he dated. How can he not do "everything" with his own wife? This gets to me. We do everything else but this. I make sure I am fresh & clean : ) so I'm sure that isn't why. I go down on him very often. Sometimes I think I should stop going down on him, until he will go down on me. Do you agree with this? Please answer me this:
Why would a man not want to please his wife (or at least try it once because she wants it)?
Have you ever known a man to not like going down on a girl?
What should I do to fix this problem?
Thanks for your help, this is a sensitive issue for me and I don't know who else to ask! I am too embarrassed to tell my friends he doesn't ever do this for me. : (

2007-12-10 07:56:51 · 36 answers · asked by jval 2

I've tried so many different things to try and not be depressed. Medicine, therapy, new hobbies, hanging out with friends, etc. But still I am so depressed. All I can think about what my wife is doing and how she can abandon me and not even care & have no regrets about the affair and running across the country to live with the guy she knew online for a couple weeks, & hurts more she is "happy" with her decision. She has no idea the amount of pain and anguish she inflicted on me & her family, neither does she even care. Everyday I wake up wishing I was dead, I still cry everyday cuz it feels like I've been stabbed repeatedly, and it's been 3 months. I feel like I'm about to breakdown. I don't understand how someone can do something so terrible like she did & have a "happy life" jumping into an affair, while I'm left holding the bag suffering and not even look back. How do I gain my happiness back? Been 3 mos & still depressed! Do ppl like this ever feel remorse?

2007-12-10 07:51:58 · 39 answers · asked by BlaBla 2

My fiance has lived in my house for about 3 yrs and out of all our bills he only pays for half of the grocery bill . I pay the mortgage, cable, phone, internet, water, electricity and oil bill. I've agreed to the arrangements while he gets himself out of debt. Our wedding is coming closer and he still has about $6000 in debt. I've also been saving for our wedding. He has not saved 1 cent. He is always promising to help real soon but then months and years go by. He also has a job with no sick or vacation time. When it rains he does not work and he does not get paid. He also gets laid off over the winter. I am getting frustrated! Please help.

2007-12-10 07:51:56 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous