If you've ever had to encounter this before (i'm sorry!) but what are some hints that led you to find out? And if you were the one doing the cheating, what were signs that the other should have seen?
2007-12-10 08:31:44 · 19 answers · asked by emreldjewel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone is different, and people can tell you a thousand different things, you have to know your signigicant other well. You have to see the changes, if any. But the best thing to do is talk with them, and discuss your feelings. Beating around the bush and assuming, might lead you to believe in something that isn't happening.
2007-12-10 08:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not coming home on the weekends, say you are going out with the boys for a few drinks, and it happens more often.
Less sex...Picking a fight so they have a excuse to leave the house. Hiding the cell, so you do not see the text message that are received. Not allowing you there password to his email account, so you do not see the email he is sending her...etc. Hope this will help.
2007-12-10 08:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wel one sign is if they do not want you to hear a phone conversation. Or they are not sleeping in the same bed or room as you. Or they are doing certain things they have never done before in their life. I am sorry if this happening to you. I hope everything turns out well for you !!
2007-12-10 08:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by HOT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been suspecting? If it's only been for a few days I wouldn't sweat it. Have you asked them? If you haven't you need to, if you are with this person, you need to tell them how you feel. And when you do ask them if they get mad...that's the first clue. If they get all defensive...second clue. And if they accuse you of cheating...third clue. You can tell a lot about a relationship status by the way you communicate.
2007-12-10 08:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not have a lot of guilt so I did not act strange after cheating. But after she got Chlamydia, that was a pretty good sign that I was cheating. So if you end up with crabs or it hurts when you pee, you should start asking questions.
2007-12-10 08:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of 6 years started cheating after 3 years together. I kept forgiving and stayed around 3 more years. It got worse every year. But anywayz.. Finding phone numbers, and he would break our dates ... claiming something had come up all the time. He would get phone calls and when I would answer the phone the person( sluts he was sleeping with) on the other end would hang up in my face. Always tried to pick fights so he could leave... They always ask for forgiveness and how they wont do it again.. he cheated 4 time all together in 6 yrs... got one girl pregnant.. that was it for me... i dropped him... he was pi$$ed!!! and had the nerve to ask me what had he done to deserve me dumping his trifling tail... first time you find out... leave.. forgive him.. for your souls sake, but for your sanity's sake... leave him the first time you find out
2007-12-10 08:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by candyred1999 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i've found out that I the "seeker of truth" am more likely to find what i'm looking for (even if it isn't 100%).
Whether we acknowledge it or not the one being cheated on already knows so and plays mind games with themselves by searching for "evidence" when in fact it was never really hidden in the first place.
As for the cheater...he/she knows that you know but because the "victim" is playing their role...the accuser has to play his or her own as well.
2007-12-10 08:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by 4everFaithful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leaving the room to talk on the phone
Being overly nice, or overly mean
Asking if your mad at them all the time
Being paranoid
Not telling you where their going
Leaving the house more often and for longer period of times than usual
2007-12-10 08:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jami W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
alot of people seem to think that no sex is a sign,it's actually the opposite , reason being (especially from a man's prospective)that the thrill of it excites them , other signs are pretty obvious discreet phone calls , longer days at "work",mood swings , guilt , blame , hiding credit card bills & cell phone bills , showering at odd times , distancing themselves emotionally...........
2007-12-10 08:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by StRaWbErRyLiCiOuS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The attitude will change. Always seem to be onguard. Guilt has a way of showing off.
2007-12-10 08:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Poppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋