2007-12-10 08:35:16 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I so wish I married one !
2007-12-10 08:36:55 · update #1
I hav ethe same question but for the opposite sex... it seems like the good guys never find the good girls and it in fact is the other way around... [ if you're single ] wait for him, that's what everyone tells me, "wait for her, she'll come when you least expect it" so I guess we wait... [ If you're married ] Try to make it work, no one is perfect, and those relationships that work are the ones that have worked the hardest to achieve that level of peace and comfort between themselves. Best of luck to you babe!
2007-12-10 08:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by VortexHunter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They're around...but we just have to look hard to find them. Because if given the option, a guy might first want to get as much @ss as he can, you know? But if we got to know these guys a bit better, they might actually have some good values. You can't blame a guy for having the biological cravings that he does. Also, what's YOUR idea of "a healthy respect towards women"? Because once you identify what your ideas are, then you can more readily tell where the men who think the same way are.
2007-12-10 08:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
We're here darling, but we're married too! Picking your partner for life is the hardest choice most adults have too make. Sometimes you get right, other times you get it wrong. If you don't want to divorce your partner and start again, its best to try to make good of a bad situation.
I think all married people go through a patch during the duration of their marriage saying "what the hell have I done", but hopefully if this has/is happening to you it will pass.
If you haven't been married to long, my advice would be to get out soon before you turn into one of those 'men haters' who like to trash talk men to any other person close by. We are not all ***-holes but (obviously) there are a few around!
Good luck on your choice of what to do!
2007-12-10 08:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it us who are messed up because we apparently attract the wrong kind-or we are easily buffaloed into thinking we found one only to find out later we were so mistaken! But I am finding after this many times that maybe it is me I should be looking at - at least for a while - then maybe if I am focused on looking inward, just MAYBE when I do look up, someone really fantastic might be standing in front of me. We can hold onto HOPE, can't we? But I guess we first have to be a survivor of where we are at right now, huh? I know I do ....
2007-12-10 08:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by ramblinrc101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Far and few between. Because of society and our Fathers passing down their "love" of women, we don't know any better. It usually takes a man that was raised by their Mother, or in my case, going through a divorce with a lot of self analyzing to get rid of the hard male facade. At this point in my life, I see no room for my attitude the way it was. I feel much happier about myself and can actually treat women with the respect they deserve. It is a lot nicer to be friends with the ones we love.
2007-12-10 08:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by M M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One is married to me. Let me just say, be open and take a chance on that guy who might not seem like your ideal type. Limiting yourself is cause for disappointment! I had a bit of a crush on my husband when we first met, but I thought he was too-cool-for-school. He turned out to be shy, yet still made the first move on me, making me feel special and important. After dealing with all the game playing bullsh*t I got from other guys, his honesty was a refreshing and welcome change. We've now been married 15 years and are still very happy.
2007-12-10 08:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty out there. They're the guys some call nerds and geeks or they're told "you're just too nice for me." Remember them? Usually not the jocks or the life of the party. Sorry, I wish you had married one too. Maybe the next one.
2007-12-10 08:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Poppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of us men who are *******, b@stards, and the like have imprisoned the good hearted men in abandoned missile silos in North Dakota. Sorry, but we won't be letting them out any time soon. We just don't need the competition.
2007-12-14 08:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sure you do. The good ones have been beaten into the ground by women like you. We're not handsome or dangerous or rich or whatever the heck else it is you really want. We morph into guys who learn how to get laid because women like you begin to seek us out only when your real desires don't work out. Coulda, maybe shoulda, looked for one of us years ago. Now you'll have a devil of a time finding one who hasn't had his guts kicked in. Unless, that is, you just want to get laid.
2007-12-10 08:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Married to smart women who looked before they leaped and left the jerks on the curb for other women who aren't so discerning to pick up and take home.
2007-12-10 08:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Susie D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋