2007-12-10 08:20:36 · 17 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I've never been in that situation.
A friend of mine has, and so far she's been wrong every time. She distrusts her partner because long ago she cheated on him and he doesn't know about it and her guilty conscience makes her think that he'll cheat too.
She's become very paranoid and suspicious to the point where if he's working late, she'll be hysterically driving around to all the brothels in her neighborhood looking for his car.
If you're suspicious, it's important to work out why. You need to figure out if it's your own insecurities making you think he's cheating or if you have evidence.
If something just doesn't feel right, if you're sensing something isn't as it should be, then chances are, something is wrong. It may be that he's cheating or it could be something else entirely. What I'm trying to say, but not doing a very good job of it, is try hard to be analytical and not jump to conclusions.
I know it's very hard to do, but many a relationship has been ruined by ill founded suspicions. I hope it all works out for you hon, ((((hugs)))))
2007-12-10 08:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did feel as if something was going on but couldn't prove it. She tried to keep it from me but I out smarted her by getting a DVR and putting it in my fireplace. Once he came in the door I knew who it was and captured them having sex in my bed. She couldn't say it wasn't her and he couldn't deny it either. I didn't give her the goods right away. I hired a pi first and got the voice cheating and the video cheating. If you are thinking the other is follow up on why you think so.
2007-12-10 08:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like he is cheating then chances are that he is. We really can tell when something is different in our lives and you need to take action and get the hell out of that situation. Its only going to bring you down and make you feel down so get out and start your wonderful new life
2007-12-10 09:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 04:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I had the feeling and to my I started to investigate and found out it was with my friend...after 18 years and marriage and three kids later, it's best to follow your instincts they are usually right. I am going thought the divorce now, its best to be happy then live unhappy or wondering why or with who?
2007-12-10 08:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.... and to have your suspicions confirmed is hands down the most gut-wrenching feeling in the world.
2007-12-10 09:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear, yes I have and I am sorry to tell you this...but, I was right. . .I sensed he was being unfaithful and I was correct, I finally had to throw him out of my home. The one thing you can do for yourself for the rest of your life is to depend on your gut instinct, it is always correct. . . . .
2007-12-10 08:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many times with my first husband----I was NEVER wrong (as much as he tried to convince me that I was imagining things)--I was right! It only took me seven years to get out of that marriage.
2007-12-10 08:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and unfortunately I was right. We as women usually know. Without actually knowing. Just by the change we sense in them.
2007-12-10 08:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by THIC007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did. Matter of fact, I drove up to his job one eve on instinct and tried to follow him home but I lost him in traffic. I just drove (almost on impulse) around...for like 15 minutes and then bam, I saw him heading my way going in the other direction. I u-turned and ran up on him with two women in our car. Needless to say he tried to lose me but I cornered him on side of the freeway.
Crazy situation I know. I forgave him later. We are married now and he's a faithful hubby.
2007-12-10 08:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋