How do i find out what other on line names my hubby is useing?

Question

My hubby is not intrested any more he spends 3 hours a day in private on pc. I know some of his IDs but sure has new ones. Is there any way to find them? and were he has been going? and what has been doing? I need to know PLEASE HELP

why are people so mean I have tryed honest didn't work i know he chats looks at porn and ok with it just sure theres more and if he is cheating need to know to protect my self

Answer 1

Knowing is only going to cause you more pain.

If you really want to go down that road be prepared for answers you don't want to hear. Obviously if he is in 'private' for 3 hours a day, he doens't want people to know. You can check the history (unless he clears it daily).

First, ask him. Gage the reaction. If it's defensive in anyway he's doing something he knows you won't like.

I'm not a hacker so I can't tell you how to figure out his passwords. I do know there are keystroke readers out there which might help you. How much time, effort and money do you want to invest?

I'm going to guess he's having some sort of online affair or porno.

Answer 2

Have you checked the internet history on his computer?
Click on Tools>Internet Options>General>Then click "Settings" next to the "Browsing History" option, then select "view files".
Remember though, pop up ads and stuff like that will show, too.
Also, if you think he's using yahoo messenger to talk with someone, go to open it, and where the user ID is, there might be an arrow you can click on to show you the other user ID's he's got.
That dude of yours needs a serious reality check. I hope he's not being unfaithful to you, but if he is, I hope you catch him.
If you do catch him, print out every shred of evidence you can so that you can present it in divorce court.
Good luck.

Answer 3

You can look at his internet History. He might be smart enough to delete it though. However, there is a way to view all of the pictures he has ever looked at. Go to "search", type in .jpg or .jpeg in the seach bar. It will bring up all the pictures on his computer.

As far as screenames, it depends on what program he's using, so Idk.

I am very much like you lol. I always worry about what my bf is doing online. ( i caught him at a dirty webcam site) but hes a guy. Guys do that. They do a lot of things that we will never understand. Just ask him what hes doing and dont jump to comclusions that he is lying.

Answer 4

If he is using Yahoo Messenger, you can go to "my computer" and click on local disk (C:). Then click on program files. When you get to that, click on yahoo, then when that appears click on messenger and it will tell you all the ID names that he is using. I have the same problem so don't feel bad. As far as where he has been going, all I can tell you is go to the history on the internet. He can delete that though. When you pull up the internet, click on the star where the favorites, feeds, and history is. You can find the history there, if he hasn't deleted it. If you can get into his messenger you can save all the conversations that he is having with people. You have to go to preferences and then to archive and you can choose to save the messages. Hopefully, he won't check it and change it. I hope this helps. I have to do it all the time.

Answer 5

wow.... i spend more than 3 hours on the computer alone a day, and if it bothered my husband i would think he would ask me about it. but, we've also finally come to the point where we CAN talk about things. I also put a password on my computer, as well as each and every website and program i use. He doesn't know them. He won't know them. And frankly, if he tried to sneak behind my back and snoop on me it would really make me mad. But, I think he's adult enough to ask me what i'm doing. Why are you so concerned that he's messing around? Maybe he's shopping for Christmas? Maybe he's emailing your friends about your surprise birthday party.... or, just maybe, he's looking at porn! What's the big deal? I encourage my husband to look at porn. It makes him understand that I TRUST him. I know he's not going to go out and screw around on me just because he's looking at some naked chick getting it... It also encourages him to be honest with me... if he knows i'm not bothered by something he's more likely to tell me about it. no secrets. It also takes away the 'excitement' factor of doing something that could get him in trouble. Maybe you overreact sometimes and he's trying to keep you from yelling at him, or accusing him of something he's not doing but will be damned to the reaction he'd get even if he was... Just chill out and talk to your husband. It's really not as scary as some people think. ;)

Good luck, honey. I know it's hard, but remember that you love him, and he loves you.

Answer 6

If you want to get help on the computer you need to post the question in the computer category.
You could try to hit the google arrow and see the computer history. Hit the little half arrow pointing down next to the go and the history will show up if he didn't cancel it somehow.

Answer 7

Go on line to 'Keylogger.com' or 'Webwatcher.com' then you will be able to see everything he is doing on line. He is having an on line affair. Don't sit there with your hat over your eyes, find out what he's up to. It is your right as his wife to find out what he is doing behind your back. Hire a private investigator if you can afford one, or have a good friend follow him around.

Answer 8

If your marriage is in such bad shape that you need to start spying on his on-line activities then you should be seeking a marriage counselor, not spying techniques. You are only going to find out stuff you don't want to know if you start spying on him. Seek counseling and get to the root of the problem.

Answer 9

Get a keystroke tracker thing. Then go to dating web site he is on, send a fake pic, set up a date. Maybe tell him to meet you at a motel, (you can leave him there) and you know what to do from there.

Answer 10

Don't get mad. Get even. Tell him you are upset by his behaviours and thinking of doing the same. See how he feels about it. If he cares, you worry too much. If he does not, you have to move on.